Topic: How can I get over a guy?
Beavis31's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:03 PM

Lots and lots of sex.


well let me know if this hapens to you and i will be ther for ya ....

msmyka's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:06 PM
Honestly you just need to keep yourself occupied and your mind off of him. Soon you will find it's not such a big deal forgetting about him.

Cinderella75's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:07 PM

Ok, I met someone, but he dating someone and he been flirty with me. How can you get over a guy? What can you do? Any help for me?


Ha ha the story of my life!!!!

Well my advice to you my dear is find another man that is single and fall for him.. I know it is easier said than done..
But a good ole saying is" If he cheated w/ u on his girl, he will cheat on you with another"..or soemthing like that (it was translated from german language):P but it is true..
Chances are if he is flirting w/ u he is flirting w/ 20 others..and I am not lying about this..its a fact!

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Tue 07/29/08 05:08 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Tue 07/29/08 05:09 PM
Ok, I met someone, but he dating someone and he been flirty with me. How can you get over a guy? What can you do? Any help for me?
Ha ha the story of my life!!!!Well my advice to you my dear is find another man that is single and fall for him.. I know it is easier said than done..But a good ole saying is" If he cheated w/ u on his girl, he will cheat on you with another"..or soemthing like that (it was translated from german language):P but it is true..Chances are if he is flirting w/ u he is flirting w/ 20 others..and I am not lying about this..its a fact!
i still like your noseflowerforyou

Nicegirl030's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:09 PM
what if he calls me or chat with me online? What should I do?

franshade's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:10 PM
nothing to do, as you shouldnt miss something you never had

donny24vito's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:10 PM
hey im a guy and hate dushbag men, srry guy, i may play for the team but some of our teammate suck, any way to get over one guy simple get under another. hope it helps love the ladies

no photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:10 PM
In a pick up truck.

no photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:11 PM
if you want to get over one, get under another.

msmyka's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:12 PM

what if he calls me or chat with me online? What should I do?


Tell him why you don't want to chat with him anymore. He should at least understand even if he doesn't agree and if he doesn't then ignore him.

unsure's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:12 PM
It seems like you don't want to ignore this guys, so really does it matter what anyone is going to say? The best advice you are going to get is STAY AWAY!! What if he was your boyfriend and he was flirting with someone else? Would you appreciate the other woman talking to him like you are? If the answer is no..then you know what to do. Put yourself in his gf's shoes..it wouldn't feel very good if he was your bf and he was doing this to you..would it???

rainysky39's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:14 PM

It seems like you don't want to ignore this guys, so really does it matter what anyone is going to say? The best advice you are going to get is STAY AWAY!! What if he was your boyfriend and he was flirting with someone else? Would you appreciate the other woman talking to him like you are? If the answer is no..then you know what to do. Put yourself in his gf's shoes..it wouldn't feel very good if he was your bf and he was doing this to you..would it???
bigsmile What she said

Cinderella75's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:14 PM

what if he calls me or chat with me online? What should I do?


Well ignore him
He will a.) either catch the drift (if he has a few other girls he will not even miss ya..promise..u may just be his flavor of the day..)
OR b.) if he is for real dump his GF first, and then tries to get w/ u again...so give it some time..
Don't answer the phone, don't answer his IM's as hard as it seems..I know u like him, otherwise you would of never asked this question...but he is playin ya..besides there is nothing wrong w/ flirting, men do it to me all the time, but getting serious and involved that will just end up in a whole mountain of hurt..Trust me..turn around, find a single guy, b4 it is too late..

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Tue 07/29/08 05:17 PM


There's nothing that will make getting over a guy any easier other than time. If he's dating someone else and flirting with you, what's to say he won't do the same thing if ya'll got together?? I say leave him alone, cut off communication and move on to someone worhty of your time - he doesn't seem to be.


What if he is worried about me? What if he calls me?


Do you have caller ID? Don't answer. Talking opens up a lot of avenues. Don't go there. Like was said before, if he's gonna do it to her what makes you think he's not going to do it to you?

Nicegirl030's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:17 PM


what if he calls me or chat with me online? What should I do?


Well ignore him
He will a.) either catch the drift (if he has a few other girls he will not even miss ya..promise..u may just be his flavor of the day..)
OR b.) if he is for real dump his GF first, and then tries to get w/ u again...so give it some time..
Don't answer the phone, don't answer his IM's as hard as it seems..I know u like him, otherwise you would of never asked this question...but he is playin ya..besides there is nothing wrong w/ flirting, men do it to me all the time, but getting serious and involved that will just end up in a whole mountain of hurt..Trust me..turn around, find a single guy, b4 it is too late..


he was also married but div. with 3 kids and dating someone. I know I made mistake flirty with him too. I just wanted some advice.

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Tue 07/29/08 05:42 PM

Ok, I met someone, but he dating someone and he been flirty with me. How can you get over a guy? What can you do? Any help for me?




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mudfrog's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:54 PM
Is it possible to want someone (even something) that you know isn't good for you but you want that person anyway?

There is a word for this...

mudfrog

Lily0923's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:55 PM

Ok, I met someone, but he dating someone and he been flirty with me. How can you get over a guy? What can you do? Any help for me?


get under another one.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:56 PM
:tongue: Throw a snake at him:tongue:

Cinderella75's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:58 PM



what if he calls me or chat with me online? What should I do?


Well ignore him
He will a.) either catch the drift (if he has a few other girls he will not even miss ya..promise..u may just be his flavor of the day..)
OR b.) if he is for real dump his GF first, and then tries to get w/ u again...so give it some time..
Don't answer the phone, don't answer his IM's as hard as it seems..I know u like him, otherwise you would of never asked this question...but he is playin ya..besides there is nothing wrong w/ flirting, men do it to me all the time, but getting serious and involved that will just end up in a whole mountain of hurt..Trust me..turn around, find a single guy, b4 it is too late..


he was also married but div. with 3 kids and dating someone. I know I made mistake flirty with him too. I just wanted some advice.


Ha ha I was right..he is a total player type..he has low self esteem, but don't let him break your heart...move on to better guys