first talk to her tell her how you feel
second do what she wants at least for once (please her)
third
tell her you love her.

I recently read a report that says women are more likely to have a favorable attitude towards the man if he helps with household duties. Get this guy a dishtowel....quick! He's missing out!

maybe its the guy...

maybe he needs to read a how to book

hire a maid.!!!

Seriously, someone needs to pull this lady aside and have a chat with her. If a woman wants a monogamous relationship, she must be 'available'. She needs to consider a sexual relationship with her husband a privilege and an honor that he has chosen her over all the other fair maidens in the land.

As often as not, however, cold vibrations (pun intended) in the bedroom actually have nothing to do with sex, but with other issues and women are really great at using sex to punish and manipulate their S.O. And the male needs to let HER know how wonderful he thinks SHE is. If she seeks his approval, it may mean more interesting things will happen in the bedroom.

Either way, I would suggest finding a good (sex) therapist and spend some quality time in counseling.

Talk to them about it; see if they would be willing to go to counseling.

I couldn't see myslef in that situation.
I would be heart broken.

Poor couple..don't know what she is missing.