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Topic: what happened??
debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:34 PM Edited by debbie1980 on Sat 07/26/08 07:35 PM
hey men,real men dont exist anymore,i love a man who opens my door for me,chiverley is gone!!!i wish men would wake up and get a clue............due to the macho image men wish to portray us women suffer,men dont grow up!!!sad i know,hello i love my men to be gentlemen,but realistically they havent a clue!!!!they think with there little heads not the big ones xxx i agree with you there, plus have you noticed not many guys have shown there faces in this thread lol, that says it all im going to be come lesbian if i dont meat a gentleman in the next year or so. hehe deb,women arent much better,take it from me,ive been here!!!do wat i do act like a guy,ad no im not ashamed of it,play fire with fire!!!live life the way u want to!!!!my problem now is trying to get rid of them lmao!!!IM sure im a guy trapped in a womens body,done the straight and lesbian thing..deb women are worse!!!xx at the rate im going, i feel like im never going to meet a man who treats me right. deb,just be patient,dont ever accept anythin less than the best for you....youre a terrific girl and it will happen but in the mean time,enjoy life!!! thanks and i wont, if i did go for anything less i wouldnt be single. single is not a bad thing deb,trust me yes i know, more room in the bed, and no wet patch to sleep in

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:34 PM
deb your very welcome

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Sat 07/26/08 07:36 PM
I always pay for the 1st date unless its previously agreed upon to go dutch.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:37 PM
I always pay for the 1st date unless its previously agreed upon to go dutch. why do you decide who pays before a date?? IMO a gentleman always pays for the first date.

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Sat 07/26/08 07:44 PM
I always pay for the 1st date unless its previously agreed upon to go dutch. why do you decide who pays before a date?? IMO a gentleman always pays for the first date. Some women don't want to get there 1st date paid for because it gives them an obligation, so if they go dutch there is none.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sat 07/26/08 07:46 PM
we do not suck! Chivalry is quite alive in some of us! But...I do have to ask. Do you think it is respectful to women to be discussing bewbs all of the time?

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:47 PM
I always pay for the 1st date unless its previously agreed upon to go dutch. why do you decide who pays before a date?? IMO a gentleman always pays for the first date. Some women don't want to get there 1st date paid for because it gives them an obligation, so if they go dutch there is none. i dont see it like that, just because he bought me a few drinks it does mean im obligated to do anything, and if he thought that, id tell him to **** off anyway

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Sat 07/26/08 07:48 PM
I dont feel under any obligation to someone if theyve paid for the first date.. Men should it just is the way it is... Now if after our first date i call you and say lets go grab coffee.. then Ill buy...not against that either

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:48 PM
we do not suck! Chivalry is quite alive in some of us! But...I do have to ask. Do you think it is respectful to women to be discussing bewbs all of the time? good question

Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Sat 07/26/08 07:48 PM
just sounds like you have been dating some really cheap guys....there are alot of guys still out there that are quite the gentlemen....sometimes it is hard for guys to be so chivalrous and good to women when they have been screwed over so many times.......i am just saying that if chivalry is dead then it was a woman's fault

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sat 07/26/08 07:49 PM
we do not suck! Chivalry is quite alive in some of us! But...I do have to ask. Do you think it is respectful to women to be discussing bewbs all of the time? good question

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:49 PM
I dont feel under any obligation to someone if theyve paid for the first date.. Men should it just is the way it is... Now if after our first date i call you and say lets go grab coffee.. then Ill buy...not against that either well missy, if a guy bought me a few drinks, and because he bought me a few drinks he would expect me to have sex with him, id rather now sooner than later, so i could tell him to **** off asap. just because you buy someone a few drinks it doesnt mean your obliged to do ANYTHING

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Sat 07/26/08 07:50 PM
I always pay for the 1st date unless its previously agreed upon to go dutch. why do you decide who pays before a date?? IMO a gentleman always pays for the first date. Some women don't want to get there 1st date paid for because it gives them an obligation, so if they go dutch there is none. i dont see it like that, just because he bought me a few drinks it does mean im obligated to do anything, and if he thought that, id tell him to **** off anyway That is what I've been told by women I've dated, so see you're different.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:51 PM
just sounds like you have been dating some really cheap guys....there are alot of guys still out there that are quite the gentlemen....sometimes it is hard for guys to be so chivalrous and good to women when they have been screwed over so many times.......i am just saying that if chivalry is dead then it was a woman's fault MAYBE I HAVE idk, IT SEEMS A LOT OF WOMEN ARE AGREEING WITH ME SO I DOUBT ITS JUST ME MEETING BAD STINGY GUYS, IF IT WASN JUST ME NO ONE ELSE IN THE THREAD WOULD HAVE AGREED WITH ME. IT HAPPENS ON THIS SITE TO.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:52 PM
I always pay for the 1st date unless its previously agreed upon to go dutch. why do you decide who pays before a date?? IMO a gentleman always pays for the first date. Some women don't want to get there 1st date paid for because it gives them an obligation, so if they go dutch there is none. i dont see it like that, just because he bought me a few drinks it does mean im obligated to do anything, and if he thought that, id tell him to **** off anyway That is what I've been told by women I've dated, so see you're different. WELL IF HE WAS LIKE THAT ID RATHER FIND OUT SOONR THAN LATER IMO

discoafternoon Joined Fri 04/11/08 Posts: 2977	Sat 07/26/08 07:54 PM
we do not suck! Chivalry is quite alive in some of us! But...I do have to ask. Do you think it is respectful to women to be discussing bewbs all of the time? There is no obligation just because a guy paid for dinner.

Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Sat 07/26/08 07:54 PM
just sounds like you have been dating some really cheap guys....there are alot of guys still out there that are quite the gentlemen....sometimes it is hard for guys to be so chivalrous and good to women when they have been screwed over so many times.......i am just saying that if chivalry is dead then it was a woman's fault MAYBE I HAVE idk, IT SEEMS A LOT OF WOMEN ARE AGREEING WITH ME SO I DOUBT ITS JUST ME MEETING BAD STINGY GUYS, IF IT WASN JUST ME NO ONE ELSE IN THE THREAD WOULD HAVE AGREED WITH ME. IT HAPPENS ON THIS SITE TO. i don't have a good argument for you...men are pigs and losers....but know that if you look hard enough there are guys that aren't like that....good luck, cuz you will need it

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:55 PM
just sounds like you have been dating some really cheap guys....there are alot of guys still out there that are quite the gentlemen....sometimes it is hard for guys to be so chivalrous and good to women when they have been screwed over so many times.......i am just saying that if chivalry is dead then it was a woman's fault MAYBE I HAVE idk, IT SEEMS A LOT OF WOMEN ARE AGREEING WITH ME SO I DOUBT ITS JUST ME MEETING BAD STINGY GUYS, IF IT WASN JUST ME NO ONE ELSE IN THE THREAD WOULD HAVE AGREED WITH ME. IT HAPPENS ON THIS SITE TO. i don't have a good argument for you...men are pigs and losers....but know that if you look hard enough there are guys that aren't like that....good luck, cuz you will need it I THINK MOST WOMEN NEED IT

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 07/26/08 07:56 PM
we do not suck! Chivalry is quite alive in some of us! But...I do have to ask. Do you think it is respectful to women to be discussing bewbs all of the time? There is no obligation just because a guy paid for dinner. EXACTLY

Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Sat 07/26/08 08:01 PM
well, looking for a good woman is hard too...face it, finding a good connection with someone is like winning the lottery