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Hmmm, don't know about that one - I think it'd be a case by case decision. I agree that people make mistakes, but there are those that are destined, for whatever reason, to keep repeating the same mistake. In my opinion, cheating on your partner is never a 'mistake'- one must make a conscious decision to do that. It does not happen without premeditation. ![]() ![]() ![]() And if someone openly admitted to you that they've cheated in the past, would you be able to give that person 100% of your trust?? No, the first time he/she didn't call when they said.. your mind would automatically "wonder" |
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What part of NO don't you understand, Peccy?
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This would be difficult. What were the reasons they cheated? Were they young and stupid? Did they not have a good relationship with their partner? There are so many possibilities. If they were honest enough to tell me that they cheated, hmmm, maybe they wouldn't do it again. I would give them a chance.
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This would be difficult. What were the reasons they cheated? Were they young and stupid? Did they not have a good relationship with their partner? There are so many possibilities. If they were honest enough to tell me that they cheated, hmmm, maybe they wouldn't do it again. I would give them a chance. "not have a good relationship" ?? FIX it or LEAVE.. not an excuse for cheating! |
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Yeah, but I might like to hear of the circumstances.
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Hmmmmmmmm thats a tough question for me.
Seeing as I have'nt been asked out at all yet... I might just go for it! ![]() ![]() |
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This would be difficult. What were the reasons they cheated? Were they young and stupid? Did they not have a good relationship with their partner? There are so many possibilities. If they were honest enough to tell me that they cheated, hmmm, maybe they wouldn't do it again. I would give them a chance. "not have a good relationship" ?? FIX it or LEAVE.. not an excuse for cheating! I agree with that. I guess I'm just the type of person who wants to hear the whole story and can give someone the benefit of the doubt. People can change. I've seen it. |
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Yeah, but I might like to hear of the circumstances. Absolutely agree. ![]() |
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is this mythical person rich?
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it depends... now if they were bragging about it and proud of theirselves for cheating hello no i wouldnt... but if they were sincere about it and just being open and honest about it like if they did it once and feel bad about it<guilty like> yes i would for the simple fact usually when plans to cheat on you they would not even be telling you about it..although knowing the reasonings etc yes i would be careful if those reasons ever applied to us. or if i think the reasons given to me would be something that could possibly happen between us would apply then i would not date them...as far as cheaters being sluts sure some are but a lot arent.....depends on how often they did it.... lots of people who have never cheated are also sluts and havent been in relationships... hence someone married 3 times and slept with 5 people all their life as compared to someone never married and slept with 200 people.. now why does being married 3-4 times give someone a bad rap? i dunno.. and married never or once and been with 200 people never get the rap? hummm,,,,
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that openly admitted to cheating on their former lover, would you go? sure it's not like he proposed ![]() |
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only if she promised not to play footsie with my crotch.!!!
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only if he was rich, i'd suspect i could score a few good gifts then dump him. haha
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What part of NO don't you understand, Peccy? ![]() |
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only if he was rich, i'd suspect i could score a few good gifts then dump him. haha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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only if he was rich, i'd suspect i could score a few good gifts then dump him. haha |
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ahh no one mentioned food before, then I'm back in ![]() |
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