he doesnt seem to be to interested in spending time with me and last time i bought it up hes all like im busy i have a life. we've been on and off for over a year now...hes the one always coming back to want to "work things out" he makes suggestions but never follows them through even when i keep bringing them up...we barely see each other and even talking to each other seems to be dying down.....i dont really want to break up but how or what can i say to him that im getting bored with this so called relationship and things need to improve for us to work anything out at all

If he does not have time for you, find someone who does!

If he "has a life", why hasn't he made you part of it?

I don't think he is into this relationship.

Forget about him
come right in
we'll have ourselves a ball
Dirty deeds, done dirt cheep

You may not want to break it up, but looks like it's pretty darn broken already. Seems you two just want to hang on by a thread. Perhaps you are too scared, complacent, or used to the dynamics even if they are negative, to move on. Why on earth would you WANT this to continue? If you were on the outside looking in, you'd cut and run.

The one thing i think people do wrong in a relationship, is they forget that they had a life.
Once you give up most of that to be with a person, thet sometimes lose interest. They best thing you can do, is regain some of the life, or interest you had. That will get his attention, just as fast as you telling him. Good Luck

it's bad news. as the others have said, he's not treating you as a loved one but rather as the fall back option. i'm afraid this is one of those let's take a break (with no communication for a long time) situations. lean on your friends and find someone who really wants to be with you! you deserve it!!

you can't tell someone in this situation that you need more.
if they aren't already offering it...then the feeling which
is needed just isn't there.

Some people just aren't meant to be together.

He is just using you when it is convenient for him. You need to move on and find someone else. I know sometimes that is easier said then done when you care about someone but trust me when I say that if you bring it up to him about feeling neglected he will say you are just nagging. If he has no time now it will not get any better. Sorry

Let me tell you since it seems no one else is willing to do more than dance with the subject.


You are just a booty call. He tells you a few sweet things when he needs some action, and is constantly looking elsewhere. Don't let him string you along, get rid of him, and don't look back.

It sucks, but I think he's right.....what a shame! Might be time to cut ties and move on.

I hate it when I'm right.