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Topic: Am I getting used?
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Wed 08/06/08 01:09 AM
Honestly, the girl is playin games with u. She's trying to make u jealous to want her more, but at the same time give u hint. She's being a jerk in this situation.

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Wed 08/06/08 09:50 AM
She isn't really using you. It sounds like you're her boy toy. She's toying with your emotions. Therefore it's affecting your mental stability. She's probably trying to see if you get jealous. That is her way of seeing how much you really care. But to me that's playing games. If she really cares about you, she wouldn't feel the need to get your attention in such a negative way. It sounds like she may have some trust issues. That being said, I certainly do not think she is really ready for a relationship until she sorts out her issues.

On the other hand, she may not be interested anymore. I would have a talk with her and find out for yourself. Make sure you ask all of the right questions to get the answers you're looking for. But be prepared for the possibility of denial and no accountability for her own actions. If this does happen, I wouldn't waste your time. As a matter of fact, I probably wouldn't waste your time anyway. With exception of gaining some closure. Good luck! flowerforyou

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Wed 08/06/08 10:03 AM
Dude dont even bother callin her anymore. Shes wastin ur time playin stupid games like any other person. If she cared she would not do this stuff at all! Get out n meet some girls worth ur time! Im tired with people playin there stupid games! Can they grow a heart and grow up and act mature!

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Wed 08/06/08 10:19 AM
She's playing head games with you big time. You don't want a girl like that whether she is actually hooking up with other guys or not. She needs you to be jealous to make her feel good. Dump her and run. Fast.

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Wed 08/06/08 10:22 AM
That girl is poison.........................dump her.................if she hasnt dumped you first and you didnt know it............indifferent

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Wed 08/06/08 10:27 AM
na na na na na na na na hey hey hey goodbye

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Wed 08/06/08 10:29 AM

she changed her mind about you & is trying to let you know in her own distorted, devious way....

here is what you can do frustrated

and then walk away.....
Gotta agree with this response!!

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Wed 08/06/08 10:42 AM
This one's a shopper man. She's keeping you around while she's shopping for someone else. If she's actually telling you about the "hot guys" she's seeing while out with "her Mom" then she obviously has wandering eyes. If the eyes are wandering how long until the heart follows, even if it's just to see where the eyes are going.

I agree she's not exactly "using" you, but she sure isn't treating you well. If she's leaving doubts in your mind, then listen to your brain, that's why you have it. Don't listen to the heart, that thing will lead you astray fast, actually don't listent to anything below your neck.

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