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Topic: Women and Trust Issues, please explain?
SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Tue 07/15/08 01:52 PM
I don't get it ?

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Tue 07/15/08 01:53 PM
you dont understand the trust issue... WOW!!!!!!!

iamherefornow Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 293	Tue 07/15/08 01:53 PM
If every femaile you went out with stepped out on you, wouldn't you have issues too?

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Tue 07/15/08 01:53 PM
leave the trust issue part out, I still don t get em

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 07/15/08 01:54 PM
I trust no-one

iamherefornow Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 293	Tue 07/15/08 01:54 PM
I trust no-one You are one smart person.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Tue 07/15/08 01:55 PM
If every femaile you went out with stepped out on you, wouldn't you have issues too? Exactly! Or lied to you, disrespected you, abused you... There are many reasons why women have lack of trust, same as men. But whatever the reason, know that it is a valid one.

SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Tue 07/15/08 01:57 PM
you dont understand the trust issue... WOW!!!!!!! What I believe in you...or I don't. I measure things in the way of I trust you until you mess up, and then we're done, of course there are mitigating circumstances, like if you robb a bank, or some kind of crime.

SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Tue 07/15/08 01:58 PM
If every femaile you went out with stepped out on you, wouldn't you have issues too? Exactly! Or lied to you, disrespected you, abused you... There are many reasons why women have lack of trust, same as men. But whatever the reason, know that it is a valid one. But goes with the risk of falling in love and being happy ! Have you read my other thread about being damaged ?

iamherefornow Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 293	Tue 07/15/08 01:58 PM Edited by iamherefornow on Tue 07/15/08 01:59 PM
I caught my first husband in our bed with my life long best friend. Why shouldI trust either sex after that?

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 07/15/08 02:02 PM
I trust those that give me reason to. No reason, no trust.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Tue 07/15/08 02:02 PM
If every femaile you went out with stepped out on you, wouldn't you have issues too? Exactly! Or lied to you, disrespected you, abused you... There are many reasons why women have lack of trust, same as men. But whatever the reason, know that it is a valid one. But goes with the risk of falling in love and being happy ! Have you read my other thread about being damaged ? Yes I did, and as I stated in the other thread, it takes a lot of work to build trust in a relationship, whether damaged or not. It's not something that will just automatically be there. But if you really care about the person, you have to be willing to put forth that extra effort to prove to them that you are trustworthy.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Tue 07/15/08 02:03 PM
I caught my first husband in our bed with my life long best friend. Why shouldI trust either sex after that? OUCH!!!!!!! she was not a best friend or even a friend to backstabb you....

iamherefornow Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 293	Tue 07/15/08 02:03 PM
Amen

iamherefornow Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 293	Tue 07/15/08 02:04 PM
I caught my first husband in our bed with my life long best friend. Why shouldI trust either sex after that? OUCH!!!!!!! she was not a best friend or even a friend to backstabb you.... Live and learn and get over it and move on.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 07/15/08 02:05 PM
Online he had to prove to me he was a REAL BOY long before we even thought about "trust issues".

itry Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 1236	Tue 07/15/08 02:07 PM
Online he had to prove to me he was a REAL BOY long before we even thought about "trust issues". What a picture...ewwwwww

Unknow Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 7373	Tue 07/15/08 02:09 PM
If every femaile you went out with stepped out on you, wouldn't you have issues too? Exactly! Or lied to you, disrespected you, abused you... There are many reasons why women have lack of trust, same as men. But whatever the reason, know that it is a valid one. But goes with the risk of falling in love and being happy ! Have you read my other thread about being damaged ? Yes I did, and as I stated in the other thread, it takes a lot of work to build trust in a relationship, whether damaged or not. It's not something that will just automatically be there. But if you really care about the person, you have to be willing to put forth that extra effort to prove to them that you are trustworthy. I'm wondering how long should someone put forth the extra effort to prove oneself trustworthy? It can be quite draining to constantly reassure someone.

SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Tue 07/15/08 02:09 PM
If every femaile you went out with stepped out on you, wouldn't you have issues too? Exactly! Or lied to you, disrespected you, abused you... There are many reasons why women have lack of trust, same as men. But whatever the reason, know that it is a valid one. But goes with the risk of falling in love and being happy ! Have you read my other thread about being damaged ? Yes I did, and as I stated in the other thread, it takes a lot of work to build trust in a relationship, whether damaged or not. It's not something that will just automatically be there. But if you really care about the person, you have to be willing to put forth that extra effort to prove to them that you are trustworthy. Yes, but as soon as your trust is put to the test, you're gone !

SportsNut2007 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 817	Tue 07/15/08 02:11 PM
If every femaile you went out with stepped out on you, wouldn't you have issues too? Exactly! Or lied to you, disrespected you, abused you... There are many reasons why women have lack of trust, same as men. But whatever the reason, know that it is a valid one. But goes with the risk of falling in love and being happy ! Have you read my other thread about being damaged ? Yes I did, and as I stated in the other thread, it takes a lot of work to build trust in a relationship, whether damaged or not. It's not something that will just automatically be there. But if you really care about the person, you have to be willing to put forth that extra effort to prove to them that you are trustworthy. I'm wondering how long should someone put forth the extra effort to prove oneself trustworthy? It can be quite draining to constantly reassure someone. Amen....I say again...Amen !