Topic: How do I get over an ex-girlfriend?
BryanZieroff's photo
Mon 03/12/07 11:50 AM
I went out with a girl that had alot of things I was looking for in
someone. We were friends before we went out but now I think she doesn't
even want to be that close. Right now she is dating someone that almost
weighs 400 pounds, does drugs, and likes to ruin good people. What can I
do to get over her because I know we have nothing in common anymore but
I still kind of have feelings for her?

TINA6969's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:00 PM
I'M SORRY 2 HEAR ABOUT THAT!!! RELATIONSHIPS ARE SO HARD... IT'S BETTER
2 MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE.. START WORKING OUT.. FOCUS ON YOURSELF....
THINGS WILL WORK OUT FOR U.. GOOD LUCK!!! TAKECARE!!! HAVE A GREAT
WEEK... THANKS, TINA

rozey2680's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:04 PM
You're a good-looking guy, move on. I know it's easier said than done.
But you seem to have your head on straight, the perfect girl for you
will come along and you won't even remember what's her face. She sounds
like she is very insecure about herself all I can suggest is to pray
that she realizes what her choices will do to her in the end.

BryanZieroff's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:13 PM
Thanks and I'll try my best to get over her.

Greyhound's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:17 PM
They say if you lose a pet, you should get another one right away, does
that work with girlfriends and boyfriends also?

ChrisIlarraza's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:24 PM
I was having the same problem. I dated this girl for almost three years.
Then one day she stopped loving me. I just told myself that I would be
fine and there are plenty of girls out there. She just wasn't the one
for me. I wished her the best of luck and moved on. Sure it hurt for a
while, but I got over it. You'll be fine dude.

KaitlanG's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:32 PM
Theres a lot of these "how do i get over my ex" threads. personally i
say suck it up and decide for yourself whats right, and whats the next
step.

no photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:35 PM
Haha kaitlan i agree

homegurlshell's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:38 PM
I had a hard time getting over someone once... I found it easyer if i
kept myself busy and kept my distance... It still took time but as long
as my mind was on other things it goes by alot faster....(stay strong)

mistyblue2012's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:38 PM
lol Greyhound.....might not hurt! In my opinion, you need to keep busy.
Go out with friends and just enjoy life. Think of it this way...maybe
she needed to go away so you'll be "open and ready" for the right one to
enter your life!!!!!
Hope you are smiling and laughing again soon:smile:

april332's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:40 PM
well i've heard it say if it's real love then it never ends, if someone
is a real friend then they will always be, so if it's just a thang, then
better to know then keep on pretending to think one knows and get past
the thang, and move on to the real

BryanZieroff's photo
Mon 03/12/07 12:44 PM
True kaitlan, a I think the next step is looking for someone on this
site for right now. Besides what doesn't kill me only makes me stronger.

no photo
Mon 03/12/07 01:39 PM
Best bet is just to move on. Find some new friends to hang out with, let
some time pass, keep your chin up and wait for a better match. If that
doesn't work out and it gets really bad you can always move to Hawaii
and learn to surf, start a fishing charter service and sing Hawaiian
songs.

oldsage's photo
Mon 03/12/07 01:54 PM
40yrs from now, you'll wonder why you ever wrote this. Way to young to
be so involved, I hope you learn what REAL love is.
Fall off a horse you get up & get back on. Your age lose a girlfriend,
go to a party & find another. Odds are you'll have a lot of them.
EXTRA ADVICE: Keep it covered so you don't HAVE to get married. DOn't
regret my kids, but could have done w/o the yrs of battle.

Want more advice, ask us old guys.

The choices in life are YOURS.

spay's photo
Mon 03/12/07 01:56 PM
THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER AN EX - IS JUST TO GET A NEW H0 !

devin112's photo
Mon 03/12/07 02:07 PM
I BACK SPAY UP ON THAT OR EVEN BETTER HOOK UP WITH HERE FRIENDlaugh
laugh laugh

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 03/12/07 02:09 PM
The best way to get over any girl is one leg at a time!!! laugh

krowraven7's photo
Mon 03/12/07 02:35 PM
focus on you