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Maybe I'm just being naive... If you send someone a message, just a normal hi how are you, cool profile, etc. Nothing creepy and you don't ever hear back, can you send a follow up and ask what the problem is. Or is that too desperate?
I'm sure this has been discussed before on here so some of you pros give this newcomer some advice. |
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sounds desperate to me. Just take it as a sign that they aren't interested and move on.
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If they dont reply to my email I forget about them.
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to desparate...let it go
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If I get a mail that says:
"Hi" "Wanna chat?" "Nice pics" "How are you?" Those are not worthy of a reply. They are generic and thoughless. JMO |
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Maybe I'm just being naive... If you send someone a message, just a normal hi how are you, cool profile, etc. Nothing creepy and you don't ever hear back, can you send a follow up and ask what the problem is. Or is that too desperate? I'm sure this has been discussed before on here so some of you pros give this newcomer some advice. |
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to desparate...let it go i sent you some desperate ones....eventually they get sick of you and reply...i say keep going... |
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If I get a mail that says: "Hi" "Wanna chat?" "Nice pics" "How are you?" Those are not worthy of a reply. They are generic and thoughless. JMO |
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no reply let it go
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~checks email
nope wasnt me |
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to desparate...let it go i sent you some desperate ones....eventually they get sick of you and reply...i say keep going... |
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to desparate...let it go i sent you some desperate ones....eventually they get sick of you and reply...i say keep going... sorry to disclose that i just luv you as a friend |
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~checks email nope wasnt me personally though i dont take the time to write most back because they dont take the time to read my profile |
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If I get a mail that says: "Hi" "Wanna chat?" "Nice pics" "How are you?" Those are not worthy of a reply. They are generic and thoughless. JMO Sounds like conversation starters to me. Better then some "Wanna do the nasty" or other derogitory remarks. WOA! Where is that delete button?!?! |
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~checks email nope wasnt me personally though i dont take the time to write most back because they dont take the time to read my profile Actually I did read your profile and would have sent you an email but I was outside of your age range. Wow, now I do sound desperate. |
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wait you sound desperate for reading my profile?
wow thanks there buddy |
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never give up some stalkers do get their prey
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wait you sound desperate for reading my profile? wow thanks there buddy Not the way I meant it. I suck at this, no wonder my inbox is empty. |
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I'd wait to get a reply, you can see if your mail was read. I
If you dont get a response, chalk it up as a loss (their loss ) Join the forums, make friends, have fun, share a laugh, advice or a shoulder |
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If I get a mail that says: "Hi" "Wanna chat?" "Nice pics" "How are you?" Those are not worthy of a reply. They are generic and thoughless. JMO Sounds like conversation starters to me. Better then some "Wanna do the nasty" or other derogitory remarks. WOA! Where is that delete button?!?! True, better than "Lets have sex...." Very good point! But I prefer a personal touch or at least a hint they read my profile. If there is no effort involved why should I reply? When I do 99% of the time I keep getting one sentence mails, or the follow up is "hit me up on messenger"... |
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