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redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Tue 07/15/08 06:00 PM
ever think about your past then find yourself depressed an really hurt?

snowangel2 Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 3798	Tue 07/15/08 06:02 PM
Alot of times,yes it does hurt like hell when old wounds get opened.

Wolf19 Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 6172	Tue 07/15/08 06:04 PM
the past is the past

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Tue 07/15/08 06:05 PM
not when i think of all the good stuff from the past, and there was alot of it

iamherefornow Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 293	Tue 07/15/08 06:06 PM
Only when I think about the two most painful events in my life. The death of my son and the death of my husband. Against those two events my life has been wonderful.

damnitscloudy Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11293	Tue 07/15/08 06:07 PM
My past was a living hell. I'm surprised i'm alive to talk about it now. But i refuse to dwell on it for too long or else I'll relapse into depression. The past can only hurt you if you let it, otherwise, shove it back in the cage and throw it in the closet =)

elwoodsully Joined Tue 05/01/07 Posts: 7477	Tue 07/15/08 06:07 PM
NO. I'm looking to my/our possible future, and you can call me Smilin' Bob.

BetterDazes Joined Wed 01/23/08 Posts: 710	Tue 07/15/08 06:07 PM
i don't do that anymore...the past needs to stay right there, in the past....my future is so bright I have to wear shades!

BLUEYEDEVIL Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 297	Tue 07/15/08 06:08 PM
ever think about your past then find yourself depressed an really hurt? anyone who claims not to, in my opinion, is lying to themselves

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Tue 07/15/08 06:09 PM
Only when I think about the two most painful events in my life. The death of my son and the death of my husband. Against those two events my life has been wonderful. {{{ Iam }}} Same here. For me it is more about that these memories tap into what we were feeling at THAT period.. it is hard to recall those days & nights without FEELING the pain. The death of my daughter and my fiance... thinking ABOUT them is fine .. it's recalling those days when they passed... hard to do that without reliving the hurt.

prettylady4 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 239	Tue 07/15/08 06:10 PM
when i think of my past it just tells me that the future is where it is at

BLUEYEDEVIL Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 297	Tue 07/15/08 06:10 PM
anyone who can or has put the past "totally" behind them, i've but one question, "what is your secret"?

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Tue 07/15/08 06:11 PM
ever think about your past then find yourself depressed an really hurt? Sometimes ... but i try to keep it in the past Where it belongs , feelings will come and go

LovelyLibra Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 1306	Tue 07/15/08 06:12 PM
sometimes but the past is the past and i have a lot to look forward to so i just keep on moving forward

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Tue 07/15/08 06:12 PM
some things

iamherefornow Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 293	Tue 07/15/08 06:12 PM
Only when I think about the two most painful events in my life. The death of my son and the death of my husband. Against those two events my life has been wonderful. {{{ Iam }}} Same here. For me it is more about that these memories tap into what we were feeling at THAT period.. it is hard to recall those days & nights without FEELING the pain. The death of my daughter and my fiance... thinking ABOUT them is fine .. it's recalling those days when they passed... hard to do that without reliving the hurt. Thank heavens for good and happy memories.

angle22 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 54	Tue 07/15/08 06:14 PM
Alot of times,yes it does hurt like hell when old wounds get opened.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 07/15/08 06:14 PM
I tend not to think.............ALOT!!!

damnitscloudy Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 11293	Tue 07/15/08 06:16 PM
I tend not to think.............ALOT!!! Yes, we are very aware of this fact. I think its time for your meds now

CircuitRider Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 2065	Tue 07/15/08 06:17 PM
I was ashamed of my past, then when I saw her 30+years later,