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Topic: Ok ladies...
Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Fri 08/01/08 10:26 PM
The way to my heart is honesty. The ability to open up and share themselves (vice versa). Mutual respect. And a wonderful sense of humor. No Ben Stein for me! They have to have personality. AS I have said before...next time you find yourself in Michigan.... LOL

chuck35 Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 496	Sat 08/02/08 03:32 AM
Ive always told people if you can confuse a woman with something shinny then there isnt any reason to find her heart just get her panties off and send her home and why r u single Cause i was bringing home over a thousand dollars a week and she couldnt figuer out how to pay the bills.Wasnt cause the rock wasnt shinny

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sat 08/02/08 03:45 AM
take th beer from giggles

chuck35 Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 496	Sat 08/02/08 03:50 AM
morning joe riding anywhere today

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Sat 08/02/08 03:55 AM
being romantic and thoughful~ honesty, faithfulness, and integrity will keep you there though~

trace78 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 284	Sat 08/02/08 04:24 AM
i would say for me it would have to be a great kisser I second this, add a great pair of eyes, and u got my heart among other things

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sat 08/02/08 04:33 AM
nooooooooooooooooooo quickest way to a mans hart is straight thru the chest with a dagger!! Yep that is oh so true

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sat 08/02/08 04:34 AM
Bit strong arms to hold me

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Sat 08/02/08 04:36 AM
....what is the quickest way to a woman's heart. They say the quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but I have never heard a saying like that for women. a 308 weatherby

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Sat 08/02/08 04:46 AM
depends on the woman...and to be honest half the time we don't even know........shhhhhhhhh don't tell anyone I told you, eh You werent supposed to tell

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Sat 08/02/08 04:46 AM
Ive always told people if you can confuse a woman with something shinny then there isnt any reason to find her heart just get her panties off and send her home

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sat 08/02/08 04:54 AM
Just like a man Ive always told people if you can confuse a woman with something shinny then there isnt any reason to find her heart just get her panties off and send her home

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Sat 08/02/08 05:34 AM
Unfortunately, too often, that " bonus " actually winds up becoming the biggest part. Not to all. But definitely to most. If a guy can't make a woman feel " financially secure " then eventually, all the other good things are put to the side. not true. Not all women are for sale to the highest bidder. We are not all going to swoon over shoes and jewelery. In every relationship I have ever been in, I made more money. I just don't care about that part of it. Show me kindness and wit, and I am hooked.

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Sat 08/02/08 05:36 AM
Unfortunately, too often, that " bonus " actually winds up becoming the biggest part. Not to all. But definitely to most. If a guy can't make a woman feel " financially secure " then eventually, all the other good things are put to the side. "financially secure" and "fat wallet" are two different things...to me anyway To me, they are pretty much the same thing. no they're not...paying your bills and taking care of your responsibilities with what you have is financially secure, not fat wallet Ummm...I take care of what I have to, and I usually have a little left over....but there will definitely be no retirement plan for me....that's definitely not " financially secure ". lol hey. I am in the same boat for a number of different reasons.

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Sat 08/02/08 05:38 AM
Ive always told people if you can confuse a woman with something shinny then there isnt any reason to find her heart just get her panties off and send her home and why r u single Cause i was bringing home over a thousand dollars a week and she couldnt figuer out how to pay the bills.Wasnt cause the rock wasnt shinny hmmm..a thousand a week is not all that much for two people..I make more than that and I struggle to pay everything I have to.

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Sat 08/02/08 07:12 AM
I think my 'wish list' has definitely changed with age, maturity and experience. The things that seemed oh-so-important in my 20's don't even register anymore. One thing I realize now that would mean the world to me is to have a man who is ready to defend my honour at every turn -- who's not afraid to speak up when a family member or friend makes a callous remark, even in jest, that is slightly derogatory. I can't stand to hear men belittle their SO's (or vice versa) for the sake of a laugh, to me it undermines the entire relationship. I guess this falls under respect, but it's something I have my eyes and ears wide open to at this stage in my life.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sat 08/02/08 10:36 AM
I think my 'wish list' has definitely changed with age, maturity and experience. The things that seemed oh-so-important in my 20's don't even register anymore. One thing I realize now that would mean the world to me is to have a man who is ready to defend my honour at every turn -- who's not afraid to speak up when a family member or friend makes a callous remark, even in jest, that is slightly derogatory. I can't stand to hear men belittle their SO's (or vice versa) for the sake of a laugh, to me it undermines the entire relationship. I guess this falls under respect, but it's something I have my eyes and ears wide open to at this stage in my life. Hmmm...now this one is kinda tough for me. The thing is, my family, when we get together, takes great delight in throwing insults around at each other. It's all in good fun, and it's just the way we are. The woman I am with would have to be able to dish it out as well as be able to take it without getting offended because with my family, that's just the way it is. It isn't a lack of respect, just a way to welcome someone to the family. I know. It sounds odd, but you would have to know my Dad and brothers and sister to really understand it. I think you would go into shock because of some of the things my family says to each other. Meanwhile, we would all be rolling on the ground, unable to breathe and unable to stop laughing.

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Sat 08/02/08 11:22 AM
respect, consideration...and a nice pair of eyes, is always nice

alicat4213 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9079	Sat 08/02/08 11:25 AM
gratefulness for the things she does no matter how small they are, respect, a gorgeous smile, an intimate kiss and a soft touch.. ooo I jsut gave myself goosebumps

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sat 08/02/08 12:40 PM
gratefulness for the things she does no matter how small they are, respect, a gorgeous smile, an intimate kiss and a soft touch.. ooo I jsut gave myself goosebumps LOL> Settle down now....