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Mon 08/04/08 09:08 PM
Yeah had a friend for the past 15 years and she was successful and I was going through a divorce and I was focused in trying to finish school and the girl I think just didnt want me to have what she had.............i thought she was my friend until her true colors showed when I was trying to get things accomplished.............hater thats what you call those toxic people.............

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Mon 08/04/08 09:39 PM


Sure, ill share !!!!!!!!!


There was a girl here at the complex I live in that I met thru one of my friends here.We hit it off quite well(im very cautious of girls as friends cause ive been backstabbed badd) adn all was swell.Well, last yr I lost my job, a few of us hung out still here(i worked here as well as I still live here)even after that.About a month after or so, Id call and Id get no answer, blah blah blah.I thought I had done somethign to offend her.I asked her b/f whi lived and worked here too, but he knew nothing.Yet I heard all was well with them and our other friends here.During that tough time for me, I really needed a friend, someone to lift my spirits up and make me laugh.

She came to my door in Jan and gave me a lame excuse for it.That was the last time UI talked to her...


For me, when a friend needs me, Im there no matter what.


Wow! It really makes you think. When life is good they come back around. Thanks for sharing. I'm always there for my friends too!



It was a really bad time for me and she wasnt there...A reason why I dont trust alot of people, let alone have many friends..esp girls...no offense but only have 3 really good ones I know will be there for me thru anythign and everything...but i let my guard down and shyte happens...my guy friends always come thru for me..

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Mon 08/04/08 10:04 PM



Sure, ill share !!!!!!!!!


There was a girl here at the complex I live in that I met thru one of my friends here.We hit it off quite well(im very cautious of girls as friends cause ive been backstabbed badd) adn all was swell.Well, last yr I lost my job, a few of us hung out still here(i worked here as well as I still live here)even after that.About a month after or so, Id call and Id get no answer, blah blah blah.I thought I had done somethign to offend her.I asked her b/f whi lived and worked here too, but he knew nothing.Yet I heard all was well with them and our other friends here.During that tough time for me, I really needed a friend, someone to lift my spirits up and make me laugh.

She came to my door in Jan and gave me a lame excuse for it.That was the last time UI talked to her...


For me, when a friend needs me, Im there no matter what.


Wow! It really makes you think. When life is good they come back around. Thanks for sharing. I'm always there for my friends too!



It was a really bad time for me and she wasnt there...A reason why I dont trust alot of people, let alone have many friends..esp girls...no offense but only have 3 really good ones I know will be there for me thru anythign and everything...but i let my guard down and shyte happens...my guy friends always come thru for me..


No offense taken. I completely understand where you're coming from. It's difficult to see the forest through the sleaze. But I have learned that I just have to continue to trust and weed out all of the ones that defy my trust. Yes I may get hurt from time to time, but I do not regret it. I have met a lot of wonderful people. :smile:

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