Why is it so wrong?

Well for everyone that already knows me. Knows that I prefer the company of an older women.I t has nothing to do with the sex, nor looking for a mother figure. Its all about comfort level. For all you people that think that we are looking for a quick lay or someone to teach us the ways. Don't understand what love is. I will not disagree that there are alot of guys that are looking for just that, but are you going to stereo type all of us? We don't pick who we are attracted to, but we do have a choice who we want to be with. Let me ask this to all the people that are against it. Are you against inter-racial dating too???? or maybe same sex relations?

I have dated numerous older women, and everyone has been amazing. Sex aside. I can share and communicate with them on so many levels that I can not do with girls my own age. Age is just a number. Maturity level defines your age. With me I grew up with people older, so yes I matured faster then usual. Do I regret it???? Never. I will not trade it in for anything. So yes I perfer to date older women.


Well you hear the older guys talk about their attraction to younger girls, but never hear their reason for that. So if you seem to be one of them in here. Why not share for us? I am curious to hear what you have to say about it.

I agree, and if a man needs mentoring instead of having the willingness to learn things on his own and dicover woman the way we should be discoverd than I don't want anything to do with him anyways.

Some women in their 40s and 50s rock. I didn't mean to imply that this was the rule.

Unfortunately too many of them are too tired. That's been my experience with them. They're tired from their marriages, kids, jobs, careers, businesses, and everything else. They're jaded, faded, and about to turn to dust.

Mental agility counts with me. Summa cum laude here too.

More BS from women who don't know anything. Most women can't keep up with me.

And the mode becomes personal attack. Nice.

Well, since you're pushing 60, I'm wondering what age group you think IS appropriate for you? You're saying women in their 40s and 50s are too old for you?

Okay, no man is stepping up? My experience being with younger women is just that "it happened". I would say that I've pretty much dated women around my same age with a few older and a few younger women here and there. I don't pay a whole lot of attention to age because it's communication that counts. I don't go out and seek any particular age, instead I look at the person.

My personal experience with younger women? I was with a woman 17 years younger than me that wanted marriage. What stopped me from getting married to her was not our age difference, but that she wanted to start a family. I already had four kids and didn't want any more. My last ex was 10 years younger than myself. We ended up parting ways but it had nothing to do with communications or age.

If a woman or man focuses ONLY on being with a younger mate, there's something amiss there. It really is about the person and not their age.

I don't think I've ever looked in one of these rooms before. I never thought a person's age has anything to do with how I end up feeling about them. I've blown it with a woman 15 years older than me, and I've blown it with a woman 18 years younger. So I'll mess up either way.

What we all are looking for is someone that excites all our senses, and makes our mind run like a car at full throttle with no one behind the wheel. Who here doesn't enjoy that part of the relationship where you figure each other out? Call it chemistry, call it a feeling, call it what you want, the reasons we stay with someone is because or hearts and minds agree. What those two things are telling us is "I like this person."

There's no "big reason." You can't quantify it with physics, chemistry, psychology, or sociology. The truth is, no matter how much we humans like to think we've "developed our minds," we cannot predict where our hearts will lead us. We want to make it difficult, that way it appears like we've surmounted some great challenge, but in the end, it's just as base as when any other animal finds a mate. We put out our signals, and hope to attract someone, and when someone notices we all go "alright!!"

Let's not make a mountain out of a molehill here, all we need to do, is follow our hearts.


(Since it has been brought up so many times on this thread, IQ over 150, two college degrees, plus graduate school. No Cum Laudes, I had fun in college)

I just love women....well, my lady especially...but in general, I love women. Younger (which my lady is) or older (which if I wasn't with my lady and I met an older woman I connected with then I would date her). Doesn't matter to me cause I will never know all there is to know about women. One thing I do know is this. You keep your lady happy and all is right with the world (Goof says this as his GF is holding a gun to his head screaming, "SAY IT! SAY IT!")

F2B LIKE your GF






(( goof ))

Actually, I think you two would hit it off great Fade. You both are alot alike. Isn't that scary?

Doesn't surprise me at all .. cuz I've always thought you rocked