Topic: Heart Broken
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Mon 08/04/08 12:55 PM
Have you ever had your Heart Broken? brokenheart Did you see it coming???? If so, what were the signs???

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 08/04/08 12:56 PM
Nope, suppose I'm a rarity...felt down a couple of times but never to an extent of completly fallout such as heartbroken.

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Mon 08/04/08 01:01 PM
never been heartbroken because i've never been in love
i've been with a lot of women and none of them left a (good) lasting impression
also, i'm always the one to break up with them, i've never been broken up with (thus far)

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Mon 08/04/08 01:07 PM
Amazing never had your heartbroken.... I've had my heartbroken on a few occasions. The first time as a teenage was the absolute worse.brokenheart I've grown from each experience. I'm a little kid at heart & ancient old man at the same time.:wink:

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Mon 08/04/08 01:08 PM
Yes, I have been extremely brokenheart when I thought that for 6 years I was going to spend the rest of my life with this person, he was the "one"... only to find out he had been continually lying to me and cheating.. I ended things, never looked back (never contacted him) cried for a month straight, perhaps even more, I literally made myself sick.. but picked myself and moved on.. he wasn't worthy of my love. :cry: grumble

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Mon 08/04/08 01:10 PM
I also have to add.. that it took me a little over a year before I became open enough to try dating again.. and now I'm here after 1.5yrs later.

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Mon 08/04/08 01:13 PM
Yes, I have, it stinks to put it extremely mildly. I did not see it coming. Although in hindsight, I should have. I'd say the signs are the person doesn't talk to you, doesn't flirt with you. Has to "work" a lot and so avoids being around you.

I'm in about the same place as Jules. I was with the guy for 5 years, thought it was "the one" turned out he lied, cheated, etc... He lied from day one, but I didn't want to see it.

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Mon 08/04/08 01:14 PM
yep right now actually .i had met her on here we had been dating for about a year and a half the distance got to be to much and we just recently split it amazing how much joy one can bring to another and how much pain you feel when the one who touched your heart like no other is no longer there.but as far as signs i saw it coming we started to have a breakdown in communication for a few we still talk and love each other very the distance was just to much.

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Mon 08/04/08 01:19 PM
Oh I sure did! I was 14 and had a crush on this boy for a long time. He went to a private school so we only saw each other if we were out playing. Finally, after flirting with each other for over a year, me and my friends were hanging out and they left us alone and he finally told me he liked me for a long time and wanted me to be his girlfriend. Then he kissed me. I thought I was in heaven. And the best part was since we were entering High School, he was going to be in the same school as me. Then guess what happened? My Mom decided to move us clear across the U.S. to start over after divorcing my Dad. You talk about being crushed. I thought my life was over and cried for days. It's weird how the memories of your first heartbreak never go away. Oh well.

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Mon 08/04/08 01:21 PM

yep right now actually .i had met her on here we had been dating for about a year and a half the distance got to be to much and we just recently split it amazing how much joy one can bring to another and how much pain you feel when the one who touched your heart like no other is no longer there.but as far as signs i saw it coming we started to have a breakdown in communication for a few we still talk and love each other very the distance was just to much.


Oh now that is sad!tears flowerforyou

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Mon 08/04/08 01:24 PM


yep right now actually .i had met her on here we had been dating for about a year and a half the distance got to be to much and we just recently split it amazing how much joy one can bring to another and how much pain you feel when the one who touched your heart like no other is no longer there.but as far as signs i saw it coming we started to have a breakdown in communication for a few we still talk and love each other very the distance was just to much.


Oh now that is sad!tears flowerforyou
its cool i go freinds who do truelly care and im staying busy trying not to let it get to me.also her and i still talk and will always be very close even if we arent together.

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Mon 08/04/08 01:29 PM
Heartbroken? Which story to you want? Adultry, betrail or tragedy? I'll tell anyone one story, friends two, no one has knowledge of all of them.

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Mon 08/04/08 02:24 PM
Yes.

I fell deep in love about 5 years ago. I am talking monumental, full body, total heart love. And he reciprocated. He persued me and he got me and I was so happy.

After three years of this bliss, he stopped the love. How is that for a stymie?

To this day I do not know why he stopped loving me, why he no longer wanted marriage and a family (because it was he who proposed it all).

He won't tell me why it went wrong. So I am forced to conclude on my own that either it was another woman or he is gay. That was almost 6 mos ago now. I refuse to be jaded or callous in the ways of love but...

My heart is tender now because it has experienced love for the first time and now I am like a jaguar.

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Mon 08/04/08 02:38 PM
yes...saw it coming, tried to stop it, failed miserably, got over it, moved on, refused to go back for a second shot....once I read a book...I close it! Everything happens for a reason....when one door closes, another one opens flowerforyou

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Mon 08/04/08 02:45 PM

Heartbroken? Which story to you want? Adultry, betrail or tragedy? I'll tell anyone one story, friends two, no one has knowledge of all of them.


Apparently my tales aren't worthy. That's okay, in all honesty I didn't see any of them coming.

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Mon 08/04/08 04:20 PM
Edited by Unknow on Mon 08/04/08 04:21 PM
hurt many times..but broken only once and I will probally never let anyone close enough to do that again.

Seen it? maybe with blinders on ohwell

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Mon 08/04/08 04:21 PM
Yep....when he died