Topic: "I MISS YOU"
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Wed 07/23/08 10:34 AM
I gave up trying to figure them out!!!noway

TheShadow's photo
Wed 07/23/08 10:36 AM

I gave up trying to figure them out!!!noway


hell what fun would it be if you new everything?

krupa's photo
Wed 07/23/08 10:42 AM
Going through this very thing myself....

Got a girl as well as a couple of friends that I used to talk to every day...now, maybe once a month though I get texts everyday about being missed.

But, between work, my Mom having recently broken her back, Having to help my father take care of Mom and my 98 year old grandma....What am I supposed to say?...."Hi honey!...Worked my butt off all day and went straight out to my parents house to steam clean the trail of granny poo out of the carpet and off the walls again (Every night at this point)...How was your day?"

Seriously, everyone has thier problems and I just refuse to burden anyone with the bad Juju going on in my life, no matter how much they "Miss" me.

No1sLove's photo
Wed 07/23/08 10:47 AM
That's not all men though. When my sweetie misses me he calls to hear my voice. Awww! blushing

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Wed 07/23/08 10:51 AM

In my opinion, that is a gross generalization. But I totally hear you. Let me say, men really are just dense creatures. They say things and do dense things. Also their actions and speeches are often times completely inappropriate for the occaision. But God made them that way so that we'd take pity upon them, and take care of them like sweet babies. Hmph.



Now THIS ^^ is the gross generalization .. rofl rofl rofl

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Wed 07/23/08 10:53 AM
Edited by Fade2Black on Wed 07/23/08 10:54 AM
Obviously for any and all tendencies given to male or female genders it's a 'generalization' .. for goodness sake.

But best selling books (like Mars/Venus =) couldn't BE BSB's IF the MAJORITY of a gender didn't do thus and so ...............


That's the best part of rules ..... that they HAVE exceptions :wink:

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Wed 07/23/08 10:54 AM



how about when he misses you.. is stuck in another state for work for a 12 week block, you are half way through that block of time.. and he finds out his estimated day of return.. only to tell you that instead of coming to see you.. he will be going out with his friends and will TRY to come see you the next day if hes up to the 2.5 hour drive after drinin all nite....


grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble

ok in his defence it will be the first time he will be home for his birthday in the last 4 years.. but still....

that will be 15 weeks since we saw eachother last!!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble


ok sorry.. back to your regulaly scheduled venting.. im returning the soap box to fran..
flowerforyou


he should be offering for you to go too


So one more day will kill youlaugh
lol.. no but if he doesnt feel up to driving over the next day then it will be AOTHER 3 weeks before he can come over..
and he did offer for me to come too, but i have no one to watch the 4 lil people for a weekend....

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Wed 07/23/08 10:56 AM




how about when he misses you.. is stuck in another state for work for a 12 week block, you are half way through that block of time.. and he finds out his estimated day of return.. only to tell you that instead of coming to see you.. he will be going out with his friends and will TRY to come see you the next day if hes up to the 2.5 hour drive after drinin all nite....


grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble

ok in his defence it will be the first time he will be home for his birthday in the last 4 years.. but still....

that will be 15 weeks since we saw eachother last!!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble


ok sorry.. back to your regulaly scheduled venting.. im returning the soap box to fran..
flowerforyou


he should be offering for you to go too


So one more day will kill youlaugh
lol.. no but if he doesnt feel up to driving over the next day then it will be AOTHER 3 weeks before he can come over..
and he did offer for me to come too, but i have no one to watch the 4 lil people for a weekend....





I FEEL your pain girlfriend .. flowers

no photo
Wed 07/23/08 10:56 AM

Going through this very thing myself....

Got a girl as well as a couple of friends that I used to talk to every day...now, maybe once a month though I get texts everyday about being missed.

But, between work, my Mom having recently broken her back, Having to help my father take care of Mom and my 98 year old grandma....What am I supposed to say?...."Hi honey!...Worked my butt off all day and went straight out to my parents house to steam clean the trail of granny poo out of the carpet and off the walls again (Every night at this point)...How was your day?"

Seriously, everyone has thier problems and I just refuse to burden anyone with the bad Juju going on in my life, no matter how much they "Miss" me.


So, you'd rather just not talk to them very little? I guess I find that kind of odd. Even when things aren't going well, I'd rather talk to the people I really enjoy talking to, than not talk to them at all.

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Wed 07/23/08 11:03 AM




how about when he misses you.. is stuck in another state for work for a 12 week block, you are half way through that block of time.. and he finds out his estimated day of return.. only to tell you that instead of coming to see you.. he will be going out with his friends and will TRY to come see you the next day if hes up to the 2.5 hour drive after drinin all nite....


grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble

ok in his defence it will be the first time he will be home for his birthday in the last 4 years.. but still....

that will be 15 weeks since we saw eachother last!!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble grumble


ok sorry.. back to your regulaly scheduled venting.. im returning the soap box to fran..
flowerforyou


he should be offering for you to go too


So one more day will kill youlaugh
lol.. no but if he doesnt feel up to driving over the next day then it will be AOTHER 3 weeks before he can come over..
and he did offer for me to come too, but i have no one to watch the 4 lil people for a weekend....



Well, if he is anything like me. Id be there:wink:

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 07/23/08 11:32 AM

that is soooooooooo true!! Men are idiots! Well not all men lol just goof laugh laugh kidding kidding


huh noway ... i kinda missed that one

:tongue: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 07/23/08 11:33 AM
Men don't really miss our women....we look forward to the free time....
we miss the sex.....& when she returns it usually is great! if we do call its really to make sure she's not cheating...& we're still #1....

anything else is just filling time....:wink:

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