Ok, so I have this friend who recently came back into my life. We go back a long ways. And basically, I want to know what are some signs that maybe she wants to be more then just friends. For example, we hang out a lot, we do family functions, we have a lot of physical contact. If anyone would like to have a chat and hear me vent, I'd love that...other wise you can simply poke fun at me.

Dude.....just discuss it with her.

from the sound of the physical contact it sounds as if shes interested......

are people that niave!!!!!

Ok, good start....keep it coming.

What kind of contact?

physical...and i doubt its touch football!!!

umm..i rub her head, she rubs my back..i rub her back...when we get drunk..she throws her ass into my crotch area. I know what I have to have that talk, but I just figured i'd ask around here to just reassure myself. When she thinks I'm mad at her, we holds hands..kinda lame for two 20 something year olds huh lol

signs..-does she ever jam her tongue down your throat??
-do you ever grab her in the biscuits???
-does she ever want you to spank her cause shes been a bad girl???

Well...yes...I saw the physical
But you could be talking about anything from hand holding, to kissing, to beyond...
Heck...patting someone on the shoulder is physical contact

yeah i clarified a few posts ago...

I agree with crazy.....the physical contact should be your sign right there bud.....That is a TOTAL flirtatious response and trust me....she's interested.....just take things slow and BE FRIENDS FIRST!!!!!! You're going about it the right way...... Get to know her again and find out who she REALLY is first before you jump into anything..... Just be careful..... All I can tell you is that....I know she's interested too..... Best of luck

Honestly, thank you man. that was the mature response I was looking for. I agree with you, just looking for outside opinions.

I don't completely agree
I have playful contact with guy friends who im not interested in like that
I hope she is though

I have girlfriends and I don't have physical contact for fun with them..... I don't find it proper to do that kind of thing.....If I'm not with a girl.....I keep my hands to myself... If they hug me I hug them back but, that's it....

im pretty sure he meant intimate physical contact......and i was correct....

where have you been all my life.....

Again....I agree with crazy.....

lol i know, this is very complicated. We spend a lot of time together, and pretty much do family outings/every day activities. Its complicated. What really through me for a loop is the other day. We started watching this life time movie about two child hood best friends who eventually turned into a married couple (it was life time) anyway, they played this song about "we were friends, then become lovers" something to that affect..and she kept staring at me...its those suttle signs that keep me guessing lol Maybe I'm just over thinking way to much, and need to man up and have the talk and ruin the friendship..

that's just the way I am crazy.....Mom raised me the right way....If I can't touch anyone the right way....I don't touch at all.....

first physical contact??



second... try talking to her about it.. its going to be your best bet..