why be a chaeter

i dont agree....at all. If she cheats she should "man up" and quit blaming others for her transgressions. There are always other options that she could have pursued instead of the mailman.

why do men cheat on their women:cause there are other women out there

why do women cheat on men:cause there are other men out there


there is no excuse to cheat,just others to choose from

I never said she wasn't at fault for the cheating! She ALONE owns that. BUT...it does take two to make a marriage work and two to make it go wrong.

Actually only takes one to make it go wrong and it is only the choice of one to cheat or it would not be called cheating for if both choose it it would be and open marriage of the sorts.

Both may be to blame for letting things go to the point of no return or fixing a marriage. But only one is to blame for cheating. There is no excuse one can give that makes it right for them to cheat. They have the choice to walk away and to dissolve a marriage before jumping in the bed with another. Have enough respect for the other person and end it instead. Take care of business then move on to the next.