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Topic: s there any faithful ladies left
Roger2008 Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 90	Sun 07/13/08 07:45 PM
I don't lie or cheat & I pride myself for that!! I have been cheated on & it would be unfair for me to make the next women pay for last ones mistake. So I believe there are some faithful ones!! This is exactly what I am trying to avoid. Making anyone pay for the past ones mistakes. you are 100% correct It's not easy!! Once trust has been broken, you will always have it in the back of your mind!!

discoafternoon Joined Fri 04/11/08 Posts: 2977	Sun 07/13/08 07:45 PM
yes, of course there are faithful women left. many of them.

CircuitRider Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 2065	Sun 07/13/08 07:49 PM
I ALWAYS TREATED MY EX WIFE LIKE A QUEEN. NEVER ASK HER TO ANYTHING FOR ME I CAN DO FOR MYSELF. I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RETURN LOVE. That is what everyone deserves. I hope you find it. thank you I don't want to sound like a smart-alec, but these wonderful Ladies here will respond better to a kind word than they will to bitterness... Most of them have been "Through the Mill" and carry memories in their heart that I don't believe many men could stand up to... They certainly have my admiration... Try and work on smiling and laughing, I know it's hard to do, but I've been there/done that ... Keep your chin up!! (I'm just North of you)

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 07/13/08 07:50 PM
maybe women are happier with the a hole type or smart asses. i have been a good guy my whole life, honest and straight foward maybe i need to completely change Don't you dare. I know life stinks being seperated but you will see when you get your freedom for a while the good gals not be so leery. The "my wife was a cheat" is the most common BS line women hear. Even if it is true it is not the best lead because most women wonder why a woman would leave a really good guy.

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Sun 07/13/08 07:51 PM
I ALWAYS TREATED MY EX WIFE LIKE A QUEEN. NEVER ASK HER TO ANYTHING FOR ME I CAN DO FOR MYSELF. I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RETURN LOVE. That is what everyone deserves. I hope you find it. thank you I don't want to sound like a smart-alec, but these wonderful Ladies here will respond better to a kind word than they will to bitterness... Most of them have been "Through the Mill" and carry memories in their heart that I don't believe many men could stand up to... They certainly have my admiration... Try and work on smiling and laughing, I know it's hard to do, but I've been there/done that ... Keep your chin up!! (I'm just North of you) Yes we have and thank you.

Roger2008 Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 90	Sun 07/13/08 07:52 PM
there is a quote that says "once my trust was broken, my heart torn apart how do i rebuild it, only time will heal the mortal wounds inflisted by others we love"

Roger2008 Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 90	Sun 07/13/08 07:54 PM
I ALWAYS TREATED MY EX WIFE LIKE A QUEEN. NEVER ASK HER TO ANYTHING FOR ME I CAN DO FOR MYSELF. I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RETURN LOVE. That is what everyone deserves. I hope you find it. thank you I don't want to sound like a smart-alec, but these wonderful Ladies here will respond better to a kind word than they will to bitterness... Most of them have been "Through the Mill" and carry memories in their heart that I don't believe many men could stand up to... They certainly have my admiration... Try and work on smiling and laughing, I know it's hard to do, but I've been there/done that ... Keep your chin up!! (I'm just North of you) yea i know i am going to move on and up

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Sun 07/13/08 07:54 PM
I for one think women can leave good men just as men can leave good women. Its all in the individual and what they have/want/need. It just doesnt make life or trust any easier. I have trust issues but for different reasons in addition to the cheating. We just have to look at ourselves and hope to stop repeating our mistakes.

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Sun 07/13/08 07:55 PM
Just a question.....why are you here ? i mean on this dating site..You said you never cheated in 21 years but your profile says your separated...

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 07/13/08 07:56 PM
I ALWAYS TREATED MY EX WIFE LIKE A QUEEN. NEVER ASK HER TO ANYTHING FOR ME I CAN DO FOR MYSELF. I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RETURN LOVE. That is what everyone deserves. I hope you find it. thank you I don't want to sound like a smart-alec, but these wonderful Ladies here will respond better to a kind word than they will to bitterness... Most of them have been "Through the Mill" and carry memories in their heart that I don't believe many men could stand up to... They certainly have my admiration... Try and work on smiling and laughing, I know it's hard to do, but I've been there/done that ... Keep your chin up!! (I'm just North of you) Excellent comment and thanks for the compliment. It is really hard to defend yourself from those who think you might just be more of the same misery they have had.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Sun 07/13/08 07:57 PM
Just a question.....why are you here ? i mean on this dating site..You said you never cheated in 21 years but your profile says your separated... Duck & cover

CircuitRider Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 2065	Sun 07/13/08 07:57 PM
I ALWAYS TREATED MY EX WIFE LIKE A QUEEN. NEVER ASK HER TO ANYTHING FOR ME I CAN DO FOR MYSELF. I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RETURN LOVE. That is what everyone deserves. I hope you find it. thank you I don't want to sound like a smart-alec, but these wonderful Ladies here will respond better to a kind word than they will to bitterness... Most of them have been "Through the Mill" and carry memories in their heart that I don't believe many men could stand up to... They certainly have my admiration... Try and work on smiling and laughing, I know it's hard to do, but I've been there/done that ... Keep your chin up!! (I'm just North of you) Yes we have and thank you. Thank you for being my friend

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Sun 07/13/08 08:00 PM
Just a question.....why are you here ? i mean on this dating site..You said you never cheated in 21 years but your profile says your separated... Duck & cover I know but Im curious... it doesnt say divorced.. it says separated and hes looking for a relationship....inquiring minds wanna know...

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 07/13/08 08:00 PM
there is a quote that says "once my trust was broken, my heart torn apart how do i rebuild it, only time will heal the mortal wounds inflisted by others we love" Anyone who can not learn from their experiences is a fool so being warey is a good thing. You might want to look at the type of women you have been interested and what if anything they may have in common. Sometimes you keep getting the same results from doing the same thing.

CircuitRider Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 2065	Sun 07/13/08 08:00 PM
I ALWAYS TREATED MY EX WIFE LIKE A QUEEN. NEVER ASK HER TO ANYTHING FOR ME I CAN DO FOR MYSELF. I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RETURN LOVE. That is what everyone deserves. I hope you find it. thank you I don't want to sound like a smart-alec, but these wonderful Ladies here will respond better to a kind word than they will to bitterness... Most of them have been "Through the Mill" and carry memories in their heart that I don't believe many men could stand up to... They certainly have my admiration... Try and work on smiling and laughing, I know it's hard to do, but I've been there/done that ... Keep your chin up!! (I'm just North of you) Excellent comment and thanks for the compliment. It is really hard to defend yourself from those who think you might just be more of the same misery they have had. Ah Shucks!!

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Sun 07/13/08 08:01 PM
if they are out there i would like to know where. i seem to only find game players and liers. on here i have met no one yet well this IS the internet..you werent really expecting to find someone real here were you????

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Sun 07/13/08 08:02 PM
I am not quite sure he has dated much since seperating..I think he is still hurting too much.

Roger2008 Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 90	Sun 07/13/08 08:11 PM
Just a question.....why are you here ? i mean on this dating site..You said you never cheated in 21 years but your profile says your separated... my divorce is almost final

welder_one Joined Tue 12/25/07 Posts: 248	Sun 07/13/08 08:14 PM
brave man to be on a publicly posted "dating" site while in the middle of a divorce???

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Sun 07/13/08 08:18 PM
brave man to be on a publicly posted "dating" site while in the middle of a divorce??? Why is that...I have been seperated for over 3 years and am here......my profile says looking for friends..if you cant have friends first then nothing else can come after that. I post in the forums for friends and fun...havent asked anyone to date/marry me as of yet!