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ok.....my friend and his girlfriend are splitting up.her and i have had feelings for each other since before they got together.i was in a relationship already........she wanted a physical thing with him...ended up pregnant.the only reason she stayed is because of the child......she hasnt been happy every since.......and she is leaving him.she wants to see if we still have the chemistry we had a couple of years ago.i think we do,honestly.he treats her like crap and does nothing for her.i have never heard him even talk about his feelings towards her.......what should i do,i know if we would have gotten together then we would still be together now and happy.........so somebody please let me know what you think and what you would do
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I would say give it a shot. just be ready for some hostility from the friend
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take a chance but move farther away from him so he doesn't try anything out of anger
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Wow this sounds very familiar...I just started dating my exs best friend...
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If you care about the friendship don't do it... Also, um isn't there a unwritten code between friends that you don't go there???
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I would say give it a shot. just be ready for some hostility from the friend i second that notion!!!!.......and good luck!!!! 
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I'd say go for it, but I'm a woman and I always thought men had this unspoken rule of not going out with any of their friends ex's. What do you think he'd say?
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go for it but becareful,
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honestly?? i say wait...
give it a bit of time.. let them break up and b apart for a while... give her a chance to figure out if you are really what she wants.. if she is willing to wait for you.. then give the feelings a try.. if not.. then she didn feel as strong for you as she claimed to... jmo.. good luck to you |
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If you care about the friendship don't do it... Also, um isn't there a unwritten code between friends that you don't go there??? Exactly!!!!! 
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Edited by
Peccy
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Sat 07/26/08 05:05 PM
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Don't do it man! An unspoken law against stuff like that between men. Especially a good friend!
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I would stay away!
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your first post and this is what you come up with?
 
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If you care about the friendship don't do it... Also, um isn't there a unwritten code between friends that you don't go there??? |
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your first post and this is what you come up with?
lol |
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honestly?? i say wait... give it a bit of time.. let them break up and b apart for a while... give her a chance to figure out if you are really what she wants.. if she is willing to wait for you.. then give the feelings a try.. if not.. then she didn feel as strong for you as she claimed to... jmo.. good luck to you I am going to second that. Otherwise, you will find yourself in a unhealthy love triangle were everyone gets hurts. |
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Yeah, i agree with the majority too, you should go for it, but I dont think you will have this fairy tale romance that you both are thinking, especially with the child of a friend involved, he cant stay out of her life. You need to really tell urself if its worth it to hurt all of u including the child, and if you can deal with those consequences, try it out. Dont miss out on the opportunity.
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your first post and this is what you come up with?
lol Iz, I think I've seen a few today |
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your first post and this is what you come up with?
lol Iz, I think I've seen a few today
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well.people can believe what they want to believe.i have no alter ego.......i am what i am.what i have is a situation where i dont know what to do and was looking for help.i know the unspoken law,but like i said there was feelings before they got together.i was in a relationship and wasnt going to risk it because i thought at the time i was happy.turned out it didnt work,by that time she went out with him to a bar....got drunk and he persuaded her to screw......she got pregnant.....he has been using her as a place to live,someone to cook and clean for him a piece of ass and the child as a tax return.we kept in touch all this time as friends,but the more we talked the more those feelings come back.dont get me wrong......niether one of us is the kind to cheat...but they have come to a point where they are thru with each other.again,i know he is a friend.....have known him for a long time....but,what if this is my one chance for true happiness.so please understand,im not screwin my friends girlfriend behind his back.just want to know if there is anyway this could possibly work.....if anyone has had thia situation and what happened
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