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Topic: your type
giocluedart's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:11 PM
How the hell do you change "your type" if you always end up with the same exact person just in a different model?
I attract and am apparently attracted to liars and alcoholics....how do I change this before I'm so damaged that I never trust or believe anyone again?

Etrain's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:12 PM
Set your profile to Intimate Encounterdrinker drinker drinker

Cinderella75's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:13 PM
mhh not sure..usually u are kinda attracted to the same guys that were like ur dad..was ur dad a alcoholic by any chance..it may just be something that u are used to...its hard to break the cycle..i usually end up w/ sweethearts..but I am the ***** in the relationship..I am not gonna lie about that one..lol..keeps men on their toes..:tongue:

marky84's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:13 PM
change where u look sweetie :smile: flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:13 PM
Usually when people chase hot looking people, they wind up disapointed

giocluedart's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:13 PM
LOL no that would attract my usual too laugh

brenlee1965's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:14 PM
You need to work on YOU. You will attract the same type of people if you change nothing about yourself. Change your profile. Maybe it's something about that, that attracts these type of losers. Be smart about what you say....men are intimidated by smart women.

giocluedart's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:15 PM
I don't chase hotties, most of the time these guys approach me and I'm attracted back...even the ones I don't find attractive but seem sweet and I date are the same too

no photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:15 PM

Set your profile to Intimate Encounterdrinker drinker drinker


laugh laugh laugh

Cinderella75's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:23 PM

Set your profile to Intimate Encounterdrinker drinker drinker


umm yea that'll do it..u'll get a bunch of perves then.

johncarl's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:26 PM


Set your profile to Intimate Encounterdrinker drinker drinker


umm yea that'll do it..u'll get a bunch of perves then.
hey i wish they would hit on melaugh laugh laugh

robert1652's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:29 PM

How the hell do you change "your type" if you always end up with the same exact person just in a different model?
I attract and am apparently attracted to liars and alcoholics....how do I change this before I'm so damaged that I never trust or believe anyone again?


There is a term for this in psychology I have forgotten
It basically says someone from the past may be an uncle father or someone with those characteristics has been like a role model which one subconsciously follows like for example men who like larger women more than likely had big size mothers when children

iRon's photo
Thu 07/10/08 09:29 PM
The only way to change your "type" is change yourself. Spend time getting to know you, making a good life for your self and the rest will fall in to place...

brenlee1965's photo
Thu 07/10/08 10:34 PM

The only way to change your "type" is change yourself. Spend time getting to know you, making a good life for your self and the rest will fall in to place...


I agree! And maybe she needs to change "where" she meets these people. If it's on here---change your profile or be careful how you talk to people. If it's at the BAR....that's the problem.

feistybaby's photo
Fri 07/11/08 01:04 AM


The only way to change your "type" is change yourself. Spend time getting to know you, making a good life for your self and the rest will fall in to place...


I agree! And maybe she needs to change "where" she meets these people. If it's on here---change your profile or be careful how you talk to people. If it's at the BAR....that's the problem.


This pretty much sums up my thoughts as well. You might want to take a look at where you are meeting these people. If you are meeting people in an atmosphere where drinking is the main focus why does it surprise you that it might be an issue for them?

YourLove1's photo
Fri 07/11/08 01:12 AM
look for the one's who shows their weiner like me bigsmile

sugarbunsss's photo
Fri 07/11/08 01:15 AM
laugh laugh

feistybaby's photo
Fri 07/11/08 01:20 AM
I have to say I should probably take a look at this one on a different level myself. I think that it is the opposites attract rule in action. I attract flirts and people who are attention hounds. And I know going in that while I find it funny in general that it won't work for me in a relationship. I just don't have it in me to share "my guy" with the masses in the flirt arena. So why do I persist in trying to believe I can learn to live with it? Not happening.....


frustrated frustrated frustrated

brooke007's photo
Fri 07/11/08 01:21 AM
gewt a lie detecter kit and avoid guys that frequently drinkbiggrin biggrin

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 07/11/08 09:52 AM
Let the person know when you are talking with them that drinking is an issue for you & that you expect Honesty & open communication....

I demand that & will bring up most any topic or whatever is on my mind....it usually takes women back a step or two at first cause they are not used to it....but it is also refreshing to know that uninhibited conversation brings people closer & is much more intimate...

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