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starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Sun 07/13/08 04:13 PM
I'll talk to a guy if he gets my attention and seems interesting. I don't waste my time searching for someone to talk to...I'm not that desperate.

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Sun 07/13/08 04:13 PM
ok- i'll take the bait- you are only 20 so maybe you don't understand the difference between girls and women. girls will wait for you to come to them- its an insecurity thing. Women will seek you out. Its a maturity thing. I have no problem making the first move. Ask anyone who talks to me. Give yourself and the girls you are interested in time to grow up- all will become clear Now that's an honest and up front truthful answer right there boy! Woooooooo! She knows!

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sun 07/13/08 04:13 PM
Fug dis. I got the bbq grill guys. Let's make some carne asada, hot links, and some hot wings. This is going to be good. bbq tandoori chicken.!!! now if i can just attract the gals with the scent, im doin good.!!!! a few neighbours sniffin but there male.!!!!

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Sun 07/13/08 04:14 PM Edited by Random_Stranger on Sun 07/13/08 04:17 PM
I'll talk to a guy if he gets my attention and seems interesting. I don't waste my time searching for someone to talk to...I'm not that desperate. Another who don't lie "From Starlyn to Nova". See?! I can happen dude. When you wish upon a star Makes no difference who you are Anything your heart desires Will come to you If your heart is in your dream No request is too extreme When you wish upon a star As dreamers do Fate is kind She brings to those who love The sweet fulfillment of Their secret longing Like a bolt out of the blue Fate steps in and sees you through When you wish upon a star Your dreams come true

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Sun 07/13/08 04:16 PM
Just wanted to clarify that those of us who do search out someone to talk to don't like the word 'desperate'. I'll talk to a guy if he gets my attention and seems interesting. I don't waste my time searching for someone to talk to...I'm not that desperate.

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Sun 07/13/08 04:16 PM
Fug dis. I got the bbq grill guys. Let's make some carne asada, hot links, and some hot wings. This is going to be good. bbq tandoori chicken.!!! now if i can just attract the gals with the scent, im doin good.!!!! a few neighbours sniffin but there male.!!!!

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Sun 07/13/08 04:17 PM
yeah I meant "Who don't Lie" not "Who don't like To Nova from Starlyn". Sorry, I am typing retarded. I guess it is time to go work out. See yall in a bit.

cuppy59 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 17536	Sun 07/13/08 04:18 PM
That is a crappy assumption....I find it to be the opposite...Im sick of trying to make friends with the first contact.... Suggestion to all the idiots and rude people....If someone sends you a hi mail...have the courtesy to say Hi back then see ya.... We see that you have read the message....Now I would love to have a list of all the guys I said Hi to...just to be friendly and be able to block them from my profile....

starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Sun 07/13/08 04:18 PM
I'll talk to a guy if he gets my attention and seems interesting. I don't waste my time searching for someone to talk to...I'm not that desperate. Another who don't lie "From Starlyn to Nova". See?! I can happen dude. When you wish upon a star Makes no difference who you are Anything your heart desires Will come to you If your heart is in your dream No request is too extreme When you wish upon a star As dreamers do Fate is kind She brings to those who love The sweet fulfillment of Their secret longing Like a bolt out of the blue Fate steps in and sees you through When you wish upon a star Your dreams come true hahahaha

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 07/13/08 04:18 PM
why are us guys the first to make an effort to meet you? when will the girls be the first to talk to a guy? uh when hell freezes over j/k .. I come from a generation that always said to wait on the guy. That's been a bit of a change for me, since all the guys I date are from YOUR generation and like it when a woman shows interest too or even initiates. So ya ... it's becoming more usual .. just be patient eh?

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sun 07/13/08 04:19 PM
i like to see if a guy shows interest 1st.i'm not offering myself up on a silver platter

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sun 07/13/08 04:20 PM
why are us guys the first to make an effort to meet you? when will the girls be the first to talk to a guy? Fugget, I am going to answer this then. Let the ROAST... Commence! You know why dude? Because unless you got the good looks, the money, and the 14" weenie and wearing a suit like P Diddy all the time.... It ain't going to happen. Sophie has a choice. What do you do? You gotta compete. It's what us men do. Not hate on each other, but we compete. Look at animals, the male does the mating call to allure the female (Mercedes McLaren, 911 Cayman, etc....). Okay, so this day and age, women are like this "I want to be your equal, but in the old fashioned sense when it benefits me... I want that too". Now you know, and knowing is half the battle! G.I.JOooooooooooE!!!! Nice. lol

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 07/13/08 04:21 PM
ok- i'll take the bait- you are only 20 so maybe you don't understand the difference between girls and women. girls will wait for you to come to them- its an insecurity thing. Women will seek you out. Its a maturity thing. I have no problem making the first move. Ask anyone who talks to me. Give yourself and the girls you are interested in time to grow up- all will become clear Wow...how about some women only want to deal with the men they know are already interested? It's the art of working smart and not hard...maybe comes with experience too...just a different kind? Just sayin...you're cutting down a lot of girls/women/ladies, that you don't really know here.

cuppy59 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 17536	Sun 07/13/08 04:23 PM
Here is the problem..already...cant anyone just talk to have fun and make new friends...Relationships are best started by friendship.... Sure you will have the creeps that send you nasty messages...I laugh at them and say...now who is desperate.... NO ONE ON HERE IS BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE...HOW COULD THEY BE...I WOULDNT BE HERE IF GOD DIDNT TAKE HIM FROM ME...WTF

texazboy20 Joined Thu 07/10/08 Posts: 38	Sun 07/13/08 04:24 PM
I'll talk to a guy if he gets my attention and seems interesting. I don't waste my time searching for someone to talk to...I'm not that desperate. BUT... how do you kno if hes interesting? The only way you would know is if you went up to talk to him or, if he went up to talk to you. So how would you know if your wasting your time or not if you never took the initiative to find out if he was interesting or not?

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Sun 07/13/08 04:25 PM
why are us guys the first to make an effort to meet you? when will the girls be the first to talk to a guy? You have got to be kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have put myself out there more than once. I hate rejection!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

CantonGal Joined Thu 07/10/08 Posts: 124	Sun 07/13/08 04:28 PM
ok- i'll take the bait- you are only 20 so maybe you don't understand the difference between girls and women. girls will wait for you to come to them- its an insecurity thing. Women will seek you out. Its a maturity thing. I have no problem making the first move. Ask anyone who talks to me. Give yourself and the girls you are interested in time to grow up- all will become clear Amen, sister!!!

starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Sun 07/13/08 04:31 PM
I'll talk to a guy if he gets my attention and seems interesting. I don't waste my time searching for someone to talk to...I'm not that desperate. BUT... how do you kno if hes interesting? The only way you would know is if you went up to talk to him or, if he went up to talk to you. So how would you know if your wasting your time or not if you never took the initiative to find out if he was interesting or not? I'm not afraid to go talk to anyone...but I'm not going to just go talk to whomever. I mean, there has to be something about him that makes me interested...to put forth the effort.

starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Sun 07/13/08 04:33 PM
Just wanted to clarify that those of us who do search out someone to talk to don't like the word 'desperate'. I'll talk to a guy if he gets my attention and seems interesting. I don't waste my time searching for someone to talk to...I'm not that desperate. I'm sorry...no offense

welder_one Joined Tue 12/25/07 Posts: 248	Sun 07/13/08 04:41 PM
ok...ummm...if you had a little more confidence in yourself, then you dont really have a problem starting the conversation. the hard part is trying to think of something out of the ordinary to catch their attention. be a little witty, but respectful at the same time and dont be afraid to have fun