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Topic: question for the ladies... (or for gentlemen to ponder)
Madtanker03's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:45 AM
Why is it, that women (not all, but most that I have seen) want a nice guy when they search for a man... they want someone to committ to them, a man who is willing to be there for them, stable, hardworking and loving... until that guy shows up on their doorstep... then they leave the nice guy standing there and head out the door with the jobless, nasty, womanizing drunk... why is it that nice guys finish last?

izzie's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:46 AM
yes gyps... hes new to the threads!!!!


kerbear73's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:47 AM
Seen this thread before

itsmetina's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:47 AM
this subject pops up every day.You just haven't found the right ladyflowers

Madtanker03's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:47 AM

yes gyps... hes new to the threads!!!!



Ok, what is the issue now? this post is in the right place, and is a legitimate question... so what is the issue?

Etrain's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:48 AM
Edited by Etrain on Mon 07/21/08 12:50 AM
hey I resemble that remark!!!devil devil devil ...and I'm not nasty...all the other stuff...maybeblushing blushing blushing

no photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:48 AM

yes gyps... hes new to the threads!!!!


I will forgive him as long as he buys me a new jar of peanut butter!!!:tongue: Skippy lite.........NO EXCEPTIONS!!!:tongue:

enchantress's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:48 AM
because the badboy image appeals to about 85% of the female population...

Madtanker03's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:49 AM


yes gyps... hes new to the threads!!!!


I will forgive him as long as he buys me a new jar of peanut butter!!!:tongue: Skippy lite.........NO EXCEPTIONS!!!:tongue:

I prefer JIF, however, whatever spreads smoother...mmmm

itsmetina's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:50 AM
the issue is that a self professed nice guy makes a thread about this daily sometimes the same guy repost the same thread but if you are new you probaly didn't know that

Madtanker03's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:50 AM

because the badboy image appeals to about 85% of the female population...

Yeah, I get that, the 'mystique' thing the whole 'maybe I can be the one to change him' ideal... so, since most people have had some exposure to basic human psychology, and we all know that at the elemental level, most people wont change, what is the fantasy?

izzie's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:51 AM


yes gyps... hes new to the threads!!!!



Ok, what is the issue now? this post is in the right place, and is a legitimate question... so what is the issue?
here... just ONE of my replies to this same topic!!!!!

that we have sadly answered over and over...

but we forgive you... gyps said so!!!
http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/135261

Nursenell76's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:52 AM

Why is it, that women (not all, but most that I have seen) want a nice guy when they search for a man... they want someone to committ to them, a man who is willing to be there for them, stable, hardworking and loving... until that guy shows up on their doorstep... then they leave the nice guy standing there and head out the door with the jobless, nasty, womanizing drunk... why is it that nice guys finish last?


Because the women who leave with nasty jobless, womanizing drunks are usually nasty, alcoholic, self pitying, used up, skanks who bounce back and forth between the good guys and the worthless ones making the rest of us look bad and ruining the good womens chances with the good guys. pitchfork

izzie's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:53 AM

hey I resemble that remark!!!devil devil devil ...and I'm not nasty...all the other stuff...maybeblushing blushing blushing
good luck with that sweet stuff!!! flowers smitten

no photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:53 AM
Ok what was the question again???? ohhhhhhhhhhh how women dont go for the nice guys and then go for the azzzzzzzzholes!!!

Ok.....once and for all I will tell you!!!!

Most nice guys are boring!!! Plain and simple!!!

We want an exciting guy......keeping us on our toes. We also want a nice guy!!! For some odd reason they dont coincide with each other most of the time. Thus the reason for women going for the more "exciting" azzholes.....

Usually this happens in the early 20's and 30s........by the time we reach our 40s......we want a nice guy and then all the nice guys turn into azzholes and then half of the females turn into lesbians and the rest are either ok with living alone!!noway laugh laugh laugh

YourLove1's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:54 AM
in many many ways men and women are the same

Etrain's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:55 AM


hey I resemble that remark!!!devil devil devil ...and I'm not nasty...all the other stuff...maybeblushing blushing blushing
good luck with that sweet stuff!!! flowers smitten

love love izzielove love

kerbear73's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:55 AM
Edited by kerbear73 on Mon 07/21/08 12:56 AM

Ok what was the question again???? ohhhhhhhhhhh how women dont go for the nice guys and then go for the azzzzzzzzholes!!!

Ok.....once and for all I will tell you!!!!

Most nice guys are boring!!! Plain and simple!!!

We want an exciting guy......keeping us on our toes. We also want a nice guy!!! For some odd reason they dont coincide with each other most of the time. Thus the reason for women going for the more "exciting" azzholes.....

Usually this happens in the early 20's and 30s........by the time we reach our 40s......we want a nice guy and then all the nice guys turn into azzholes and then half of the females turn into lesbians and the rest are either ok with living alone!!noway laugh laugh laugh



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Madtanker03's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:55 AM

the issue is that a self professed nice guy makes a thread about this daily sometimes the same guy repost the same thread but if you are new you probaly didn't know that


Nah, I did not know it... I am getting used to this forum... used to myspace, and yahoo chat, but a friend of mine told me about this stuff today... about an hour or so ago (maybe a lil more, not watching the clock...)

I mean, I know we all have issues, and nobody is perfect, however by every definition I have heard from women, I fit the 'desirable' categories...
I work, and make money (not rich by anyones standards, but i get something other than my leg when i reach in my pocket) I am romantic, spontaneous, and generous. Not boring, have many interests from the arts to sports, and am well versed sexually, I understand women very well, and am neither embarassed nor scared by feminine tactics... yet with all that, I cannot find a solid relationship... it is weird...

itsmetina's photo
Mon 07/21/08 12:57 AM
just have fun and when you stop looking and give up then :heart: will sneak up on you

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