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Topic: Why dont woman write men back?
YamilethJ Joined Thu 11/01/07 Posts: 463	Wed 07/30/08 06:45 PM
That is not true......I see your face and I see you as a person that has lots of girlfriends, why i assume that is because you are atractive, so we woman are not looking for that type, a handsome men it is hard to trust until we get to know that person well.....you understand my point of view?

YamilethJ Joined Thu 11/01/07 Posts: 463	Wed 07/30/08 06:47 PM
The same happens to me , I have send several messages to several women and no reply , actually I think they are more materialistic than we men believe , if they don't see in a pic the man of her dreams (an adonis) They just skip that, I cant find other reason That is not true......I see your face and I see you as a person that has lots of girlfriends, why i assume that is because you are atractive, so we woman are not looking for that type, a handsome men it is hard to trust until we get to know that person well.....you understand my point of view?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 07/30/08 06:47 PM
I generally don't have a problem with that, some get back to me, some don't, that's the way it goes!!

YamilethJ Joined Thu 11/01/07 Posts: 463	Wed 07/30/08 06:48 PM
Cause they think there god's gift! that is not true....maybe the ones you met.

metalhead1969 Joined Thu 07/24/08 Posts: 4108	Wed 07/30/08 06:50 PM
have all the women u'v written to looked at ur profile? it might be lack of info or something in it that turns them away... and dude, u just started, give it time

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 07/30/08 06:50 PM
I dont understand what the problem is. Guys are looking for love too. Not ALL of us are in here for a one night stand. Whats the deal are you woman wanting to find real love or are you just looking for the same things most guys are? they r looking for a friend cause how can we be lovers if went cant meet because we live to far apart. also dont let them fool ya remember there is always something better.

sawes Joined Thu 07/26/07 Posts: 28	Wed 07/30/08 06:57 PM
The same happens to me , I have send several messages to several women and no reply , actually I think they are more materialistic than we men believe , if they don't see in a pic the man of her dreams (an adonis) They just skip that, I cant find other reason That is not true......I see your face and I see you as a person that has lots of girlfriends, why i assume that is because you are atractive, so we woman are not looking for that type, a handsome men it is hard to trust until we get to know that person well.....you understand my point of view? Well , I have never thought in that. maybe I should write in my profile, " If i look attractive for you I swear that I don't have girlfriend and I'm very faithful person

YamilethJ Joined Thu 11/01/07 Posts: 463	Wed 07/30/08 07:00 PM
The same happens to me , I have send several messages to several women and no reply , actually I think they are more materialistic than we men believe , if they don't see in a pic the man of her dreams (an adonis) They just skip that, I cant find other reason That is not true......I see your face and I see you as a person that has lots of girlfriends, why i assume that is because you are atractive, so we woman are not looking for that type, a handsome men it is hard to trust until we get to know that person well.....you understand my point of view? Well , I have never thought in that. maybe I should write in my profile, " If i look attractive for you I swear that I don't have girlfriend and I'm very faithful person why not?...the most information you provide it is the only way girls will know.

amt001 Joined Sat 07/26/08 Posts: 17	Thu 07/31/08 07:56 PM
I think that women has the same needs as men, but sometimes we do not reply back because we just do not like the guy, instead of make him loose his time so he can move on, do not categorize us as women or men, we are human being with the same needs and personalities and attitudes it is what make us different to another. Just do not generalize and think that each person can make the difference. Well said..it has nothing to do w/ the gender..we look at pics too, and see if we like the guy or not..I am not gonna waste my time on a dude I am not attracted to. Just like guys will do the same when they see a pic of a woman that they are not feelin'...it will end up in no reply..I hardly send out the initial e-mail soo I hardly get rejected..I think I may have sent out 3 initial e-mails since I signed up on here. With that said I write back everyone whether they are attractive or not. They took the time to write and I got one today telling me plain and simple we are not a match. I respect that. I wont be writting her back but gezz are people so shallow that cant even do that?

amt001 Joined Sat 07/26/08 Posts: 17	Thu 07/31/08 07:58 PM
have all the women u'v written to looked at ur profile? it might be lack of info or something in it that turns them away... and dude, u just started, give it time Thanks I have tons of info and maxed out on the pics.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76438	Thu 07/31/08 08:06 PM
Humm could it be that men are more visual and they only write the ones that look like eye candy and fail to write the ones that are here looking for a relationship that starts off as friends first?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Thu 07/31/08 08:10 PM
Cause I eated them all.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Thu 07/31/08 08:13 PM
Humm could it be that men are more visual and they only write the ones that look like eye candy and fail to write the ones that are here looking for a relationship that starts off as friends first? yup

amt001 Joined Sat 07/26/08 Posts: 17	Sat 08/02/08 10:18 PM
Humm could it be that men are more visual and they only write the ones that look like eye candy and fail to write the ones that are here looking for a relationship that starts off as friends first? yup I agree to the visual...But I still write back no matter what. Interested or not.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sat 08/02/08 10:28 PM
I always reply.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sat 08/02/08 10:32 PM
have all the women u'v written to looked at ur profile? it might be lack of info or something in it that turns them away... and dude, u just started, give it time Thanks I have tons of info and maxed out on the pics. Your profile is fine. Some people are just rude, especially if they think they are so pretty they can get away with it.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 08/02/08 10:32 PM
I dont understand what the problem is. Guys are looking for love too. Not ALL of us are in here for a one night stand. Whats the deal are you woman wanting to find real love or are you just looking for the same things most guys are? Because I eated all teh nice guyz.

faithfullguy31 Joined Sat 06/21/08 Posts: 217	Sat 08/02/08 10:38 PM
Look at it this way. If your attracted to them then let them know. If they are not attracted to you then it obviously isn't going to work out. Don't take it personally if they don't respond. Everyone has thier own idea of what is attractive to them. Don't settle for something you don't like, I'm sure they aren't going to.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Sat 08/02/08 10:40 PM


itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 08/02/08 10:43 PM Edited by itsmetina on Sat 08/02/08 10:47 PM
its not always that we think guys are not attractive i haven't replied to guys with nice bodies before.It might be that they look conceited or they live too far or that i'm just in the i don't care mood