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about her black eye ( her 4th one this year ) and how she got it... but I can't get her to admit it. I know it's her so called bf that did it, what can I do? She's an employee of mine...
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Nothing. There's nothing you can do, but make it clear to her that if she ever needs you, you'll be there.
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about her black eye ( her 4th one this year ) and how she got it... but I can't get her to admit it. I know it's her so called bf that did it, what can I do? She's an employee of mine... |
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drop anomins tip to cops ect but nothing will do any good unless she presses charges or they catch him doing it and press charges them selves
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about her black eye ( her 4th one this year ) and how she got it... but I can't get her to admit it. I know it's her so called bf that did it, what can I do? She's an employee of mine... |
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maybe you can pull her aside and talk to her about it
you know if you vocalize it for her, maybe she'll open up and then again maybe not 
she can only get help if she wants it, good luck 
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All you can do is let her know you are there for her...give her a number where you can be reached if she needs to talk after business hours and pray that she gets the help she needs. She will know when she has had enough and hopefully it own't be too late...I will think of you both
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I would call victim's assistance or a battered women's shelter and ask them. It is a touchy subject. I would say she needs to be willing to admit to herself there is a problem before she will be willing to talk about it.
But you know her better. Will she respond to confrontation? She might leave or get help if she knows she can have support/understanding, and not feel guilty. |
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so beating him down with a bat isn't an option?
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pick up a dozen business cards from a local battered womens shelter and leave them one at a time on her desk or just put one in her hand and tell her that you are there for her if she wants to talk. She might get offended at first, but thats just a defense mechanism.
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pull her aside and let her know that you are concerned and there if she needs you. That's all you really can do
you can't force her to be ready to escape it... |
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drop anomins tip to cops ect but nothing will do any good unless she presses charges or they catch him doing it and press charges them selves My experience has been that unless the police see it, unless you are dying or dead, there is very little to be done. |
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so beating him down with a bat isn't an option?  I'm in
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everytime I look at her I get a lil more pissed off at him.
  
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love is blind, and she has to admit to herself that she the victim.. i have been there so i know how it feels..
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The only thing you can do is be there for her. She has to make up her own mind as to when she has had enough.
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I would call victim's assistance or a battered women's shelter and ask them. It is a touchy subject. I would say she needs to be willing to admit to herself there is a problem before she will be willing to talk about it. But you know her better. Will she respond to confrontation? She might leave or get help if she knows she can have support/understanding, and not feel guilty. |
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so beating him down with a bat isn't an option? I'm in
i know a guy, real discreet  
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how embarressing for her to have to show up at work like that.I think if I could I'd confront the person but that just little me
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how embarressing for her to have to show up at work like that.I think if I could I'd confront the person but that just little me |
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