I need some help with this one. I've been chating with this girl for a few days, we've been really hitting it off, we have alot in common and I was wondering, how soon should we meet in person? Any help on this situation would be great.

mmeting asap doesn't hurt anything...why wait..go for it...holding off may cause more damage than good as I have found recently...if it feels good...go for it...and good luck

There's no written rule on when to meet. Discuss it and it'll happen when both of you feel you are ready.

talk to her and see what she thinks

Personal experience, so may not apply to you.... I'd meet ASAP. I found that I like almost everybody on line but it has rarely carried over into "real life". If she's close, go for it. Good luck

Ditto!
when you are both comfortable with it

See how she feels first about meeting you , and if she feels the same way as you then take her to lunch or dinner or maybe an arcade where ya'll can have fun.

I wish you luck

Just talk it over with her bro. See what she says and go from there.

Also....goofyyankee....thou shal not use the name goofy is your name, cause Goofball73 has exclusive rights to that name.

How far apart are you?

If its a long distance make sure you really get to know the person first. Also remember to keep safety in mind, this goes to anyone meeting someone for the first time.

Do not meet at your house, or a personal address. Public place is ideal for first meeting someone.

Have fun & good luck!

If you have to ask, you may not be ready

It's not really a question other people can answer for you. It's something you both will have to work out.

When it feels right..... don't overthink this. If you ask and she says not yet, you got your answer.

You've gotten some great advice here.

if you both want to meet then why not. If its long distance then I would wait a little longer.

as soon as her BF/Husband?significant other leaves for work...lol

I tend to wait it out.....to see how crazy they are!!

DON'T PAY ANY ATTENTION TO HER - SHE'S ALREADY GOT A DATE

really - meeting in person is like surgery after breaking bones.
the sooner the better!!

not everybody gets along in person. it is best to find out
quickly and not waste time and energy. if it is good then
you will both be glad that you started enjoying each other
as quickly as possible. if it is not good then you will
also both be glad to have found out sooner.

unless it's Gypsy - she is a tantric dater. a baiter dater.
a tater dater. a later later dater gator.

ASAP unless she lives far away....you can email until your fingers turn blue....you can talk on the phone until your ears swell up....but until you meet you really just don't know....

Well said ... I agree wholeheartedly -- and let's face it, who wants blue fingers or Dumbo ears, huh?!

what a visual blue fingers and dumbo ears... wtg EsJ