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Topic: Am I Friggin Crazy??????
Amberdee29045 Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 1729	Mon 07/14/08 02:05 PM
Ok, some of y'all know a little bit about why I left my ex fiancee. A lot of it had to do with his mom. She treated me like gold to my face and stabbed me in the back when it was turned at first, but later she just treated me like crap openly.....No matter what I did it wasn't good enough in her eyes........I'm not the only one she's done this to, she broke up my ex's first marriage with her venom (actually she screwed up every one of her kids' relationships and she had four children).... I just found out today that my ex's mom died last month. i have a lot of mixed feelings about it, happy, a little sad (just a TEENY BIT).....mostly i just hope she made her peace with god..... Am I crazy for being happy (even just a little happy?)

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Mon 07/14/08 02:08 PM
Ding Dong the witch is dead, the witch is dead, ding dong the wicked witch is dead

boredinaz06 Joined Sun 10/15/06 Posts: 22764	Mon 07/14/08 02:09 PM Edited by boredinaz06 on Mon 07/14/08 02:10 PM
No! She Sounds Like a Nasty Person. It's not odd to Feel Mixed Emotions when someone like that Dies. JMO

carnie Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 245	Mon 07/14/08 02:10 PM
Ok, some of y'all know a little bit about why I left my ex fiancee. A lot of it had to do with his mom. She treated me like gold to my face and stabbed me in the back when it was turned at first, but later she just treated me like crap openly.....No matter what I did it wasn't good enough in her eyes........I'm not the only one she's done this to, she broke up my ex's first marriage with her venom (actually she screwed up every one of her kids' relationships and she had four children).... I just found out today that my ex's mom died last month. i have a lot of mixed feelings about it, happy, a little sad (just a TEENY BIT).....mostly i just hope she made her peace with god..... Am I crazy for being happy (even just a little happy?) Eh well I know exzactly how you feel i had the same senerio . But i let go of what all happend, and I wish the best for everyone, but at that time I probly would have felt no remorce for the witch. lol

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Mon 07/14/08 02:16 PM
No! She Sounds Like a Nasty Person. It's not odd to Feel Mixed Emotions when someone like that Dies. JMO agreed, last year when my mom's mother died, it was hard not to feel MIXED about it, she was a nasty, hateful person. who only caused people pain and grief

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Mon 07/14/08 02:27 PM
I hope she made peace with God, too. But, it would have been nice if she'd made peace with those whom she injured. You can feel sad that she passed away, feel sad for your ex in his loss of his mother, but there's nothing inhumane about feeling nothing more about the loss of life, and there's nothing untoward for feeling a little glee that she's not here to keep screwing with people.

RJR1 Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 548	Mon 07/14/08 02:37 PM
I felt mixed emotions like that when my stepfather died (mean alcoholic). It's only natural.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/14/08 02:38 PM
I hope she made peace with God, too. But, it would have been nice if she'd made peace with those whom she injured. You can feel sad that she passed away, feel sad for your ex in his loss of his mother, but there's nothing inhumane about feeling nothing more about the loss of life, and there's nothing untoward for feeling a little glee that she's not here to keep screwing with people. i agree

chris1979 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 4987	Mon 07/14/08 02:40 PM
i think it is just sick to be happy over the death of someone

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Mon 07/14/08 03:02 PM
Ok, some of y'all know a little bit about why I left my ex fiancee. A lot of it had to do with his mom. She treated me like gold to my face and stabbed me in the back when it was turned at first, but later she just treated me like crap openly.....No matter what I did it wasn't good enough in her eyes........I'm not the only one she's done this to, she broke up my ex's first marriage with her venom (actually she screwed up every one of her kids' relationships and she had four children).... I just found out today that my ex's mom died last month. i have a lot of mixed feelings about it, happy, a little sad (just a TEENY BIT).....mostly i just hope she made her peace with god..... Am I crazy for being happy (even just a little happy?) Be careful , the ghosts will be after you soon . I do believe in ghosts .

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Mon 07/14/08 03:02 PM
Ok, some of y'all know a little bit about why I left my ex fiancee. A lot of it had to do with his mom. She treated me like gold to my face and stabbed me in the back when it was turned at first, but later she just treated me like crap openly.....No matter what I did it wasn't good enough in her eyes........I'm not the only one she's done this to, she broke up my ex's first marriage with her venom (actually she screwed up every one of her kids' relationships and she had four children).... I just found out today that my ex's mom died last month. i have a lot of mixed feelings about it, happy, a little sad (just a TEENY BIT).....mostly i just hope she made her peace with god..... Am I crazy for being happy (even just a little happy?) Be careful , the ghosts will be after you soon . I do believe in ghosts .

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/14/08 03:06 PM
i think it is just sick to be happy over the death of someone to be happy, i agree. to have sort of mixed feelings i guess is normal, it takes a while for the news to sink in and you dont know your emotions until i while after. she may feel totally different in a few days. id never be happy about the death of anyone, EXCEPT murderes, rapists etc

Therapygrl28 Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 712	Mon 07/14/08 03:07 PM
Dont be hard on yourself for how you feel. Just realize that you now know how you would NOT want others to feel when you die!!! As long as you were not part of why she treated you like that, you have nothing to feel guilty about.

Amberdee29045 Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 1729	Mon 07/14/08 03:08 PM
debbie, i don't mean like i'm happy that she died what was probably a terrifying death.....but she's been in pain for a long time...and i still carry a lot of the resentment from how she treated me and her own children....

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/14/08 03:10 PM
debbie, i don't mean like i'm happy that she died what was probably a terrifying death.....but she's been in pain for a long time...and i still carry a lot of the resentment from how she treated me and her own children.... i know sweetie, i understand. i didnt say you were happy, you never said you were. i was saying i understand you have mixed feelings and the news probably hasnt sunk in yet.

chris1979 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 4987	Mon 07/14/08 03:11 PM
debbie, i don't mean like i'm happy that she died what was probably a terrifying death.....but she's been in pain for a long time...and i still carry a lot of the resentment from how she treated me and her own children.... i know sweetie, i understand. i didnt say you were happy, you never said you were. i was saying i understand you have mixed feelings and the news probably hasnt sunk in yet. actually she did state she was happy

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/14/08 03:12 PM
debbie, i don't mean like i'm happy that she died what was probably a terrifying death.....but she's been in pain for a long time...and i still carry a lot of the resentment from how she treated me and her own children.... i know sweetie, i understand. i didnt say you were happy, you never said you were. i was saying i understand you have mixed feelings and the news probably hasnt sunk in yet. actually she did state she was happy i did??

chris1979 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 4987	Mon 07/14/08 03:13 PM
debbie, i don't mean like i'm happy that she died what was probably a terrifying death.....but she's been in pain for a long time...and i still carry a lot of the resentment from how she treated me and her own children.... i know sweetie, i understand. i didnt say you were happy, you never said you were. i was saying i understand you have mixed feelings and the news probably hasnt sunk in yet. actually she did state she was happy i did?? no, the OP

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/14/08 03:14 PM
debbie, i don't mean like i'm happy that she died what was probably a terrifying death.....but she's been in pain for a long time...and i still carry a lot of the resentment from how she treated me and her own children.... i know sweetie, i understand. i didnt say you were happy, you never said you were. i was saying i understand you have mixed feelings and the news probably hasnt sunk in yet. actually she did state she was happy i did?? no, the OP i read back, ive just saw.

chris1979 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 4987	Mon 07/14/08 03:14 PM
debbie, i don't mean like i'm happy that she died what was probably a terrifying death.....but she's been in pain for a long time...and i still carry a lot of the resentment from how she treated me and her own children.... i know sweetie, i understand. i didnt say you were happy, you never said you were. i was saying i understand you have mixed feelings and the news probably hasnt sunk in yet. actually she did state she was happy i did?? no, the OP i read back, ive just saw.