WELL ITS BEEN 16 YEARS AND IAM ALONE 3 RELATIONSHIPS ALL GONE RONG,,I BLAME MYSELF FOR GIVEING ALL TO THE RELATIONSHIP,MONEY TIME,EFFORT AND EVEN LOST MY FIRST HOME IN WHICH I TRUSTED HER TO PAY THE BANK OFF,BUT ENDED USEING MY MONEY TO HELP SUPPORT HER NEW RELATIONSHIP,,,,,I WORKED WHILE HE HAD THE GOOD LIFE...WELL IAM THINKING AFTER 4YEARS MAY I BE THE SAME TRUST,IN LOVE.OR TRUST ANOTHER...TRUST IS A KEY FACTOR IN LOVE.CAN I TRY AGAIN AND NOT GET HURT...OR WOULD I PUSH AWAY A REALLY GOOD GIRL AND REGRET IT.....ADVISE CAN HELP ME DO RIGHT IAM JUST SCARED IT TOOK 4 YEARS TO EVEN THINK OF A RELATIONSHIP......I SAY THERE ARE GIRLS WHO GET ABUSED AS WELL AS THERE ARE MEN WHO ARE LEFT TO FIGURE THERE INERSELF ,AND WHO MUST LIFT HIMSELF FROM HIS KNEES WHERE HIS DIGNATY WAS LEVELED OFF TO...

YOU CAN TRUST ME

IM IN UR HED KEELIN UR DREEMZ

Not sure I understood the question.

But learn from the past, enjoy the present and plan for a future. Let go of negative feelings as they only hinder your progress. Remember trust is earned not given freely.

Hello, good luck, and welcome

Some of my girlfriends who are good people, misused their husbands money and creditcards, just because they were allowed to. A man should trust his woman but he should also, always beaware of his finances. Never assume when it comes to your money, anyone will handle it the way you do. I have numerous male friends who have lost all, filed bankruptcy, divorced and declared to by all the 4X4's, jet skis, motorcycles and whatever makes them happy and live the single life forever. If you are one who wants a relationship, take it slow, make friends, talk about anything but your bad relationships and finances. Don't lavish a women with roses and fine dining. Go on picnics, day trips in quaint towns, do lunch not dinner these create better places for conversation. Be patient and it takes time, but you will usually find out if the person is real and someone you could trust your heart to. Sorry, you went though the pain, been there, but never gave in. I'm a good person and went into relationships trusting as we should, sadly the world has become me, me, me and materialistic, drugs, alcohol and unfaithfulness, will always be around. Best wishes in finding a good relationship.

if you ain't lovin' you ain't livin



-G. strait

I think people who view themselves as victims get treated as such.

Here is my advice: What is YOUR ownership in those failed relationships? Were there warning signs, things you felt or saw and thought, hmmm that doesn't seem right? So you thought, if I do X, Y, or Z that would fix the problem and we'd be happy? You can't fix anything or anybody but you.

Until you recognize your role (for does her part matter? You can't control what anyone else said or did, only how you responded to them).... and change from within you will keep repeating your mistakes.

No man or woman is an island.

A PERSON CAN ONLY TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU ,IF YOU LET THEM