Unfortunately, only time will heal. It frackin' stinks but, it is the truth. I do recommend listening to Tina Turner's "What Love Got To Do With It" while singing as loud as possible.

def leppard - bringin on the heartache is another good one

Heheh blasting a few different songs have helped. I think I pissed off my neighbors a bit, but thats ok... Things are a little easier, but now shes trying to call me. Its like everything I do is for nothing whenever she calls, I kinda slump back down into that low mood.

don't play that game...just don't answer and it'll save alot of stress (even if the feeling are still there). You'll never move on if you keep answering the phone when she calls. After a while you might be able to talk and not have the heart ache come back.

caller id. Don't answer. Block her calls if you can. If it brings you down, then she isn't good for you.

Sometimes, (especially if you are caring a soul), people expect you to always be there (to be their doormat) but, you also need to take care of yourself.

I am the type that is always striving to be fair (even when it is not to my advantage) but, when it comes to break-ups. I have learned (the hard way) that I need to take care of myself 1st. Yes, she may need a friend, but she needs to also recognize that this is a tough time for you & she needs to find that friend or shoulder elsewhere. If you try telling her this.

p.s.
I have to 2nd the def leopard music as well + any really angry metal music works. Avoid sappy love songs!

On second thoughts, avoid sappy loves songs unless you are a middle aged woman that just realized that she is middle aged. In that case, I recommend the soundtrack from "Bridget Jones Diary". I also highly recommend a high brush + ice scream (the good stuff!) + uncomb hair (hair brush for singing purposes only).