case and point why it's a good idea to wait until you can handle it (and have reached the necessary maturity level) to have kids...

old home remedy....warm water in a bottle or sippy, tsp of sugar...sounds like a belly ache...she will burp or poo and fall to sleep

It certainly seemed that way to me.....

if she has a screaming baby and takes the time to reply to discussion threads online instead of tending to her child, then she deserves to be judged. If you're going to reach out for help then you should actually want/need the help you're requesting.

I feel the need to write this, not really for the OP, but for others.

If a child is crying and nothing appears to be wrong, remember the child can sense YOUR mood and will feed off your anxiety or anger/frustration. Upset parents make for upset kids, even if it started out with an itch from a tag or a minor gas pain, it can quickly change into simple tension or despair on the part of the child.

As well, it is not recommended to call a doctor until the child has been crying for four hours and you have exhausted the known remedies.

(My father is a pediatrician)

You do realize this thread is 2 days old right??

Might want to read this also as to the status of her daughter:
http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/145613

i wasnt judging adam, just reading the FACTS thats all, and she didnt come back and thank anyone for taking the time to help her out.

buy a tranquilizer gun n tranq her!!! LOL

Thing is she did, just in a new thread.

Babies need love and attention not tough love at that age.
If she's crying for attention that means that she needs it.

exactly

well i think this is why the mods say to update in the same thread, because obviously its been missed by many, and me

You need to let her cry. She knows if she cries you will be right there. I raised my son and I have full-custody. He sleeps in his own bed always. Not in Momma's bed. LMAO(How many times have a met a woman that lets her children do that)! My ex let her 8 year old son crawl in bed with us. I put an end to her and I fast. Kid's need to be able to fend for themselves and by creating that kind of dependence at that age it will continue to manifest on down the line. SO, JUST LET HER CRY.

her child has amedical condition and shes in pain, you cant just let her cry, thats evil

She may be lactose intolerant. Have tried changing her milk. sometimes certain milks can cause gas and constipation.

A good milk to use (at least in my case) was the carnation brand.

I tink first you have to do whatever is necessary to keep your emotional balance. a time out is a good step, the best I know of.

if the doctors deal with the babys pain that will stop the crying, her baby as a medical condition.

Try mint tea boil it cool it down add some sugar and give it to her.

maybe shes taking that "time out" everyone is encouraging her to do...


btw she said she had doctors appts in denver so obviously she took her to the doc...


SAE hope you and your lil one are doing better