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Topic: What NOT to write in your opening email to someone.
LaughaLittle101 Joined Sun 04/20/08 Posts: 1485	Sat 07/12/08 02:24 PM
I agree with Random_Stranger drammmaaaaaa........ He gave you a compliment, take it or leave it, whether it was original or not, it was a compliment none-the-less but imho it had to have some impact on you...or you wouldn't have bothered to post it at all. but again..jmho Hey baby, nice shirt.... it would look better on my bedroom floor wew weeeeee looks like myka's sweet on someone You have no idea well i'm soooooooooooo happy for u myka hope everything works out ur a doll of a women

ricg Joined Thu 06/05/08 Posts: 307	Sat 07/12/08 02:29 PM
This is the second mail I've gotten of this nature from this guy. I don't think he remembers the first absurd mail he sent me that I DID NOT respond to: "WOW , so i guess u can kiss heaven goodbye cuz it has got to be a sin to look that beautiful , u should be arrested.. cos you stole my heart , xox" NO ONE will ever reply to a message like this. Please save your lines for the cops who pull you over at 2:00am for driving erratically. how about"I must have died and gone to heaven, becuase I just met an angel".

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Sat 07/12/08 02:33 PM
I agree with Random_Stranger drammmaaaaaa........ He gave you a compliment, take it or leave it, whether it was original or not, it was a compliment none-the-less but imho it had to have some impact on you...or you wouldn't have bothered to post it at all. but again..jmho Hey baby, nice shirt.... it would look better on my bedroom floor wew weeeeee looks like myka's sweet on someone You have no idea well i'm soooooooooooo happy for u myka hope everything works out ur a doll of a women Yes she is!

LaughaLittle101 Joined Sun 04/20/08 Posts: 1485	Sat 07/12/08 02:35 PM
I agree with Random_Stranger drammmaaaaaa........ He gave you a compliment, take it or leave it, whether it was original or not, it was a compliment none-the-less but imho it had to have some impact on you...or you wouldn't have bothered to post it at all. but again..jmho Hey baby, nice shirt.... it would look better on my bedroom floor wew weeeeee looks like myka's sweet on someone You have no idea well i'm soooooooooooo happy for u myka hope everything works out ur a doll of a women Yes she is! take care of her bro........ but hey im sure u will u seem like a good dude

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Sat 07/12/08 02:37 PM
"You have been promised to me by God" ... sadly I did not make that up ... it was a first email ...

LaughaLittle101 Joined Sun 04/20/08 Posts: 1485	Sat 07/12/08 02:38 PM
"You have been promised to me by God" ... sadly I did not make that up ... it was a first email ... how is that god promised u to meeeeeeeeeeee

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Sat 07/12/08 02:49 PM
I agree with Random_Stranger drammmaaaaaa........ He gave you a compliment, take it or leave it, whether it was original or not, it was a compliment none-the-less but imho it had to have some impact on you...or you wouldn't have bothered to post it at all. but again..jmho Hey baby, nice shirt.... it would look better on my bedroom floor wew weeeeee looks like myka's sweet on someone You have no idea well i'm soooooooooooo happy for u myka hope everything works out ur a doll of a women Yes she is! Aww you guys are too much Especially you babe

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 07/12/08 02:51 PM
This is the second mail I've gotten of this nature from this guy. I don't think he remembers the first absurd mail he sent me that I DID NOT respond to: "WOW , so i guess u can kiss heaven goodbye cuz it has got to be a sin to look that beautiful , u should be arrested.. cos you stole my heart , xox" NO ONE will ever reply to a message like this. Please save your lines for the cops who pull you over at 2:00am for driving erratically. LMFAO .. I have the EXACT same email .....................................busted MISTAAAAAAAH SMOOTH

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 07/12/08 02:54 PM
This is the second mail I've gotten of this nature from this guy. I don't think he remembers the first absurd mail he sent me that I DID NOT respond to: "WOW , so i guess u can kiss heaven goodbye cuz it has got to be a sin to look that beautiful , u should be arrested.. cos you stole my heart , xox" NO ONE will ever reply to a message like this. Please save your lines for the cops who pull you over at 2:00am for driving erratically. i found that rather funny and nice also but what do know i just get pretty much any girl i want...............LMAO

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 07/12/08 02:55 PM
I agree with Random_Stranger drammmaaaaaa........ He gave you a compliment, take it or leave it, whether it was original or not, it was a compliment none-the-less but imho it had to have some impact on you...or you wouldn't have bothered to post it at all. but again..jmho Hey baby, nice shirt.... it would look better on my bedroom floor wew weeeeee looks like myka's sweet on someone You have no idea we do now

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 07/12/08 03:02 PM
This is the second mail I've gotten of this nature from this guy. I don't think he remembers the first absurd mail he sent me that I DID NOT respond to: "WOW , so i guess u can kiss heaven goodbye cuz it has got to be a sin to look that beautiful , u should be arrested.. cos you stole my heart , xox" NO ONE will ever reply to a message like this. Please save your lines for the cops who pull you over at 2:00am for driving erratically. actually I did answer it because I think everyone deserves an answer .. "lol .. smooth lines .......... but sweet none the less. Thanks hon Judy" I think the guy just doesn't 'get' the dating scene and how to approach online. Even if he does what does a kind answer hurt eh? IMHO.

LaughaLittle101 Joined Sun 04/20/08 Posts: 1485	Sat 07/12/08 03:03 PM
This is the second mail I've gotten of this nature from this guy. I don't think he remembers the first absurd mail he sent me that I DID NOT respond to: "WOW , so i guess u can kiss heaven goodbye cuz it has got to be a sin to look that beautiful , u should be arrested.. cos you stole my heart , xox" NO ONE will ever reply to a message like this. Please save your lines for the cops who pull you over at 2:00am for driving erratically. not everyone is as nice and mature as u fade.... actually I did answer it because I think everyone deserves an answer .. "lol .. smooth lines .......... but sweet none the less. Thanks hon Judy" I think the guy just doesn't 'get' the dating scene and how to approach online. Even if he does what does a kind answer hurt eh? IMHO.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 07/12/08 03:05 PM
This is the second mail I've gotten of this nature from this guy. I don't think he remembers the first absurd mail he sent me that I DID NOT respond to: "WOW , so i guess u can kiss heaven goodbye cuz it has got to be a sin to look that beautiful , u should be arrested.. cos you stole my heart , xox" NO ONE will ever reply to a message like this. Please save your lines for the cops who pull you over at 2:00am for driving erratically. not everyone is as nice and mature as u fade.... actually I did answer it because I think everyone deserves an answer .. "lol .. smooth lines .......... but sweet none the less. Thanks hon Judy" I think the guy just doesn't 'get' the dating scene and how to approach online. Even if he does what does a kind answer hurt eh? IMHO. Why TYVM Patrick .. heck bein a guy has to be hard .. even though the culture is changing up it's got to be tough for you guys to approach.

Doherty Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 10	Sat 07/12/08 03:06 PM
This is the second mail I've gotten of this nature from this guy. I don't think he remembers the first absurd mail he sent me that I DID NOT respond to: "WOW , so i guess u can kiss heaven goodbye cuz it has got to be a sin to look that beautiful , u should be arrested.. cos you stole my heart , xox" NO ONE will ever reply to a message like this. Please save your lines for the cops who pull you over at 2:00am for driving erratically. actually I did answer it because I think everyone deserves an answer .. "lol .. smooth lines .......... but sweet none the less. Thanks hon Judy" I think the guy just doesn't 'get' the dating scene and how to approach online. Even if he does what does a kind answer hurt eh? IMHO. Well, then I stand corrected :) I'm sure he was happy for the reply. And I'm happy to see that I stirred up such a lively discussion. ;) Have a good day, all~

LaughaLittle101 Joined Sun 04/20/08 Posts: 1485	Sat 07/12/08 03:08 PM
This is the second mail I've gotten of this nature from this guy. I don't think he remembers the first absurd mail he sent me that I DID NOT respond to: "WOW , so i guess u can kiss heaven goodbye cuz it has got to be a sin to look that beautiful , u should be arrested.. cos you stole my heart , xox" NO ONE will ever reply to a message like this. Please save your lines for the cops who pull you over at 2:00am for driving erratically. actually I did answer it because I think everyone deserves an answer .. "lol .. smooth lines .......... but sweet none the less. Thanks hon Judy" I think the guy just doesn't 'get' the dating scene and how to approach online. Even if he does what does a kind answer hurt eh? IMHO. Well, then I stand corrected :) I'm sure he was happy for the reply. And I'm happy to see that I stirred up such a lively discussion. ;) Have a good day, all~ these are the best posts........ u should be happy that u got responces

countrybelle6471 Joined Fri 06/15/07 Posts: 3150	Sat 07/12/08 03:19 PM
well I think pick- up line are amusing,though they never work on me..just take them for what they are,consider the source..and go on..be it good or bad..I just smile ,

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 07/12/08 03:21 PM
Hey I've online dated for 4 years, met probably 80+ men (a few women thrown in) and seen a whole lotta water under the bridge. This dating medium AIN'T easy so I've cut guys a lot more slack than I use to. It's friggin hard out there ........ or in here, or wherever

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 07/12/08 03:39 PM
I usually get a good laugh out of them...they are supposed to be cute, right...right? I mean...that guy is not really following me everywhere I go, right...right?

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 07/12/08 04:56 PM
Gotta say, The occasionaly truly cheesy line will almost always get a smile from a woman. I think it was a compliment.....a really lame compliment....(Hey, I understand that not everyone is as smoothe as me)

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Sat 07/12/08 05:00 PM
I agree with Random_Stranger drammmaaaaaa........ He gave you a compliment, take it or leave it, whether it was original or not, it was a compliment none-the-less but imho it had to have some impact on you...or you wouldn't have bothered to post it at all. but again..jmho Hey baby, nice shirt.... it would look better on my bedroom floor Hey sweetie, that dress looks very becoming on you...but then again if i was on you i'd becumming too