Topic: Quantity or quality
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Thu 07/24/08 02:04 PM
Some people on dating sites send out e-mails like they are spam. They subscribe to the theory that if you throw enough
sh!t against the wall some of it is bound to stick. Others will focus on a couple of likely candidates and try to work their magic.

Which is more likely to be successful in finding a date? How about in finding a relationship? I think there might be a different answer for each of these questions.


oldsage's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:05 PM
I go for QUALITY every time.
Quality will last much longer than quantity.

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Thu 07/24/08 02:05 PM
Just realxing and trying to find friendsbigsmile

jtip1977's photo
Thu 07/24/08 02:05 PM
I just let them come to me.

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Thu 07/24/08 02:06 PM

Just realxing and trying to find friendsbigsmile



Funny you should say that because that was my mindset when I first joined up and I wound up finding the woman I love out here...

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Thu 07/24/08 02:07 PM

I just let them come to me.



Not all of us are superstuds bro

drinker drinker drinker

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Thu 07/24/08 02:08 PM


Just realxing and trying to find friendsbigsmile



Funny you should say that because that was my mindset when I first joined up and I wound up finding the woman I love out here...

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou
yeah, I found my guy, he broke my heart, and now....just looking for friends

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Thu 07/24/08 02:10 PM


Just realxing and trying to find friendsbigsmile



Funny you should say that because that was my mindset when I first joined up and I wound up finding the woman I love out here...

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou
and actually she probably started out as a friend which meant no pressure and things just happened?

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Thu 07/24/08 02:10 PM


I just let them come to me.



Not all of us are superstuds bro

drinker drinker drinker


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Thu 07/24/08 02:11 PM
Edited by Mrtap on Thu 07/24/08 02:12 PM
drinker As miskim said relax and find friend first drinker

drinker drinker

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Thu 07/24/08 02:11 PM



Just realxing and trying to find friendsbigsmile



Funny you should say that because that was my mindset when I first joined up and I wound up finding the woman I love out here...

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou
and actually she probably started out as a friend which meant no pressure and things just happened?


No, we had feelings for each other from the get, but she was sooooo far away I resisted for awhile...

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Thu 07/24/08 02:12 PM
Oh I got a mail from a guy today and I said I was regretful it did not end with, "What are you doing Friday night?" So I asked him....

I know I'm shy. laugh

He is a doll, tall, three years younger, lives pretty close (40 min drive)... from Massachusetts originally (I'm a sucker for a fellow yankee).

Dammit I got to have a good date once in a while....

Anyhow, wish me luck. I joined this site to date and see what I found. So far, it's been sad and sorry. But I am perservering as I know there ARE good guys. I'm just waiting to meet them. Actually, that is not fair. I have met a few, a rare few, but there was just not any chemistry.

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Thu 07/24/08 02:16 PM

Oh I got a mail from a guy today and I said I was regretful it did not end with, "What are you doing Friday night?" So I asked him....

I know I'm shy. laugh

He is a doll, tall, three years younger, lives pretty close (40 min drive)... from Massachusetts originally (I'm a sucker for a fellow yankee).

Dammit I got to have a good date once in a while....

Anyhow, wish me luck. I joined this site to date and see what I found. So far, it's been sad and sorry. But I am perservering as I know there ARE good guys. I'm just waiting to meet them. Actually, that is not fair. I have met a few, a rare few, but there was just not any chemistry.



flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou You are beautiful, sweet, and brilliant. I GUARANTEE if you perservere you will find a good man my friend. :heart: :heart: :heart:

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Thu 07/24/08 02:20 PM
Thanks, Mitch. flowerforyou

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Thu 07/24/08 02:22 PM
smooched You're welcomesmooched

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Thu 07/24/08 02:22 PM
Quality, definetly. If someone is just sending out tones of emails that are pretty much genaric "you have great eyes" or "hey wana chat" sorts of emails, I can tell, and it gets anoying and I deleate them mos of the time.

(PS. Sorry I'm not the best speller)

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Thu 07/24/08 03:08 PM

Oh I got a mail from a guy today and I said I was regretful it did not end with, "What are you doing Friday night?" So I asked him....

I know I'm shy. laugh

He is a doll, tall, three years younger, lives pretty close (40 min drive)... from Massachusetts originally (I'm a sucker for a fellow yankee).

Dammit I got to have a good date once in a while....

Anyhow, wish me luck. I joined this site to date and see what I found. So far, it's been sad and sorry. But I am perservering as I know there ARE good guys. I'm just waiting to meet them. Actually, that is not fair. I have met a few, a rare few, but there was just not any chemistry.


Lol... gotta love a direct woman! Have a feeling you'll do fine.

Good luck with the date!

TK

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Thu 07/24/08 03:09 PM
Are there any other choices?

my3girlsrcbk's photo
Thu 07/24/08 03:13 PM
Quality, find friends first, then date.

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Thu 07/24/08 03:14 PM
wtg Lilith - have fun!!!