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Topic: Wish I knew what to do!!
rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Tue 07/22/08 08:43 AM
Wish I knew what to do, to close this door so she could never get through! But she wont respond to my repeated plea, come get her belongings then let me be. I could throw her stuff right out my door, but I am not made that way and dont love her no more. So what do I do when that door will not close, do I maybe grow some balls I suppose?

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Tue 07/22/08 08:47 AM


Raven100 Joined Sun 07/20/08 Posts: 49	Tue 07/22/08 08:47 AM
Oh MY!! good one...I give ya 3 cudos for that one..

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Tue 07/22/08 08:48 AM
[/quote Thanks Suz,I am so torn! Wish someone could understand my fears!

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Tue 07/22/08 08:53 AM
Hmm.. not sure why she wouldn't come get her things, I know I wouldn't want to be somewhere where I wasn't wanted Perhaps she thinks that you don't really mean it? You'll change your mind? My suggestion, give her a time/date for her to come pick it up, leave it outside. If she does not adhere to this time/date, then it would be considered abandoned property and your free to get rid of as you wish. Good luck!

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Tue 07/22/08 08:57 AM
Hmm.. not sure why she wouldn't come get her things, I know I wouldn't want to be somewhere where I wasn't wanted Perhaps she thinks that you don't really mean it? You'll change your mind? My suggestion, give her a time/date for her to come pick it up, leave it outside. If she does not adhere to this time/date, then it would be considered abandoned property and your free to get rid of as you wish. Good luck! Thanks for your suggestion.Am sending her a certified letter giving her 30 days!

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Tue 07/22/08 08:59 AM
Hmm.. not sure why she wouldn't come get her things, I know I wouldn't want to be somewhere where I wasn't wanted Perhaps she thinks that you don't really mean it? You'll change your mind? My suggestion, give her a time/date for her to come pick it up, leave it outside. If she does not adhere to this time/date, then it would be considered abandoned property and your free to get rid of as you wish. Good luck! Thanks for your suggestion.Am sending her a certified letter giving her 30 days! I personally would give her 2 weeks, unless she doesn't live that close to you.. my JMPO

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Tue 07/22/08 09:08 AM
Hmm.. not sure why she wouldn't come get her things, I know I wouldn't want to be somewhere where I wasn't wanted Perhaps she thinks that you don't really mean it? You'll change your mind? My suggestion, give her a time/date for her to come pick it up, leave it outside. If she does not adhere to this time/date, then it would be considered abandoned property and your free to get rid of as you wish. Good luck! Appreciate your opinion very much! Thanks for your suggestion.Am sending her a certified letter giving her 30 days! I personally would give her 2 weeks, unless she doesn't live that close to you.. my JMPO

Martec Joined Fri 07/11/08 Posts: 249	Tue 07/22/08 09:09 AM


Unknow Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 1972	Tue 07/22/08 09:13 AM Edited by Unknow on Tue 07/22/08 09:13 AM
Tell her to come with the police or have witnesses around because if she's like my x she might lie about you or start something. Or maybe drop it off at the police station, or her families house or a friends with a signed list of what you dropped off. Good luck and protect yourself

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Tue 07/22/08 09:22 AM
Tell her to come with the police or have witnesses around because if she's like my x she might lie about you or start something. Or maybe drop it off at the police station, or her families house or a friends with a signed list of what you dropped off. Good luck and protect yourself Thankyou for your support and opinion! I will at that!

Unknow Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 1972	Tue 07/22/08 10:07 AM Edited by Unknow on Tue 07/22/08 10:08 AM
Tell her to come with the police or have witnesses around because if she's like my x she might lie about you or start something. Or maybe drop it off at the police station, or her families house or a friends with a signed list of what you dropped off. Good luck and protect yourself Wow, maybe i should think before i write, i hope nobody thought i was talking about woman in general, this would apply to anybody leaving a relationship. Even the nicest person may resort to drastic measures to get even, or get back at someone that has hurt them ( well at least in their eyes ) Once again i'm sorry if i affended anyone thats just not my philosophy of life.

Sweet_and_Sassy Joined Fri 07/06/07 Posts: 217	Tue 07/22/08 06:41 PM
Rod...just put it out on the porch, she has had plenty of time and plenty of messages about it. If it important to her she will come and get it,if not let the Salvation Army have it. It is time that you closed the door yourself...remember, if you want something done right you might as well do it yourself. Quit putting off the inevitable. It will be hard but it is the next step.

starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Tue 07/22/08 06:55 PM


rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Wed 07/23/08 07:49 AM
Rod...just put it out on the porch, she has had plenty of time and plenty of messages about it. If it important to her she will come and get it,if not let the Salvation Army have it. It is time that you closed the door yourself...remember, if you want something done right you might as well do it yourself. Quit putting off the inevitable. It will be hard but it is the next step. I plan on sending her a final certified letter giving her 30 days from tomorrow,then if nothing,I will have to give it to Good Will. thanks for your support!