Topic: Wish I knew what to do!!
rodfcutler's photo
Tue 07/22/08 08:43 AM

Wish I knew
what to do,
to close this door
so she could never get through!

But she wont respond
to my repeated plea,
come get her belongings
then let me be.

I could throw her stuff
right out my door,
but I am not made that way
and dont love her no more.

So what do I do
when that door will not close,
do I maybe grow
some balls I suppose?
noway

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Tue 07/22/08 08:47 AM
drinker

Raven100's photo
Tue 07/22/08 08:47 AM
Oh MY!! good one...I give ya 3 cudos for that one..:laughing:

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Tue 07/22/08 08:48 AM

drinker
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Thanks Suz,I am so torn! Wish someone could understand my fears!blushing :cry: sick

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Tue 07/22/08 08:53 AM
Hmm.. not sure why she wouldn't come get her things, I know I wouldn't want to be somewhere where I wasn't wanted frown

Perhaps she thinks that you don't really mean it? You'll change your mind? My suggestion, give her a time/date for her to come pick it up, leave it outside. If she does not adhere to this time/date, then it would be considered abandoned property and your free to get rid of as you wish.

Good luck!

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Tue 07/22/08 08:57 AM

Hmm.. not sure why she wouldn't come get her things, I know I wouldn't want to be somewhere where I wasn't wanted frown

Perhaps she thinks that you don't really mean it? You'll change your mind? My suggestion, give her a time/date for her to come pick it up, leave it outside. If she does not adhere to this time/date, then it would be considered abandoned property and your free to get rid of as you wish.

Good luck!

Thanks for your suggestion.Am sending her a certified letter giving her 30 days!:wink:

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Tue 07/22/08 08:59 AM


Hmm.. not sure why she wouldn't come get her things, I know I wouldn't want to be somewhere where I wasn't wanted frown

Perhaps she thinks that you don't really mean it? You'll change your mind? My suggestion, give her a time/date for her to come pick it up, leave it outside. If she does not adhere to this time/date, then it would be considered abandoned property and your free to get rid of as you wish.

Good luck!

Thanks for your suggestion.Am sending her a certified letter giving her 30 days!:wink:



I personally would give her 2 weeks, unless she doesn't live that close to you.. my JMPOdrinker

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Tue 07/22/08 09:08 AM



Hmm.. not sure why she wouldn't come get her things, I know I wouldn't want to be somewhere where I wasn't wanted frown

Perhaps she thinks that you don't really mean it? You'll change your mind? My suggestion, give her a time/date for her to come pick it up, leave it outside. If she does not adhere to this time/date, then it would be considered abandoned property and your free to get rid of as you wish.

Good luck!


Appreciate your opinion very much!flowerforyou

Thanks for your suggestion.Am sending her a certified letter giving her 30 days!:wink:



I personally would give her 2 weeks, unless she doesn't live that close to you.. my JMPOdrinker

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Tue 07/22/08 09:09 AM
indifferent

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Tue 07/22/08 09:13 AM
Edited by Unknow on Tue 07/22/08 09:13 AM
Tell her to come with the police or have witnesses around because if she's like my x she might lie about you or start something. Or maybe drop it off at the police station, or her families house or a friends with a signed list of what you dropped off. Good luck and protect yourself frown

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Tue 07/22/08 09:22 AM

Tell her to come with the police or have witnesses around because if she's like my x she might lie about you or start something. Or maybe drop it off at the police station, or her families house or a friends with a signed list of what you dropped off. Good luck and protect yourself frown


Thankyou for your support and opinion! I will at that!:wink:

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Tue 07/22/08 10:07 AM
Edited by Unknow on Tue 07/22/08 10:08 AM

Tell her to come with the police or have witnesses around because if she's like my x she might lie about you or start something. Or maybe drop it off at the police station, or her families house or a friends with a signed list of what you dropped off. Good luck and protect yourself frown


Wow, maybe i should think before i write, i hope nobody thought i was talking about woman in general, this would apply to anybody leaving a relationship. Even the nicest person may resort to drastic measures to get even, or get back at someone that has hurt them ( well at least in their eyes ) Once again i'm sorry if i affended anyone thats just not my philosophy of life.

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Tue 07/22/08 06:41 PM
Rod...just put it out on the porch, she has had plenty of time and plenty of messages about it. If it important to her she will come and get it,if not let the Salvation Army have it. It is time that you closed the door yourself...remember, if you want something done right you might as well do it yourself. Quit putting off the inevitable.

It will be hard but it is the next step.

flowerforyou

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Tue 07/22/08 06:55 PM
flowerforyou

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Wed 07/23/08 07:49 AM

Rod...just put it out on the porch, she has had plenty of time and plenty of messages about it. If it important to her she will come and get it,if not let the Salvation Army have it. It is time that you closed the door yourself...remember, if you want something done right you might as well do it yourself. Quit putting off the inevitable.

It will be hard but it is the next step.

flowerforyou




I plan on sending her a final certified letter giving her 30 days from tomorrow,then if nothing,I will have to give it to Good Will.
thanks for your support!flowerforyou