I agree with most of the other posters here...he is likely to be very insecure. If you have evaluated the situation fairly and you know that you don't act in a way around your friends which might lead him to be insecure, then ditch him because next he will find a reason not to like your family. Some men like to control women that way and it usually starts with their friends. Does he think your female friends are a bad influence? Just make sure you aren't hooking up with a guy who is trying to separate you from your friends and family...that's just wrong.

Well I had a few ex's that had all guy friends! But the problem was that most of them were there ex-bfs! But I never made her choose between them or me! I got fed up with them and they agreed to break-up! Like its that hard for her to get any female friends instead of havin ALL guy friends!!! I may have alot of girls that are my friends, but most of them have Boyfriends or are married, but if im in a relationship Id whether be with my gf then my buddies anytime! Unless she wants time to her self or chill with others thats all good! Some of you may say dump him for that reason but think hard! it may seem insecure but seriously guys do get jealous if girls hang out with other guys and then brag about it to their bfs! I believe that honesty n respect 4 both n to understand each other is better! I know its 2008 and every1 can be best friends with each other but guys do get jealous and mad if their girls go out with other guys and hang with them more then being with bf! But guys that have girlfriends should compromise and get along and be friends with their gfs friends and try make relationship better! Or if any of that doesnt help BREAK UP! AND move on DUDES!

ok well here is an easy and strait forward answer ...i think every one of you is wrong...other than the fact that the guy is totally jealous... he has every right to be... but it is not your fault and no you are not the other girls he has had in his life. he needs to chill. you need not talk to your guy friends about it cause it is a thing between the both of you... it will make him feel insecure and not want to hang with you and you guy friends. plus it is disrespectful towards him don't drop your friends but if you disappear for a lil while with minimal contact your friends will understand... pay a little more attention to the bf, it will help him... its all apart of being in a relationship. compromise and growth.. if you cant do that you might be stuck in this rut for some time.

now its not all on you either ... he needs to get over himself ... he is not the center of this relationship. tell him to grow a pair ... buck up... come hang out with you and your friends .... he needs to deal with it. it doesn't matter that you have guy friends you are with him. if he cant get it through his head then yes.... you can only do so much.... and then will it be honorable and right to leave him you can not bring yourself down. but i have a feeling with a little bit of work and patience the two of you will learn a lot from this and grow as individuals.


i have said my piece , there really is no easy answer cause it requires a little bit of effort from the both of you. hoped i could help.



peace be with you



joshua

If I was your boyfriend, I'd have wonder why you have to hang out with your guy friends? Is he lacking something you get from hanging out with your guy friends?

I'll have to disagree with the others that he's being insecure. How would you like it if he was hanging out with his gal pals all the time? Are you sure you could say in all honesty that you'd have no problem with that? Somehow I doubt it.

Joshua - I don't understand why you feel the guy has every right to be jealous of her friends. He does not. If he doesn't trust her, there is something deeply wrong with the relationship to begin with. If he is insecure, that is his problem and he needs to check himself. She should not back away from her friends because he has problems. He needs to work on his own problems or he is never going to be able to have a trusting, adult relationship. She has done nothing wrong; the issues are his. He needs to grow up.

Joshua - I don't understand why you feel the guy has every right to be jealous of her friends. He does not. If he doesn't trust her, there is something deeply wrong with the relationship to begin with. If he is insecure, that is his problem and he needs to check himself. She should not back away from her friends because he has problems. He needs to work on his own problems or he is never going to be able to have a trusting, adult relationship. She has done nothing wrong; the issues are his. He needs to grow up.

If I was your boyfriend, I'd have wonder why you have to hang out with your guy friends? Is he lacking something you get from hanging out with your guy friends?

I'll have to disagree with the others that he's being insecure. How would you like it if he was hanging out with his gal pals all the time? Are you sure you could say in all honesty that you'd have no problem with that? Somehow I doubt it.

I agree completely.No one should have to end friendships because someone elses jealousy or insecurity..It starts there and pretty soon its family hes jealous of and making her choose between the family and him....

I agree with most of the other posters here...he is likely to be very insecure. If you have evaluated the situation fairly and you know that you don't act in a way around your friends which might lead him to be insecure, then ditch him because next he will find a reason not to like your family. Some men like to control women that way and it usually starts with their friends. Does he think your female friends are a bad influence? Just make sure you aren't hooking up with a guy who is trying to separate you from your friends and family...that's just wrong.

i agree with that