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Age and appearance do not guarantee a relationship or it's success. True, but it gives you a chance. Really? Having been told all my life how beautiful I am, I guess that explains why I am divorced and still single. well there's another story to fit our stereo type on how guys lie... c'mon guys it's not really helping our cause here lol 
That is really uncalled for. She is beautiful & you are mean. |
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Is that what you think and why do you think the way you do? I'm pretty sure that's how it'll be. I'm single and right now would actually prefer to stay that way. But I guess it's still pretty early in the game. I'll wait and see how things turn out. |
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I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare. Ya know...the more I think about it... It may not be really possible to find someone who " compliments everything about you " at all. I totally understand people's unwillingness to " settle " for less than what they really want, but at the same time, I think it's completely unrealistic to think that you are going to find someone who is perfect for you in every way. I sincerely wish you luck Amathyst, but I am afraid that the pursuit of the " perfect person " is pretty much an excercise in futility. I think the thing to do is try to find someone who has the things that compliment you in a much higher ratio than the things you find detrimental. Everyone is going to have faults or foibles that someone finds irritating. Perfection ( even if it means perfect for someone ) is an unnattainable goal that has chewed up an awful lot of good people. JMHO, of course. |
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Age and appearance do not guarantee a relationship or it's success. True, but it gives you a chance. Really? Having been told all my life how beautiful I am, I guess that explains why I am divorced and still single. well there's another story to fit our stereo type on how guys lie... c'mon guys it's not really helping our cause here lol
That is really uncalled for. She is beautiful & you are mean. Don't worry your pretty feathered head, littleredhen. I'm not offended. |
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Age and appearance do not guarantee a relationship or it's success. True, but it gives you a chance. Really? Having been told all my life how beautiful I am, I guess that explains why I am divorced and still single. well there's another story to fit our stereo type on how guys lie... c'mon guys it's not really helping our cause here lol
That is really uncalled for. She is beautiful & you are mean. i appologie didnt mean it to come off that way but it did. i was talking about relationships and how they didn't work out for her bc the guys she was with were liars. was making an assumption on the type she dated my bad 
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I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare. Ya know...the more I think about it... It may not be really possible to find someone who " compliments everything about you " at all. I totally understand people's unwillingness to " settle " for less than what they really want, but at the same time, I think it's completely unrealistic to think that you are going to find someone who is perfect for you in every way. I sincerely wish you luck Amathyst, but I am afraid that the pursuit of the " perfect person " is pretty much an excercise in futility. I think the thing to do is try to find someone who has the things that compliment you in a much higher ratio than the things you find detrimental. Everyone is going to have faults or foibles that someone finds irritating. Perfection ( even if it means perfect for someone ) is an unnattainable goal that has chewed up an awful lot of good people. JMHO, of course. Everyone has faults. The trick is finding someone who has faults you can tolerate, who can tolerate yours. |
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I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare. Ya know...the more I think about it... It may not be really possible to find someone who " compliments everything about you " at all. I totally understand people's unwillingness to " settle " for less than what they really want, but at the same time, I think it's completely unrealistic to think that you are going to find someone who is perfect for you in every way. I sincerely wish you luck Amathyst, but I am afraid that the pursuit of the " perfect person " is pretty much an excercise in futility. I think the thing to do is try to find someone who has the things that compliment you in a much higher ratio than the things you find detrimental. Everyone is going to have faults or foibles that someone finds irritating. Perfection ( even if it means perfect for someone ) is an unnattainable goal that has chewed up an awful lot of good people. JMHO, of course. Thank you.. And I'm not seraching for a perfect person. It's about seeing an imperfect person perfectly! 
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I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare. Ya know...the more I think about it... It may not be really possible to find someone who " compliments everything about you " at all. I totally understand people's unwillingness to " settle " for less than what they really want, but at the same time, I think it's completely unrealistic to think that you are going to find someone who is perfect for you in every way. I sincerely wish you luck Amathyst, but I am afraid that the pursuit of the " perfect person " is pretty much an excercise in futility. I think the thing to do is try to find someone who has the things that compliment you in a much higher ratio than the things you find detrimental. Everyone is going to have faults or foibles that someone finds irritating. Perfection ( even if it means perfect for someone ) is an unnattainable goal that has chewed up an awful lot of good people. JMHO, of course. Everyone has faults. The trick is finding someone who has faults you can tolerate, who can tolerate yours. Exactly. Compromise is a necessity. In no way am I saying you should settle for les than what you truly want. But when you want " perfect ", methinks you'll be left wanting. |
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I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare. Ya know...the more I think about it... It may not be really possible to find someone who " compliments everything about you " at all. I totally understand people's unwillingness to " settle " for less than what they really want, but at the same time, I think it's completely unrealistic to think that you are going to find someone who is perfect for you in every way. I sincerely wish you luck Amathyst, but I am afraid that the pursuit of the " perfect person " is pretty much an excercise in futility. I think the thing to do is try to find someone who has the things that compliment you in a much higher ratio than the things you find detrimental. Everyone is going to have faults or foibles that someone finds irritating. Perfection ( even if it means perfect for someone ) is an unnattainable goal that has chewed up an awful lot of good people. JMHO, of course. Thank you.. And I'm not seraching for a perfect person. It's about seeing an imperfect person perfectly!
Now THAT....was a perfect answer. Well said. 
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Is that what you think and why do you think the way you do? Nope, I'm content...most of the time, once in awhile confused. I can die with someone at my side or no one around, it really doesn't concern me. |
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I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare. Ya know...the more I think about it... It may not be really possible to find someone who " compliments everything about you " at all. I totally understand people's unwillingness to " settle " for less than what they really want, but at the same time, I think it's completely unrealistic to think that you are going to find someone who is perfect for you in every way. I sincerely wish you luck Amathyst, but I am afraid that the pursuit of the " perfect person " is pretty much an excercise in futility. I think the thing to do is try to find someone who has the things that compliment you in a much higher ratio than the things you find detrimental. Everyone is going to have faults or foibles that someone finds irritating. Perfection ( even if it means perfect for someone ) is an unnattainable goal that has chewed up an awful lot of good people. JMHO, of course. Thank you.. And I'm not seraching for a perfect person. It's about seeing an imperfect person perfectly!
Now THAT....was a perfect answer. Well said.
Thanks. But it's true. There isn't such thing as perfection. But if you can see an imperfect person perfectly, then you have a fighting chance. We live in a very cynical world. But if you make an extra effort, anything is possibile. |
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Remember its about being happy with what you got.....and the rest falls into place.....
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i used to think like that ... wiil i be alone.
now i think of like this . if its going to happen its going to happen i cant force it.  i am happy i am single. and yes i am slowly looking but yet i am not. i am trying to find not just her but myself as well.
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I may be destined to be without a significant other but I am not alone. I have my friends, my work, my hobbies to keep me busy. And it does keep me hopping. I have to agree with some of the other posts I read looks have very little to do with the fact of someone being without a mate. It is a person's mindset that allows or disallows a relationship to develop. While a person's looks may be what attracts someone initially it is very seldom what makes a person continue a relationship.
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Pretty much. |
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Pretty much. Why not? I was honestly referring to my feelings about my own situation. Who was I "not nice" to? |
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Define alone?
To be w/o love,,,NEVER,,three kids and 9 grandkids,,love is GREAT. To be alone w/o a lady to share my life with, possibly. but if THATS the case it is GODS way for me,wink. And he has all of my life to control forever.  
My only prayers for myself have been to bless my family and friends with good health and keeping them all safe. And for me to find one lady who can love me back as I will love her always,wink.lol THAT prayer has not been answered yet,wink...
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Who knows??
Hiya Terry!!! 
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I don't think I am necessarily destined to be alone. But it's really difficult to find the person that compliments everything about you. When you do find it and it's mutual, make sure you hold onto it. Because it's very rare. Ya know...the more I think about it... It may not be really possible to find someone who " compliments everything about you " at all. I totally understand people's unwillingness to " settle " for less than what they really want, but at the same time, I think it's completely unrealistic to think that you are going to find someone who is perfect for you in every way. I sincerely wish you luck Amathyst, but I am afraid that the pursuit of the " perfect person " is pretty much an excercise in futility. I think the thing to do is try to find someone who has the things that compliment you in a much higher ratio than the things you find detrimental. Everyone is going to have faults or foibles that someone finds irritating. Perfection ( even if it means perfect for someone ) is an unnattainable goal that has chewed up an awful lot of good people. JMHO, of course. Thank you.. And I'm not seraching for a perfect person. It's about seeing an imperfect person perfectly!
Now THAT....was a perfect answer. Well said.
Thanks. But it's true. There isn't such thing as perfection. But if you can see an imperfect person perfectly, then you have a fighting chance. We live in a very cynical world. But if you make an extra effort, anything is possibile. I couldn't agree more. |
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Positive thinking brings positive results, negativity only brings more negativity. I have the love of my family and friends now and someday in the future I will have the love of a signifigant other. For now just enjoyin the journey!
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