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I'd follow Frisco73's advice. The bouquet may seem really romantic but a lot women would wonder what the heck you were thinking.
Make it real simple. Be direct and ask her if she'd like to go out. Some guys are under the wrong impression that if you spend a lot of money on women on the first date that will win them over. Wrong...oh so wrong. Come up with 2 or 3 good ideas on where to meet - for drinks, coffee, lunch, whatever. Offer her alternatives and let her pick the one she likes the best. Some women are afraid of committing to a night long date with a new guy until they know him well (some men are afraid of the same thing) so sometimes a Starbucks date is the perfect solution. It's nothing heavy, you learn whether or not you want to see them again. If it goes well, you plan something for an evening. If not, no harm done. |
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im in need of some opinions theres a girl i like and want to ask out and i have come up with an idea of sending her a bouquet of flowers or roses to her work asking her out would this appropriate or should i ask her in person face to face Ask her in person face to face....flowers before you know she is even interested sounds too needy too me.... |
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I say take the flowers to her work....in a huge vase that covers your face....take them to her desk...or wherever and then uncover your face and say...I would be honored if you would go out with me friday night...or whenever....oh yea
I CAN FEEL a happy dance |
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I say take the flowers to her work....in a huge vase that covers your face....take them to her desk...or wherever and then uncover your face and say...I would be honored if you would go out with me friday night...or whenever....oh yea I CAN FEEL a happy dance What if she decides to water them before he takes them away from his face....I know,he'll be doing the 'Happy Dance' |
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I would just call her and then if she says yes...........then bring one rose for her on the date............too many flowers is too overwhelming when she doesnt know you.................
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Don't send the message that you're a desperate wuss...No flowers until she deserves them.....
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Don't send the message that you're a desperate wuss...No flowers until she deserves them..... Thats a guys opinion of what he should do.....but don't you think a woman would know more what women would like.......hmmmmmmm yea |
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just ask her out
flowers should not make a difference and should come later it might pressure her esp sent to her place of employment i know i guy sent me roses at the hospital once and it made everyone talk and ask questions love my coorkers and we pretty much know everything about eachother, however what if she is more private? |
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