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Topic: what happened??
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Sat 07/26/08 06:57 PM
to the men who buy the drinks on the first date ( JUST THE )FIRST DATE)

and what happened to the men coming to meet you first, it seems now all the men want you to go to them even if you dont drive and they can??

or if you live in a different country, all the men ive spoke to say you come here, what happened to men coming to you first,

maybe im old fashioned, but when i was about 18, it wasnt like this.

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Sat 07/26/08 06:58 PM
your right debbie let him come to you im not paying anything for a plane ride or a train

and hi debbie waving

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Sat 07/26/08 06:58 PM
gas is too expensivelaugh

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Sat 07/26/08 06:59 PM
You're not old fashioned. You just aren't finding the men that have character and integrity.flowerforyou

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Sat 07/26/08 06:59 PM
I have no idea...I have noticed this also...

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Sat 07/26/08 06:59 PM
men suck.....bottom line....LMAO!!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 07/26/08 06:59 PM
I have found that out too,, why not even half way,,

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Sat 07/26/08 07:00 PM

your right debbie let him come to you im not paying anything for a plane ride or a train

and hi debbie waving


hi,

i just think its nice for the man to pay on the first date and come and see you first, i like a man to be a gentleman, and it seems there all gone. frown

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Sat 07/26/08 07:01 PM

I have found that out too,, why not even half way,,


im glad its not just me then this is happening to do.

the men just want you to go to them and thats it,

one guy asked me to come to where he live3d and he said you will have to stop in a hotel you cant stay at my house, and im like WTF, ive just paid for a plane ticket and now ive got to find money to stay in a hotel over there as well.

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Sat 07/26/08 07:02 PM

You're not old fashioned. You just aren't finding the men that have character and integrity.flowerforyou


i want to find one though frown

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Sat 07/26/08 07:02 PM
yea they want you to come and see them

wot with buttons and bowslaugh :tongue:

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Sat 07/26/08 07:02 PM
chivalry aint quite dead, I still hold doors for the ladies. and I have always bought on the first date(however rare that issad )it is just harder to find ladies.

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Sat 07/26/08 07:02 PM
gotta love the ones that want you to come over to their place at 11 o'clock at night when you've never met before.. because they're horny.. riiight.. i'll hop right in my truck and be right over!!! NOT... frustrated

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Sat 07/26/08 07:03 PM
HMM I guess I am one of the lucky ones? I am still having all the luck and the guys come to me or I won't be meeting them!! I refuse to leave my comfort zone, its just that simple!! If they really want to meet you..then they will find the resources to come your way flowerforyou

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Sat 07/26/08 07:03 PM
and on the first date, if they buy the first drink, they wont offer to buy you another one, its like some men are so STINGY and i hate that. its nice for a man to pay for the drinks just on the 1st date after that go dutch, its just makes a good impression with him buying the drinkson the first date

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Sat 07/26/08 07:03 PM


You're not old fashioned. You just aren't finding the men that have character and integrity.flowerforyou


i want to find one though frown



That's the only kind that I want.

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Sat 07/26/08 07:04 PM

gotta love the ones that want you to come over to their place at 11 o'clock at night when you've never met before.. because they're horny.. riiight.. i'll hop right in my truck and be right over!!! NOT... frustrated


ive been asked that a few times to, and they got a big fat NO

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Sat 07/26/08 07:04 PM


I have found that out too,, why not even half way,,


im glad its not just me then this is happening to do.

the men just want you to go to them and thats it,

one guy asked me to come to where he live3d and he said you will have to stop in a hotel you cant stay at my house, and im like WTF, ive just paid for a plane ticket and now ive got to find money to stay in a hotel over there as well.

dang,, he could have at least paid for the hotel

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Sat 07/26/08 07:04 PM



You're not old fashioned. You just aren't finding the men that have character and integrity.flowerforyou


i want to find one though frown



That's the only kind that I want.


i hope we both find one flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 07/26/08 07:05 PM
we do not suck! Chivalry is quite alive in some of us!

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