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Topic: DO people mistake your
lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Wed 08/06/08 11:34 AM
niceness as weakness? Yah, I find this true alot... truth is I am sweet only up to a point...and that is no weakness, that is my strength!

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Wed 08/06/08 11:36 AM
Oh, yeah, all the time. But, once this little Mount Etna finally spews, they get the picture!!!

Beavis31 Joined Sat 07/07/07 Posts: 542	Wed 08/06/08 11:37 AM
yes yes yes.... i just had a woman say i was too nice for her...

Flukybard Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 230	Wed 08/06/08 11:37 AM
yeah, times like that make me want to turn into an ***hole. but i could never do it, its not in my nature to be like that.

yayforchae Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3135	Wed 08/06/08 11:39 AM
a lot of people mistake my being nice for my flirting with them...

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 08/06/08 11:40 AM
Yes, and then when I become a b*tch they cry about it... People who truly love and respect you won't do that.

ricg Joined Thu 06/05/08 Posts: 307	Wed 08/06/08 11:40 AM
always!

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Wed 08/06/08 11:40 AM
i agree with you. it takes a lot of strength to be genuinely nice to people it shows a characteristic of selflessness and generosity which are qualities found in those that have a true sense of strength of character.

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Wed 08/06/08 11:40 AM
Nope, because generally Im an asshole.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Wed 08/06/08 11:41 AM
All the time, then they are pissed when they push too far & I push back.

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Wed 08/06/08 11:41 AM
niceness as weakness? Yah, I find this true alot... truth is I am sweet only up to a point...and that is no weakness, that is my strength! Yeah, in the past, but I pretty much did away with my niceness. I find that being fair and non partial earns more respect. People do often see excessive niceness as a weakness yes.

ricg Joined Thu 06/05/08 Posts: 307	Wed 08/06/08 11:42 AM
Nope, because generally Im an asshole.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Wed 08/06/08 11:42 AM
All the time, then they are pissed when they push too far & I push back. BINGO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Wed 08/06/08 11:42 AM
All the time, then they are pissed when they push too far & I push back. Yeah, cos their dream of an easy target just flew out the window HA!

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Wed 08/06/08 11:43 AM
a lot of people mistake my being nice for my flirting with them... YOu really wern't flirting wiff me!?

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Wed 08/06/08 11:43 AM
niceness as weakness? Yah, I find this true alot... truth is I am sweet only up to a point...and that is no weakness, that is my strength! happens all the time and it does not help that I am only 4 ft 11 ..lol

BobbyJ Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 1368	Wed 08/06/08 11:45 AM
Yes, until they try to use my perceived weakness, then they find just out how strong I can be!

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Wed 08/06/08 11:45 AM
Nope...everyone knows I'm evil

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Wed 08/06/08 11:45 AM
niceness as weakness? Yah, I find this true alot... truth is I am sweet only up to a point...and that is no weakness, that is my strength! I hear you this one lilangel...and they will know when they've gone to far....most definitely

yayforchae Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3135	Wed 08/06/08 11:45 AM
a lot of people mistake my being nice for my flirting with them... YOu really wern't flirting wiff me!? I said a lot of people... not all people! My flirts with you were totally real