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Topic: I Can't Stop Shaking and Crying
whispertoascream's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:41 PM
I was just followed home. I was at my work (not working) having a coffee. And this guy pulls up and started staring at me. I thought nothing of it at the time, because people there stare all the time. They are weird. But anyways, he goes in gets a coffee and comes out and starts to drink it by his car. My friend and I go into the shop to say good bye to the person working, and so I can grab a coffee to take home with me. We left and the guy was still there drinking his coffee. No big deal i thought at the time. We stopped at the bar across the street to say hi to one of the bouncers on the way home. And the guy pulls down the side street that we were on. He left the same time we did. That is when I was starting to get a little spooked. My friend and I continued to walk home and two minutes later we see him AGAIN! We decided to walk a different way then he was driving. We get close to home (she lives in my building.) and down a quiet side street guess what?! YUP! There he was YeT AGAIN! At that moment I started running towards home, in my heals! I could not get home fast enough. Now I am crying and shaking like mad! :cry:

lgo's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:42 PM
oh, thats scary. call the police.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:42 PM
flowerforyou If you see him again call the copsflowerforyou

whispertoascream's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:43 PM
I did not get a plate number, so it will not help much. I was just wanting to get home.

Queene123's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:43 PM
nothing you can really do, unless he trys to grab for you. as when i was younger i would once a month be waiting at this buss stop and the same guy would pull up and ask me for a ride, and i never felt right about him, i did call the police and they said as long as he didnt grab for me they couldnt do anything

lgo's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:44 PM

I did not get a plate number, so it will not help much. I was just wanting to get home.
the police will keep an eye on you tonight if you call.

missy51970's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:45 PM
I agree hunny call the police..you can at least describe this man to them .. and maybe they can make sure hes not still lurking around...make sure your doors are locked up tight ...Now Im worrying about you flowerforyou

kayliz88's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:45 PM
Keep all your windows and doors locked(which I am sure you have already done) and if you see him again, call the police. If you walk home from work again, always make sure someone is with you...and keep your cell phone handy...

LAMom's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:45 PM
Call the police anyways, even if you did not get a plate #,, they will send a car to patrol the streets and may give you a sense of calm...

Rest,,,flowerforyou

whispertoascream's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:45 PM

nothing you can really do, unless he trys to grab for you. as when i was younger i would once a month be waiting at this buss stop and the same guy would pull up and ask me for a ride, and i never felt right about him, i did call the police and they said as long as he didnt grab for me they couldnt do anything


It is called stalking and yes there is something that you can do about that. As it is against the law.

Moondark's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:46 PM
Edited by Moondark on Thu 07/31/08 10:47 PM

I did not get a plate number, so it will not help much. I was just wanting to get home.


Actually, if you got a good look at his face, and any description of a vehicle, it is better to report it. That way, if anyone else reports a similar thing, or anything happens to anyone, the police have at least some sort of information.

Similar thing happened to me and a friend, during the day, back in 6th grade. Later that day we heard on the news he was arrested at the local beach.

It always better to report than to do nothing.

lavos28's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:46 PM
omg make sure he isnt near your home

Queene123's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:47 PM


nothing you can really do, unless he trys to grab for you. as when i was younger i would once a month be waiting at this buss stop and the same guy would pull up and ask me for a ride, and i never felt right about him, i did call the police and they said as long as he didnt grab for me they couldnt do anything


It is called stalking and yes there is something that you can do about that. As it is against the law.


how could had it been stalking when that was the only time i saw that guy. and after a few months i didnt see him after that.. it was only a few times
so it wasent stalking

Moondark's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:49 PM



nothing you can really do, unless he trys to grab for you. as when i was younger i would once a month be waiting at this buss stop and the same guy would pull up and ask me for a ride, and i never felt right about him, i did call the police and they said as long as he didnt grab for me they couldnt do anything


It is called stalking and yes there is something that you can do about that. As it is against the law.


how could had it been stalking when that was the only time i saw that guy. and after a few months i didnt see him after that.. it was only a few times
so it wasent stalking


Correct. But if he had followed the bus until you got off, and was hanging around your place, then they could have done something. That IS stalking.

awolf1010's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:49 PM
ooooh sorry!!!
was that you???love love

no photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:49 PM
Wow! Scary sheet

Queene123's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:52 PM




nothing you can really do, unless he trys to grab for you. as when i was younger i would once a month be waiting at this buss stop and the same guy would pull up and ask me for a ride, and i never felt right about him, i did call the police and they said as long as he didnt grab for me they couldnt do anything


It is called stalking and yes there is something that you can do about that. As it is against the law.


how could had it been stalking when that was the only time i saw that guy. and after a few months i didnt see him after that.. it was only a few times
so it wasent stalking


Correct. But if he had followed the bus until you got off, and was hanging around your place, then they could have done something. That IS stalking.


he never followed the bus!!!!!
i only saw him at the bus stop that i was at when i was waiting for.

whispertoascream's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:53 PM
I am on the phone right now with the police. Thank you all for your comfort guys.flowerforyou

rodfcutler's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:53 PM

Hope you are allright now? Even though I dont know you,I still have a sense of urgency towards your situation!
Take Care and do what yo must legally,Ok? Would hate to hear something criminally happening to you in any way shape or form! Take Care and dont cry,Ok?:wink:

lgo's photo
Thu 07/31/08 10:53 PM

I am on the phone right now with the police. Thank you all for your comfort guys.flowerforyou
good call! stay safe.

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