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Topic: They made an appointment for you
MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:20 AM
:smile: Please, be honest.:smile: If someone you were close with approached you and said that they made an appointment for you to go get counseling, with a therapist, how would you react? :smile: What emotion would you feel?:smile:

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:23 AM
I would simply say "Do I look 'crazy' to you?"

TheShadow's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:23 AM

:smile: Please, be honest.:smile: If someone you were close with approached you and said that they made an appointment for you to go get counseling, with a therapist, how would you react? :smile: What emotion would you feel?:smile:


Why, when they know i know already that i'm nutslaugh

Cinderella75's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:24 AM
Well it really depends how much in denial I was w/ myself about the whole counceling thing..and if I thought I needed it..so really depending on that I would either be thankful to the friend (that you said was close to me) made that move, because I was still on that edge, or I would be very upset, b/c I am in denial and feel that I don't need help.

no photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:25 AM
I'd ask if she was going to pay the bill. If yes, then I'd go...

ledi180's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:25 AM
The initial feeling would be shock. I might be a little off once in a while, but I don't need anyone making therapy sessions for me.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:25 AM

I would simply say "Do I look 'crazy' to you?"
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chevylover1965's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:25 AM
huh huh noway

TheShadow's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:25 AM

Well it really depends how much in denial I was w/ myself about the whole counceling thing..and if I thought I needed it..so really depending on that I would either be thankful to the friend (that you said was close to me) made that move, because I was still on that edge, or I would be very upset, b/c I am in denial and feel that I don't need help.


If your in denial, it don't matter what anyone says and mostlikely you would take it wrong.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:26 AM
laugh I wouldnt go if someone did that to me.laugh

elsathebloody's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:26 AM
I would be offended, because they're taking my life into their hands and would tell them that if they thought I needed to see a therapist, they should have told me and told me the reasons why I should.

Cinderella75's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:27 AM


Well it really depends how much in denial I was w/ myself about the whole counceling thing..and if I thought I needed it..so really depending on that I would either be thankful to the friend (that you said was close to me) made that move, because I was still on that edge, or I would be very upset, b/c I am in denial and feel that I don't need help.


If your in denial, it don't matter what anyone says and mostlikely you would take it wrong.


yea thats what I said..in denial=pissed off
if I was kinda on the edge and past the denial stage= a bit thankfull maby to have s/o help me make the first step?

Goofball73's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:29 AM

:smile: Please, be honest.:smile: If someone you were close with approached you and said that they made an appointment for you to go get counseling, with a therapist, how would you react? :smile: What emotion would you feel?:smile:


I'd start crying like a little baby, dropping to the ground, kicking and screaming...until they left.

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:30 AM


:smile: Please, be honest.:smile: If someone you were close with approached you and said that they made an appointment for you to go get counseling, with a therapist, how would you react? :smile: What emotion would you feel?:smile:


I'd start crying like a little baby, dropping to the ground, kicking and screaming...until they left.


My word...What extreme...You'll have an audience.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:31 AM


:smile: Please, be honest.:smile: If someone you were close with approached you and said that they made an appointment for you to go get counseling, with a therapist, how would you react? :smile: What emotion would you feel?:smile:


I'd start crying like a little baby, dropping to the ground, kicking and screaming...until they left.
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briancarr's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:33 AM
Edited by briancarr on Wed 07/30/08 06:33 AM
I have been on both sides of the coin.
One time my ex made an appointment for me to go. I went to keep the relationship going. I have no intentions on getting anything out of it other than to keep sleeping with my Wife.
A few years later i made the appointment, we agreed to go, but by that time we were done.
You have to be true to yourself, and others, or it make no difference who makes the appointmentfrustrated

no photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:33 AM

:smile: Please, be honest.:smile: If someone you were close with approached you and said that they made an appointment for you to go get counseling, with a therapist, how would you react? :smile: What emotion would you feel?:smile:


devil I would tell them that I didnt need therapy,but my other personalities might...then poke them in the eye and runlaugh laugh laugh

TheShadow's photo
Wed 07/30/08 06:47 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Wed 07/30/08 06:50 AM



Well it really depends how much in denial I was w/ myself about the whole counceling thing..and if I thought I needed it..so really depending on that I would either be thankful to the friend (that you said was close to me) made that move, because I was still on that edge, or I would be very upset, b/c I am in denial and feel that I don't need help.


If your in denial, it don't matter what anyone says and mostlikely you would take it wrong.


yea thats what I said..in denial=pissed off
if I was kinda on the edge and past the denial stage= a bit thankfull maby to have s/o help me make the first step?


you said it really depends, either you are or you notlaugh :tongue: :wink: I'm just giving you a hard time:smile:

and the fisrt step would be admiting your all mest uplaugh

oldsage's photo
Wed 07/30/08 07:15 AM
I would ask if you were going along.
WE must have issues, in your mind.

whispertoascream's photo
Wed 07/30/08 07:21 AM
My friend actually did for me a couple of months ago. I declined. I mean I know I need it. But it would have caused me more harm then good. And she understood it.

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