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DestinysDream
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 how can you have one without the other ...you must make friends first....the rest will follow...I'm just not rushing it thats all ...I want it though !! Yup I totally agree with you and izzie is proof it will hit you when you least expect it. I really believe that to be true. |
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it will be whatever it is. at least it's fun.
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I'm curious how many times those who are giving up have been in love here. I will never give up. 3 1st one killed himself about 3 years ago 2nd was my high school sweet heart..grew up grew apart and 3rd ive known since i was 10 is now a meth head Did you meet them all here? That's a rough road to haul.  nah pretty much have known them my whole life i have meant some really good friends here but know better then to fall for someone 2000 miles away or over the net |
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Edited by
DestinysDream
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Wed 07/09/08 10:45 PM
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I'm curious how many times those who are giving up have been in love here. I will never give up. 3 1st one killed himself about 3 years ago 2nd was my high school sweet heart..grew up grew apart and 3rd ive known since i was 10 is now a meth head Did you meet them all here? That's a rough road to haul. nah pretty much have known them my whole life i have meant some really good friends here but know better then to fall for someone 2000 miles away or over the net Dunno, that sounds a little defeatist hon. I know what you are saying about distance. I've talked to others who say it can work. Its the lack of passion(touching) that is the problem. The intimacy(mental) and commitment parts of love can be had long distance. Triangular Theory of Love http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Companionate_love |
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I do not have any expectations.. Never did.. I'm just here to mingle2..
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I'm curious how many times those who are giving up have been in love here. I will never give up. 3 1st one killed himself about 3 years ago 2nd was my high school sweet heart..grew up grew apart and 3rd ive known since i was 10 is now a meth head Did you meet them all here? That's a rough road to haul. nah pretty much have known them my whole life i have meant some really good friends here but know better then to fall for someone 2000 miles away or over the net Dunno, that sounds a little defeatist hon. I know what you are saying about distance. I've talked to others who say it can work. Its the lack of passion(touching) that is the problem. The intimacy(mental) and commitment parts of love can be had long distance. Triangular Theory of Love http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Companionate_love that actually makes sense! |
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i agree..
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rather explains how so many fall in love online.. a continent apart....
tho i have met mine in person..and have spent time with him.. he spends a majority of his time away.. (in cali now.. and utah before) so we still havent spent much time together... doesnt make me love him any less tho.. |
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 too many weirdos..........
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Love is a paradox, something that no one can truly understand in the moment...but eventually do down the road. It doesn't exist, it co-exists. Whereas two people have to share the mutual feeling, if not then love is not truly there just lust. You can take this and throw it away but from studying all the people I have studied few things can break love, but a lot of things can seperate lust.
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I learned of it in this class I took in college. It makes perfect sense to me too. The lack of touch is what tears people apart in long distance relationships. Someone who made one work for several years told me meeting every two months is what kept it going.
Never give up and never discount someone because of distance. Love can strike you at any time. You'll never know when. Be yourself, stay honest and let things happen in their own time. There are dates you can do long distance. Watch the same movie or TV show at the same time. Play an online game. Chat, email, text message, use your cell phone, use Skype, webcams, even cyber if you are into it can provide an instant verification of your love for another. You need to get to physical contact that will be the problem. |
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Haven't given up on love....but the order is chat & friends & anything else is icing on the cake.... 
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