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First off If your husband is your best friend as you state. He is probably already aware that you find your sex life lacking and doesn't know how to address it. Take it to him and tell him how you feel. If you can't mediate a fix on your own it is time to turn to a professional for help. CHEATING IS NEVER AN ANSWER. It will damage your own self respect and if found out it will destroy the trust you have built within this relationship. Not to mention the damage it will do to your husbands sense of self worth, the possible damage to your child when his "family" disappears, and it puts you at risk of losing custody of your child. In most states adultery is still considered "unfit".
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Go see DR. Phil .. http://www.drphil.com/
He might be your best help. Him or Dr. Drew http://www.drdrew.com/ . Good luck, and try not to think any more about this other guy. This can't be good if you start acting out on your inner most feelings etc, and can't controle your thoughts etc. Again good luck to you and your family, as well as your husband. |
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I think you need to try some whip cream and chocolate syrup
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Someone, please help... I am married to a great guy. He is my best friend, but I am not sexually attracted to him. We have been married for 9 years and we have a son who is 4. I love him and don't want to end our marriage. We have a mutual friend, however, that I have somehow become attracted to. I think about him all the time. I don't know how he feels, but I have this unbelievable urge to let him know I am attracted to him. I don't know if this is the right thing to do. I need a guy to let me know how to handle this and if they would want to know if it were them... I'm not sure whether I would ever act on these feelings... Its hard to tell, since I have no idea how this 3rd person feels. Please help with some opinions from men please. Thanks! I am not a horrible person, so please don't think that I am. I have never experienced anything like this and don't know which way to go. Sometimes we want to hold onto people that we should really let go of. If you can live in your marriage and your sexual life not be fulfilled, then that's your answer. If you know that that cannot be resolved you need to let him go. I'm not a man, but I have learned that it's best to let someone go before you consider hurting them by cheating. (I've been cheated on, I'm not the cheater). I wish that my ex would have left before he cheated on me. Maybe your husband was supposed to be in your life for a season and not a lifetime. I hope you are able to figure it out soon before temptation takes over and you act on your feelings for this other man. Good luck! |
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