Topic: I know it sounds like an oxymoron
Peccy's photo
Thu 08/07/08 05:31 AM
Have you ever hated loving someone?

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Thu 08/07/08 05:35 AM
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yes.... lovew to hate them... hate to love them

ahuhalicious's photo
Thu 08/07/08 05:37 AM
just myself laugh blushing sad

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Thu 08/07/08 05:37 AM
I think anyone who is in a marriage or relationship that isn't working, heading/middle of a divorce can understand this feeling.

It's the learning to let go of the hate that's the hard part. grumble

italio69's photo
Thu 08/07/08 05:46 AM
oh yeah my ex wife but i guess it wasnt meant to be

RoamingOrator's photo
Thu 08/07/08 06:03 AM
Oh yeah, I've fought loving someone the whole way.noway I thought she was trouble when I first met her, and it turned out, I was right!!surprised

I ended up loving her anyway.slaphead Still do, but I've never stopped loving anyone.blushing

no photo
Thu 08/07/08 06:14 AM
Actually, it's a true phenomenon. When I love someone so intensely, it's hard not to resent or hate that person since they have so much influence on everything in my life.

Goofball73's photo
Thu 08/07/08 06:24 AM

Have you ever hated loving someone?


Yeah I did, but soon I figured out that it wasn't love but twas lust. After that, I felt better and didn't hate myself.

feistybaby's photo
Thu 08/07/08 06:26 AM
Edited by feistybaby on Thu 08/07/08 06:26 AM
yes I have and I knew they were bad for me but I loved them anyways....

Goofball73's photo
Thu 08/07/08 06:27 AM

yes I have and I knew they were bad for me but I loved them anyways....


Bad people are just so fun to love huh?.....Well, for a moment they are anyways.laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 08/07/08 06:28 AM
I think once in your life , you get to do that ohwell

BlueskyJ's photo
Thu 08/07/08 06:45 AM

I think anyone who is in a marriage or relationship that isn't working, heading/middle of a divorce can understand this feeling.

It's the learning to let go of the hate that's the hard part. grumble

WoW...well said flowerforyou fits my experience perfectly

dawnyhi's photo
Thu 08/07/08 07:05 AM
mine is just now pitty... but sometimes love has to be harsh if you think there is an issue that a person has to deal with and they won't and they are harming you...

I would hate love if the love made me into a bad person or a no person trying to fix someone or lead their life.

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 08/07/08 07:08 AM

I think anyone who is in a marriage or relationship that isn't working, heading/middle of a divorce can understand this feeling.

It's the learning to let go of the hate that's the hard part. grumble


So true but within time it does happenbigsmile