I have a question for the ladies.

What is it that so many women find so sexy about spontaneity?

Spontaneous sex is one thing but this seems to go further. You want us to drop everything and do whatever you'd like to do.

To me that seems to be irrational and very inconsiderate but I remain open to some good arguments.

For example, I don't like it when you call at the last minute and want me to take you to major social function and my clothes for the event haven't event made to the dry cleaners. Is this the famous spontaneity all you women talk about?

Dictionary: spontaneity (spŏn'tə-nē'ĭ-tē, -nā'-)

n., pl. -ties.
The quality or condition of being spontaneous.
Spontaneous behavior, impulse, or movement.


It is a requirement of you, not someone else. Therefore in this thread with what you have stated, you have no clue what you are actually talking about.

I had a woman call me up once and wanted me to do something with her at the last minute and I could not do it because I had some other plans and the woman gets all pi$$ed that I turned her down. Is that what you are talking about?

I haven't a clue!!!! I rather like planning...but if during the plan, something creative or nifty comes along, don't mind a little alteration from time to time.

I don't think you will find the answer but good luck!

I'm well planned. Spontanaiety doesn't bother me too much. Its dangerous reckless life flies by the seat of their pants that bother me.

Hey i have to agree with ker. it's annoying when women do that

Not only do they want us to do things at the drop of a hat...but they want us to read their minds and know exactly WHEN to do it too...lol

we are their entertainment in a way. on your marks gets set go. let's see who's whipped.

heyyyy.....ya know what...now that I think about it....I do believe you are right!!!

We ARE entertainment for them. OMG!!!!

yeah they sure get a kick out of ruining our plans. I mean If i were doing it I know I'd laugh

hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa No we want that throw us against the wall sex kind of spontaniety!!! geeeeeeeeeezus do I have to teach you guys everything????

We are EVIL. We like doing it whenever and wherever at the drop of a hat.

well you're the hotest devil I've ever seen.
guess that's why guys put up with women.
we sold our souls to them a long time ago

well let me at least know when you want that kind of sex. Give me a hint or something.

I will write it in the itinerary???