Ok, so I've been talking to someone here for about 2 weeks now or so, maybe a little more even. We get along great, and I feel there's a bit of a connection between us, despite a few things we may not neccessarily see eye to eye on as it were. She lives somewhat close, and was looking into meeting her before the summer was over and seeing what happened.

Only thing is I'm not totally sure I'm ready to commit myself to this right now. See had saw this girl at the track recently, and thought she was kind of cute. I've talked to her a little bit since then, but not much just brief conversation a couple of days ago when she'd pass me on the track. I kind of was looking at asking her out for coffee or something one of these days, just to see what would come of it.

So I'm kind of torn as to what to do here. Any thoughts?

your not married!!! Ask the girl out for coffee

Can't you do both?

Nothing wrong with meeting...you aren't married or committed to either..meet and see what happens...good luck

I guess I could, I just bring this up cause it seems like the friendship with the person on here, could end up becoming more serious.

if your not committed its not fair to string anyone along!!!!!
its called dating for a reason though........
be fair to yourself, but be fair to the ladies also.......

Just date right now. There's no need to commit to just one person unless that is what you want to do.

I don't think there's anything wrong with meeting the girl from this site, AND also going out to coffee with the girl from the track. Just not at the same time, though.

Good luck!

you are free and until a something turns into a "thing" you can explore both options, good luck

Ask her out for a cup of java and see what happens from there

do both, like Giggles said you are not married.Go and have a good time.

Didn't you make this same post about a month ago?

No I don't believe so, little different situation.

You will not know how you feel about either one if you don't investigate your feelings. Ask one out, get to know her and then if you feel a connection, you will not likely be interested in the other. If you are still interested in the other gal...then it's not that great of a connection and probably not meant to be anyway. But you have to try. Good luck.

Yeah you're right, I'm not being fair to myself or to them really otherwise.

I've noticed your posts over the last few months and it seems that every time you start "talking to someone" you start obsessing over whether or not you're ready to commit... you're thinking about your ex... lalala

I'm thinking maybe you're just too dependent on wanting to be in a relationship and you're not enjoying a woman's company for just what it is... a nice date... or a nice phone call.

You should at least meet the person and hang out with them a few times before you even establish whether or not you might be interested in dating them exclusively, and don't rush anything.

Just breathe and enjoy their company.

You might be right on that. I do tend to get attached fast, perhaps that is why.

you little player you

werent you just questioning how to approach the jogger??

Quick question, you're not ready to commit to what? The girl you have been talking to for 2 wks could be great friend material, same as the jogger? what would you be committing to?

Something more serious then just friends.

but aren't you jumping the gun per se?

why pushing for more than friends if you've spoken to one approx 2 wks and another rather briefly???