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Topic: mixed signals
BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 07/26/08 08:22 PM
Ok so I have been chatting with this guy for a bit, about a week and a half. Sometimes he sounds very interested, sometimes he doesn't. He tells me he will call me, then doesn't do it when he says he will. He is from another site and I can see when he is on line and it is during the time he says he will call. Then he tells me to call him anytime but when I do I feel like I am bothering him. We are suppose to meet next Saturday, but he did the phone call thing again to me tonight. Am I wrong to be suspicious? I feel like he is just talking to me if he can't find anything else better to do....and **** I don't need that

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 07/26/08 08:23 PM
like a bad habit...........drop him

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 07/26/08 08:24 PM Edited by BetterDazes on Sat 07/26/08 08:24 PM
Pecc you think he is a player? That's what I am feeling.

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Sat 07/26/08 08:24 PM
That does seem a bit odd. You'd think if he was interested and said he'd call then he'd call. I might go on Saturday just to see. I get a better feel for people face to face. Good luck!

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Sat 07/26/08 08:24 PM
dump him...hes playing the field...99% sure

Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Sat 07/26/08 08:25 PM
i say that you should meet the guy and see what he is all about ...that is if you want to meet him....but be ready to drop him like a bad habit if he does turn out to be a douche

duckiegiggles Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 4642	Sat 07/26/08 08:25 PM
its hard to call when the wife / girlfriend is around

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 07/26/08 08:25 PM
That does seem a bit odd. You'd think if he was interested and said he'd call then he'd call. I might go on Saturday just to see. I get a better feel for people face to face. Good luck! Yeah but would you waste a half of tank of gas to risk it lol

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 07/26/08 08:25 PM
well duh..............lol yep, i did the same thing back in the day

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 07/26/08 08:26 PM
dump him...hes playing the field...99% sure I am thinking the same thing...thanks!

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Sat 07/26/08 08:26 PM
dump him...hes playing the field...99% sure yep what E said

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 07/26/08 08:26 PM
its hard to call when the wife / girlfriend is around lol no i am certain that is not it but it is an idea

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 07/26/08 08:26 PM
its hard to call when the wife / girlfriend is around true dat' d. giggles! It is

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Sat 07/26/08 08:26 PM
cut that sucka loose...he's probably a dirt bag

Nursekimmie09 Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 367	Sat 07/26/08 08:26 PM
Like the book states..."he's just not that into you" Find someone better who will keep their promises

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 07/26/08 08:27 PM
well duh..............lol yep, i did the same thing back in the day Well i am new to this whole dating thing so ya I may be a little slow...it has been over 25 years. I guess men are still just pigs

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Sat 07/26/08 08:27 PM
dump him...hes playing the field...99% sure I must agree

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 07/26/08 08:28 PM Edited by BetterDazes on Sat 07/26/08 08:28 PM
Like the book states..."he's just not that into you" Find someone better who will keep their promises You are too right! =) Date canceled!

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Sat 07/26/08 08:29 PM
There is something to be said about going with your gut, thanks folks for the great advice!

Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Sat 07/26/08 08:29 PM
are you going to write him off that easily?? maybe he is going through a rough time or something like that....but yeah, he is probably a pig