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Topic: in need of opinions
HeSearches's photo
Fri 07/25/08 05:28 PM
I'd follow Frisco73's advice. The bouquet may seem really romantic but a lot women would wonder what the heck you were thinking.

Make it real simple. Be direct and ask her if she'd like to go out.

Some guys are under the wrong impression that if you spend a lot of money on women on the first date that will win them over. Wrong...oh so wrong.

Come up with 2 or 3 good ideas on where to meet - for drinks, coffee, lunch, whatever. Offer her alternatives and let her pick the one she likes the best.

Some women are afraid of committing to a night long date with a new guy until they know him well (some men are afraid of the same thing) so sometimes a Starbucks date is the perfect solution. It's nothing heavy, you learn whether or not you want to see them again. If it goes well, you plan something for an evening. If not, no harm done.

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 07/25/08 05:44 PM

im in need of some opinions theres a girl i like and want to ask out and i have come up with an idea of sending her a bouquet of flowers or roses to her work asking her out would this appropriate or should i ask her in person face to face

Ask her in person face to face....flowers before you know she is even interested sounds too needy too me....

feralcatlady's photo
Fri 07/25/08 05:50 PM
I say take the flowers to her work....in a huge vase that covers your face....take them to her desk...or wherever and then uncover your face and say...I would be honored if you would go out with me friday night...or whenever....oh yea


I CAN FEEL




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happy dance

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 07/25/08 05:59 PM

I say take the flowers to her work....in a huge vase that covers your face....take them to her desk...or wherever and then uncover your face and say...I would be honored if you would go out with me friday night...or whenever....oh yea


I CAN FEEL




a




happy dance

What if she decides to water them before he takes them away from his face....I know,he'll be doing the 'Happy Dance'

Tanzkity's photo
Fri 07/25/08 06:05 PM
I would just call her and then if she says yes...........then bring one rose for her on the date............too many flowers is too overwhelming when she doesnt know you.................flowerforyou

Sluggo's photo
Fri 07/25/08 06:14 PM
Don't send the message that you're a desperate wuss...No flowers until she deserves them.....

feralcatlady's photo
Sat 07/26/08 04:31 PM

Don't send the message that you're a desperate wuss...No flowers until she deserves them.....


Thats a guys opinion of what he should do.....but don't you think a woman would know more what women would like.......hmmmmmmm yea

nurjoyce's photo
Sat 07/26/08 04:35 PM
just ask her out
flowers should not make a difference and should come later
it might pressure her esp sent to her place of employment
i know i guy sent me roses at the hospital once and it made everyone talk and ask questions
love my coorkers and we pretty much know everything about eachother, however what if she is more private?


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