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Topic: What should a guy do?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 07/13/08 08:49 PM
If your wife does not co-operate in sex, she doesn't like it that much and just does it as a job, what should a guy do about it?

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Sun 07/13/08 08:50 PM
If your wife does not co-operate in sex, she doesn't like it that much and just does it as a job, what should a guy do about it? Bring out the porn and show her how it is done!

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Sun 07/13/08 08:50 PM
Make it a DO IT YOURSELF project???

SAEgirl10 Joined Sun 06/22/08 Posts: 804	Sun 07/13/08 08:50 PM
If your wife does not co-operate in sex, she doesn't like it that much and just does it as a job, what should a guy do about it? Bring out the porn and show her how it is done! lmao

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Sun 07/13/08 08:50 PM
What should the guy do? Buy a book on how to make love to his woman.

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Sun 07/13/08 08:51 PM
What should the guy do? Buy a book on how to make love to his woman. Sex For Dummies?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 07/13/08 08:52 PM
More foreplay

Megan_Smiles Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 526	Sun 07/13/08 08:53 PM
that's hard. my cousen is recently married and wouldn't have sex til then. her husband has to work hard for what he gets. he seems pretty bummed about it, but she tells me that she never has the desire to have sex. It's something she does out of love for him.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sun 07/13/08 08:53 PM
Fire her!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 07/13/08 08:54 PM
He's gonna have to find out what gets her interested, and once he does...rinse and repeat.

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Sun 07/13/08 08:55 PM
More foreplay My kind of guy.

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Sun 07/13/08 08:55 PM
More foreplay NOW YOUR TALKING!

sugarbunsss Joined Wed 12/26/07 Posts: 1410	Sun 07/13/08 08:56 PM
More foreplay Ok

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 07/13/08 08:57 PM
that's hard. my cousen is recently married and wouldn't have sex til then. her husband has to work hard for what he gets. he seems pretty bummed about it, but she tells me that she never has the desire to have sex. It's something she does out of love for him. Has she ever considered having her hormone balance checked? She might find she has a correctable issue, and get her sex drive back. Cause that's sad for both of them.

whow Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 100	Sun 07/13/08 09:01 PM
http://a.abcnews.com/images/US/ht_divorce_070507_mn.jpg

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Sun 07/13/08 09:15 PM
There are women like that in my family. I think it is sad for both parties to live like that. If it bothers her I would suggest she talk to her doc about it but if that is how she is and she does not want to, then the man will either live with it and do his "own thing" or they should not be together. I would feel bad if I lost my desire and my man was suffering because of it. I would want to fix it or I think I would leave him so he could find what he needs elsewhere. The suggestion of more foreplay is always a good idea. Men do tend to like to get down to it as soon as they feel it..lol

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Sun 07/13/08 09:17 PM
ummm.... do all of the other jobs..give her a bathe.. and utterly seduce her... if that failed..i really dont know that would work for me though

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Sun 07/13/08 09:17 PM
that's hard. my cousen is recently married and wouldn't have sex til then. her husband has to work hard for what he gets. he seems pretty bummed about it, but she tells me that she never has the desire to have sex. It's something she does out of love for him. Please tell me that $#!T don't run in the family? You are too pretty to have that going on with ya.

WhoIAm Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3909	Sun 07/13/08 09:28 PM
If your wife does not co-operate in sex, she doesn't like it that much and just does it as a job, what should a guy do about it? it's a message.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 07/13/08 09:31 PM
Work with her .. that's the whole idea of a relationship anyway - give and take. Learn what makes her tick Not all of us just flat out enjoy it (too bad for those who don't eh)