Topic: "I MISS YOU"
BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 07/23/08 11:35 AM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Wed 07/23/08 11:38 AM

BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 07/23/08 11:36 AM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Wed 07/23/08 11:39 AM
Sorry...damn computer at work got stuck in a loop....My bad

izzie's photo
Wed 07/23/08 12:05 PM
thank you.
flowerforyou





how about when he misses you.. is stuck in another state for work for a 12 week block, you are half way through that block of time.. and he finds out his estimated day of return.. only to tell you that instead of coming to see you.. he will be going out with his friends and will TRY to come see you the next day if hes up to the 2.5 hour drive after drinin all nite....


grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble

ok in his defence it will be the first time he will be home for his birthday in the last 4 years.. but still....

that will be 15 weeks since we saw eachother last!!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble


ok sorry.. back to your regulaly scheduled venting.. im returning the soap box to fran..
flowerforyou


he should be offering for you to go too


So one more day will kill youlaugh
lol.. no but if he doesnt feel up to driving over the next day then it will be AOTHER 3 weeks before he can come over..
and he did offer for me to come too, but i have no one to watch the 4 lil people for a weekend....



Well, if he is anything like me. Id be there:wink:

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 07/23/08 12:08 PM
When i tell someone i miss them

I mean it ohwell

izzie's photo
Wed 07/23/08 12:10 PM
i know its incredibly stupid!!! but still.....:cry: :cry: :cry:


lol.. no but if he doesnt feel up to driving over the next day then it will be AOTHER 3 weeks before he can come over..
and he did offer for me to come too, but i have no one to watch the 4 lil people for a weekend....





I FEEL your pain girlfriend .. flowers


no photo
Wed 07/23/08 12:32 PM

Obviously for any and all tendencies given to male or female genders it's a 'generalization' .. for goodness sake.

But best selling books (like Mars/Venus =) couldn't BE BSB's IF the MAJORITY of a gender didn't do thus and so ...............


That's the best part of rules ..... that they HAVE exceptions :wink:


I had to come up with something to post because I knew you'd have a time with it! Yes it is the truth!... I thought, "Hmmm, what will she have to say about THIS!?"

HeSearches's photo
Wed 07/23/08 12:36 PM
Fade,

I gotta disagree with you from my own experience.

I'm not going to take on the task of explaining what other men do but if I tell a woman I miss her I really miss her. I wish she was close, talking to me, doing something with me, laying in bed with me, and just being around.

If a woman told me she missed me I'd want to know why and how much? Most of them are too chicken to tell you that.

D

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 07/23/08 12:48 PM

Fade,

I gotta disagree with you from my own experience.

I'm not going to take on the task of explaining what other men do but if I tell a woman I miss her I really miss her. I wish she was close, talking to me, doing something with me, laying in bed with me, and just being around.

If a woman told me she missed me I'd want to know why and how much? Most of them are too chicken to tell you that.

D


Oh now I NEVER said the guys don't MISS the women .. that's not what I said. I said the WAY they SHOW they miss them is the difference.

I totally agree they MISS their woman .. but I've had wonderful men tell me how much they missed me yet you coulda fooled me...THAT'S what I'm sayin.

I think it's more communication breakdown and let's remember

Communication is NOT what I SAY, it's what you HEAR :wink:


Like a guy will say .. "I miss you baby" but he didn't even try to call all day. Why? Because he truly does miss the woman but it just stops there.

That's all ..

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 07/23/08 12:49 PM


Obviously for any and all tendencies given to male or female genders it's a 'generalization' .. for goodness sake.

But best selling books (like Mars/Venus =) couldn't BE BSB's IF the MAJORITY of a gender didn't do thus and so ...............


That's the best part of rules ..... that they HAVE exceptions :wink:


I had to come up with something to post because I knew you'd have a time with it! Yes it is the truth!... I thought, "Hmmm, what will she have to say about THIS!?"



flowers

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 07/23/08 12:50 PM

Men don't really miss our women....we look forward to the free time....
we miss the sex.....& when she returns it usually is great! if we do call its really to make sure she's not cheating...& we're still #1....

anything else is just filling time....:wink:



OMG .. this is soooooooooooooo true. LMAO

My ex BF did this all the time, and the reason I KNOW it was to check in on me was the times he'd call ... OMG Jayson this is hysterical :laughing:

BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 07/23/08 04:00 PM


Men don't really miss our women....we look forward to the free time....
we miss the sex.....& when she returns it usually is great! if we do call its really to make sure she's not cheating...& we're still #1....

anything else is just filling time....:wink:



OMG .. this is soooooooooooooo true. LMAO

My ex BF did this all the time, and the reason I KNOW it was to check in on me was the times he'd call ... OMG Jayson this is hysterical :laughing:

As you know i'm not much one for being politically correct....I try to be honest & say it like it is...(at least from my perspective)....And i know the minds of men(no kiddinglaugh )....most men know what i said is true....and so do you :smile:

krupa's photo
Wed 07/23/08 04:35 PM
I guess I see your point Disco. But, I just refuse to bring my loved ones down if I can avoid it.

When times are good...I am an extreme extrovert and you can't shut me up with a sledge hammer. When things are not good..I am an extreme introvert I simply don't speak about the bad things in my life when I know very well that talk changes none of it. Just my way.

chopperdan's photo
Wed 07/23/08 04:41 PM
People if you miss someone mean it. I miss my sweetheart who I lost to a damn accident and YES I DO MISS HER. I miss her terrbily and there is no damn way I can ever not miss her. People say what you really mean while you can and damn it mean every damn word!

Ry42009's photo
Wed 07/23/08 04:45 PM
i know exactly what u mean and whats up with that ne way??

chopperdan's photo
Wed 07/23/08 04:50 PM
If you truly care say it before it's too late!

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 07/23/08 06:00 PM

People if you miss someone mean it. I miss my sweetheart who I lost to a damn accident and YES I DO MISS HER. I miss her terrbily and there is no damn way I can ever not miss her. People say what you really mean while you can and damn it mean every damn word!



that's so right

krupa's photo
Wed 07/23/08 07:04 PM
Not gonna easily cast out an "I love you".....It must be earned. I am a nice and simple guy...

(Yet the females have a hard time grasping the concept)

The up-side is...when I tell someone that I love them.....it is permanent.

Christinacospgs's photo
Wed 07/23/08 07:23 PM

I guess I see your point Disco. But, I just refuse to bring my loved ones down if I can avoid it.

When times are good...I am an extreme extrovert and you can't shut me up with a sledge hammer. When things are not good..I am an extreme introvert I simply don't speak about the bad things in my life when I know very well that talk changes none of it. Just my way.


flowerforyou :heart:

Christinacospgs's photo
Wed 07/23/08 07:23 PM

People if you miss someone mean it. I miss my sweetheart who I lost to a damn accident and YES I DO MISS HER. I miss her terrbily and there is no damn way I can ever not miss her. People say what you really mean while you can and damn it mean every damn word!


sad

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 07/23/08 07:24 PM
Christina .. how are you girlfriend?flowers