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Sweet now I know I'm not the only one
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Just to let you ladies know.....it happens to us guys as well.
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Just to let you ladies know.....it happens to us guys as well. I'm not surprise to hear that.....I'm sure it happens to everyone 
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Yep. Everyone gets gunshy when they have been hurt too many times.
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You will feel less fear once you realize how empowered you can feel with something that's a very natural part of you as a woman: your sexuality.
Your sexuality can empower you. I believe that a woman feels more lost, confused, frustrated and powerless if she loses touch with her sexuality. I would recommend just going out to a bar for a fun night out socializing. Don't think about meeting a man; just have fun and let it happen if it happens. When the opportunity arises, exercise your sexuality (all the way from the ice-breaker to the bedroom) and let it give you some clarity as a woman. |
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I was in a relationship for a very long time and about 4 or 5 years ago I ended it (wasn't the best of relationship)....I'm not say I haven't gone out between than and now for I have, but devoted most of my time with my kids. I so want to go out and find someone I can spend time with but there is one thing that is stopping me.....I'm scared to try it again, I'm not sure why. How can I overcome this being scared anyone have an idea what I can do??? It takes time to be ready again Time to heal and stuff Don't rush into anything You'll know when you are ready Good luck 
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Ruth -- I guess we are like in somewhat the same boat.....The thing is I have no problem talking and flirting with guys I know as friends in this online game we all play....we even talk on teamspeak too......but than when I start talking with guys in places like these I just don't know what to say to them and I just like click and shut down the window (I know it's rude but can't help it.) I don't do that to everyone and have talked to at least one guy....but I still found it hard to talk with him and wanted to just click and shut down the window but I didn't. I don't know maybe that was the first step and maybe eventually I will overcome this
Us guys do have the same problem. I think the key is, be yourself. And don't be afraid to step out of the box. It's a risk I think we all take. You can't win every round, sometimes you have to wait to try again.
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easier said than done....but I know what to do and eventually I will kick myself out the door and face whatever comes my way......gotta be strong......lol
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You want to know how to over come your fear of datting again? Take your time getting to know somone and if they have any respect for you at all. They will give you all the time you need.
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You want to know how to over come your fear of datting again? Take your time getting to know somone and if they have any respect for you at all. They will give you all the time you need. sweet
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I do not know if anyone has said this to you, and maybe done it better, but I will try.
You are more valuable, as a woman and a friend and potential mate, than you once were. I am sure that your younger self was equally awesome in that day, but you've grown and know more about yourself and your world and priorities. Life has changed, and you are stepping out with larger wings, able to fly in a manner that differs from just yesteryear. I think that a bit of flying for the familiarity of this new life is essential, and frightening at first. And of course there will be strains and a bit of awkwardness as you experience more. But you will find the expressions of your innate grace equal and superior to the tasks that you set for yourself. Enjoy the flight. You are your own 'mile high' goal setter. Have a blessed time. |
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