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Topic: Don't get some people
Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Mon 07/21/08 06:16 PM
End of June, I met up with a fellow for coffee. Had a pleasant afternoon. Fourth of July, he mentions meeting up again on Saturday or Sunday. Then he isn't on line to finalize plans. Saw him come online and said hi. He logged off right away. Okay, so fine, he changed his mind, he could at least say that.

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Mon 07/21/08 06:17 PM
I get that a lot with online dating!

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 07/21/08 06:17 PM
Hate when guys do that. They should be straight forward than to lead one on. It's a waste of our sweet, precious time.

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Mon 07/21/08 06:17 PM
I agree. Pretty chicken sh*t to just run away. Move on - he's not worth your time

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 07/21/08 06:18 PM
End of June, I met up with a fellow for coffee. Had a pleasant afternoon. Fourth of July, he mentions meeting up again on Saturday or Sunday. Then he isn't on line to finalize plans. Saw him come online and said hi. He logged off right away. Okay, so fine, he changed his mind, he could at least say that. Throw nuts at him next time you see him. All the while telling him to grow some.

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Mon 07/21/08 06:18 PM
End of June, I met up with a fellow for coffee. Had a pleasant afternoon. Fourth of July, he mentions meeting up again on Saturday or Sunday. Then he isn't on line to finalize plans. Saw him come online and said hi. He logged off right away. Okay, so fine, he changed his mind, he could at least say that. yup some peoples kids.!!!

justwantlove87 Joined Thu 06/05/08 Posts: 810	Mon 07/21/08 06:18 PM
some guys are just to blind to see what they have infront of em are good... i hope this doesn't hold you back... keep goin eventually you will come across a guy who truly apriciates you.

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Mon 07/21/08 06:19 PM
Maybe you're not what he really was looking for But he should at least have the brass to tell you so. and explain. Or maybe he's married and an azzhole sorry

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Mon 07/21/08 06:25 PM
Men and women both do this sadly. I don't get it either but they do. I mean really how hard is it to tell someone sorry you aren't my type? At least a person can respect that. Instead of acting like a sniveling coward and not saying anything just dropping off the face of the earth....

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 07/21/08 06:26 PM
Men and women both do this sadly. I don't get it either but they do. I mean really how hard is it to tell someone sorry you aren't my type? At least a person can respect that. Instead of acting like a sniveling coward and not saying anything just dropping off the face of the earth....

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Mon 07/21/08 06:33 PM
It's just seeing someone in his early 40's acting like his early teens that seems weird. I keep expecting grown-ups to act like they are grown-up.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Mon 07/21/08 06:34 PM
Wow, that sounds FAMILIAR!!

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Mon 07/21/08 06:50 PM
The one guy I stopped taking with, not that we talked much, at least knew why. He shouldn't be telling people he is talking with for the first time that he is jacking off to their picture. It really doesn't make a good impression. And I told him that.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Mon 07/21/08 06:51 PM
I get that a lot with online dating! I do too

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Mon 07/21/08 06:52 PM
The one guy I stopped taking with, not that we talked much, at least knew why. He shouldn't be telling people he is talking with for the first time that he is jacking off to their picture. It really doesn't make a good impression. And I told him that.

BrooklineBaby Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 469	Mon 07/21/08 06:53 PM
End of June, I met up with a fellow for coffee. Had a pleasant afternoon. Fourth of July, he mentions meeting up again on Saturday or Sunday. Then he isn't on line to finalize plans. Saw him come online and said hi. He logged off right away. Okay, so fine, he changed his mind, he could at least say that. I think it's quite RUDE to be ignored, and an insult when someone notices you're online and logs off - talk about avoidance issues.......He/she needs to be a grown=up and speak to that person and apologize for having avoiding you and discuss things in a mature fashion.... Sorry it happened to you........

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Mon 07/21/08 06:53 PM
Or they send you a email and want to talk and so you email back and forth and then they just quit emailing and will not even email you back. I just dont get it, but I am sure that we as women do it also.

cflbikedog Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 2361	Mon 07/21/08 06:54 PM
The one guy I stopped taking with, not that we talked much, at least knew why. He shouldn't be telling people he is talking with for the first time that he is jacking off to their picture. It really doesn't make a good impression. And I told him that. OMG

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Mon 07/21/08 06:56 PM
Wow, that sounds FAMILIAR!! Strikingly so ... hmmm! Emergency pow-wow in the ladies room!

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Mon 07/21/08 06:56 PM
I lied. Not early 40's. 46.