Topic: If you...
mry's photo
Thu 07/24/08 04:36 PM
really care about someone...does their past matter?? They live a good life now...

no photo
Thu 07/24/08 04:38 PM
ummmmm....depends if their past involved a violent crime...that would matter

ledi180's photo
Thu 07/24/08 04:40 PM
Some things matter - no other way for me to look at it. I'd like to be all angelic and say no, but that'd be a lie. It's not just me anymore, it's my kiddo too - LOTS of stuff matters now that might not have in the past.

iceprincess's photo
Thu 07/24/08 04:42 PM
depends on what they did in their past........very few people ever truly change......they just get better at hiding their "sins"

120557's photo
Thu 07/24/08 05:03 PM

depends on what they did in their past........very few people ever truly change......they just get better at hiding their "sins"
Well, I use to drink over a half gallon per day. Psychiatrist Said I was trying to kill myself with alcohol or volunteering for missions in the Marines. Said I was unhappy with my marrage. Know what? He was right. Got rid of the alcohol, then got rid of her. Haven't had an urge to touch again. Can't even stand the smell of it. So it depends on the person and what they do about it.

mry's photo
Thu 07/24/08 05:04 PM


depends on what they did in their past........very few people ever truly change......they just get better at hiding their "sins"
Well, I use to drink over a half gallon per day. Psychiatrist Said I was trying to kill myself with alcohol or volunteering for missions in the Marines. Said I was unhappy with my marrage. Know what? He was right. Got rid of the alcohol, then got rid of her. Haven't had an urge to touch again. Can't even stand the smell of it. So it depends on the person and what they do about it.


Good for you...and well stated!

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/24/08 05:04 PM

ummmmm....depends if their past involved a violent crime...that would matter


Agree. Aside from a violent crime..no..the past is shed away. Fresh starts for everybody! drinker

snuggles1963's photo
Thu 07/24/08 05:07 PM
"ummmmm....depends if their past involved a violent crime...that would matter "


It depends too on if there are any reprecussions from their past. For instance, if they were promiscuous and ended up with Herpes or Aids because of it. That would make a difference.

no photo
Thu 07/24/08 05:08 PM


ummmmm....depends if their past involved a violent crime...that would matter


Agree. Aside from a violent crime..no..the past is shed away. Fresh starts for everybody! drinker



Ditto that

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Thu 07/24/08 05:10 PM

"ummmmm....depends if their past involved a violent crime...that would matter "


It depends too on if there are any reprecussions from their past. For instance, if they were promiscuous and ended up with Herpes or Aids because of it. That would make a difference.


I completely agree